Paksenarrion said:
Brutal Peanut said:
I had wanted to learn piano, but the piano teacher was unimpressed by my fingers. She said they were 'too small', and a bit stubby. "Unless your fingers are suddenly going to grow long and thin - I don't think you'll be able to play as well as you'd like."
I also wanted to learn to the play the drums, but my Mother said that wasn't an instrument for girls, and she wouldn't allow it.
Sheesh. I just never bothered after that.
Wow. No, anyone can play songs on the piano. There are a large variety of songs that can be played for all hand sizes.
Also, the probable reason your mom didn't want you to play drums was that it would be too loud. If she had said that, you might have been dead set on learning it, but that's just my guess.
I've been told pretty much the same thing growing up. That the piano teacher was just being severely unkind. Perhaps she just didn't like
me, but that was a long time ago and I've since learned that I could have continued trying to learn piano, but with a different instructor.
I had assumed that about my Mother also, but from how I was raised - I am more inclined to believe it was her incredibly controlling nature. Also, she said she would have been fine with the clarinet or the violin instead of the drums, which lead me to believe that it wasn't just the sound. Since both those instruments can be eardrum shatteringly unpleasant, at first.