This one girl
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Just try to impress her by doing cool things like lifting huge weights and flexing your biceps in public.
Sure to get her attention.
Sure to get her attention.
took the words right off my monitor.TriggerUnhappy said:
Since you use the phrase 'girl of my dreams' it kind of makes me wonder if you are taking her 'super' nice gestures out of context. What does she do that you consider flirting and how is she acting like she wants to go out with you?SnucklesMan said:
Ignore her, completely reject the advances. If she tries harder she is actually interested, if she loses interest, she's not.
No offense but you will discover that MOST girls are like this.
She sounds like a b***** actually. Still flirting with you after she said she's not interested. Clearly she likes the attention.
I'd tell her to stop being so insensitive and start at the very least acting like a friend.
She probably just considers you "her boyfriend replacement".
When she's lonely she's all flirtatious with you, but when she finds someone else you will be left in the dust my friend.
The heart wants what it wants so I won't say "get over it". I will say that maybe you should take her off of that girl of your dreams pedastal and look at her from a much more realistic perspective :
That she's a tease.
Then at least you'll see that she's not this perfect person that you are making her out to be (no one is, ourselves included).
Good luck.
She sounds like a b***** actually. Still flirting with you after she said she's not interested. Clearly she likes the attention.
I'd tell her to stop being so insensitive and start at the very least acting like a friend.
She probably just considers you "her boyfriend replacement".
When she's lonely she's all flirtatious with you, but when she finds someone else you will be left in the dust my friend.
The heart wants what it wants so I won't say "get over it". I will say that maybe you should take her off of that girl of your dreams pedastal and look at her from a much more realistic perspective :
That she's a tease.
Then at least you'll see that she's not this perfect person that you are making her out to be (no one is, ourselves included).
Good luck.
I second this notion!Victory7 said:
On a more serious note, this is sound advice. I'd probably follow this if I was your position.Soren91 said:
OP: Nice avatar.
She sounds like a ***** who's either toying with your emotions, or trying to make someone else jealous.
Sorry, dude, but that's most likely true.
Sorry, dude, but that's most likely true.
I guess you just ignore it at move on. I know it sounds hard, but she maybe doing this to get a reaction and toy with you. Stick to your guns
if she's six, than it might have to do with the self portrait that you use as your avatar.
but assuming you're not pedo bear, than just be good friends with her and next time a "romantic" moment pops up, ask her out.
but assuming you're not pedo bear, than just be good friends with her and next time a "romantic" moment pops up, ask her out.
You may be mis interpreting her talking to you as flirting.
Either this is your bad because your mind has placed her in "Girl of my dreams" mode.
Or she just is that way...some girls flirt without thinking about it man. You have to tell the difference.
I feel old right now...few things do that. What I'm saying is your 14, you aint seen nothin yet boi!
Either this is your bad because your mind has placed her in "Girl of my dreams" mode.
Or she just is that way...some girls flirt without thinking about it man. You have to tell the difference.
I feel old right now...few things do that. What I'm saying is your 14, you aint seen nothin yet boi!
When she said no, you should have responded with "Good job I didn't need your opinion then".
But in all seriousness I'm in exactly the same boat and it is absolute mental torture - the type which should be banned under the Geneva convention.
But in all seriousness I'm in exactly the same boat and it is absolute mental torture - the type which should be banned under the Geneva convention.
Best advice I can give it to try to get out of the "girl of my dreams" mentality. You can still like her, of course, but always turn the rational eye to what she says, don't blindly accept anything because of your crush, you may be seeing romantic subtext where there is none. Trust me, I learned that the hard way. All the same, it may be best that you tell us how she's flirting, there may be romantic subtext after all.