And ya know, I'm realizing, at last, it's not Anita I'm getting angry with, it's all the people who do this sort of illogical shit. Watching Anita's videos are a bit like slamming my head against a brick wall, in my personal and honest opinion. Why? It's basically what she doesn't say rather then what she does, and the way she got her videos up. (Which, beyond reasonable doubt, was through troll baiting and funneling the resulting hatred into just the right place to play the victim and rake in the moolah) But all that pain pales in comparison to trying to get my points across to reading the comments (Where you can, anyway) which feels more like smacking my head against a fucking LANDMINE. Trying to talk to people who think a few trolls are all that are standing up against her, to make valid points even while their minds rush to the idea that I'm just a female hating bigot who can't imagine playing Call of Duty or LoZ as a FEMALE, that I'm some sort of misogamist troglodyte that doesn't want to see progression in video gaming, talking to people who are under the impression that because Anita can give some "concrete facts" (with a few bits missing, but still, right?) that she should be defended to the death or something, is outright fucking depressing.
Here's what I think: If you're supporting females in games, that's fine. Personally, right now, I think the industry is in a sorry state in terms of that. What with that stuff revealed recently about it being hard as shit to get a female in a game with that most disgusting and unprofitable things as a stable relationship, it's clear the industry - or at least the big PR departments that OK games based on profit potential alone - need to seriously change their attitudes before the entire thing falls in on their heads. But supporting Anita, a woman who, never mind offering solutions, has not even addressed these issues, (And I don't see how she really could, short of just chucking the current format away or doing this as a side video) isn't helping. It isn't forward movement, and hell, It may not even be 100% standing still, because what with all the criticisms that have to be leveled, some people in PR might just get the idea that no, we really DO hate women and hope they go away!
And if you don't read this, declare it TL

R? Fine. Whatever. I'm not even sure you deserve to be made to read it anyway, because really, this wasn't directed at you alone - Your comment is a tiny little thing, it doesn't really require or even deserve this kind of mass breakdown of everything wrong with the idea. this comment is, in essence, a culmination of 8 or 9 months of watching people jump into this thing and say some of the most illogical things, directed in one direction, I.E. You. Is that petty? Sure. That's why I say you probably don't deserve or need it.
And if you agree with her? Fine. I have my issues, but at the same time, I can understand how people would agree with her. Even if you're doing it to make gaming look better, that's OK! I don't mind that, either, 'cause honestly I would like it if gaming in general got a bit more respect by, ya know, anyone besides us. But if you're going to get illogical about it, if you're going to stiffen discussion by discrediting a side with logical fallacies, that needs to be addressed, and it's doing no favors to anyone.