What is considered manly? Being manly isn't what other people consider you to be, it is what YOU consider yourself to be. If you try to tell yourself that you are less than what you are meant to be because of what other people say than that isn't manly at all. It destroys your confidence to think that.
I cry when I read a sad part in a book or watch a sad part in a movie.
I consider myself to be a scholar, and by many depictions of "Manliness" I am supposed to be out there scoring with chicks and know every: tool, gun, and vehicle/part like the back of my hand. However ever since I can remember I have been in my house with no social ties and have been writing books ever since.
I watch My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, but that is because it is: Awesome, Awesome, Awesome, some more Awesome, and to top it off, very manly despite feminine vibes (Plus as a childrens cartoon, it is something that children can ACTUALLY learn from, as well as still have a good laugh from. It isn't stupid like most other cartoons that are nothing but vulgar messes that teach bad manners).
I have never had a girlfriend, nor have I ever had sex. But with the way I wish to live out my life, I care little for such things and am ready to carry on without such things.
I can 'patiently' cook, but by all accounts this is an extremely manly thing. Those who say it isn't manly simply just have a different mindset, and often shows that they are Mooches.
I'm sappy and romantic; though that usually goes to waste anyways, so I'm letting it die to make room for something else (To gain a feat you must sacrifice another)
So there you have it. Do you feel better now? A 'Man' who tells you who a man is isn't a man but a child wishing to become a man. This is why I am waiting for Humanity to grow up, but I fear it will be long past my lifetime until 'all' of Humanity does grow up. Just remember that you're an individual and you're entitled to be different no matter what culture you belong to. If they don't like it, than bugger with them I say and be who you want to be with no fear and head held high.