Phasmal said:
Regnes said:
How would you solve that? That's confusing to me.
Was trying to think of it myself. Do you think it is the right of a man to demand the lady get an abortion? Just wondering.
Well it's the woman's right to choose whether not to be a mother, but it's very hypocritical to be fighting for that right and at the same time look down upon men who don't want to be a father. In fact, while it's legal in most places to have an abortion, it is also law that if you impregnate a woman and she desires your involvement, you HAVE to be a father.
It stems from outdated ideology that if a woman is impregnated, she will without a doubt have a baby. Men were expected to help support that child whether they wanted it or not. After all, shit happens, the woman didn't choose to have the baby either, it's unfair that she has to support it all on her own when you were involved in it's creation.
However, these days, it is only an aspect of morality that is being challenged, in most places it is the legal right of women to have an abortion, it is now her choice. So now instead of both parties equally having no say in the matter, it is solely the decision of the woman whether she will allow a pregnancy to be carried out. Now that it is her decision, it is unfair to expect men to financially support this decision if they had no say in the matter but she did.
They fight for a morality debate while men are legally oppressed by the very same rights they enjoy today. Simplest solution, child support should not be law, it should be a moral decision made by men.
EDIT:
Well, actually child support should still be law under certain circumstances. Like if you were married, had a kid and then separated. Though it would be trickier to determine similar scenarios involving unmarried couples.