Two men hugging means they're gay?
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Not unless it's one of those awkwardly long ones (jokingly long ones are fine) or the hold me type hugs.
Most hugs are fine, I hug my friends, male or female, all the time, hence the name
Hugs are fine, there's nothing gay about them. Most people who say there is are just too afraid of being perceived as gay.
Most hugs are fine, I hug my friends, male or female, all the time, hence the name
Hugs are fine, there's nothing gay about them. Most people who say there is are just too afraid of being perceived as gay.
In this context, something can only be "gay" if it's being done with gay intent. So, if you're not gay, nothing you can do, up to and including having sex with a man*, is actually gay.
*It would raise the question of why, exactly, you were having sex with him, but the definition stands.
*It would raise the question of why, exactly, you were having sex with him, but the definition stands.
Really funny this was posted.
Yesterday I went to photograph an event and I started to have a conversation with a fellow photographer I have seen around. He was French and had a thick accent but was really nice. We talked to the subway together and had to catch different trains. To say goodbye he hugged me and for about two seconds I thought "whoa! whats he doing!" and than afterwords I saw the look on his face and thought..."he's just friendly, why am I thinking something like this?"
I got onto the train and noticed some teenagers giving me a look but I just ignored it.
Yesterday I went to photograph an event and I started to have a conversation with a fellow photographer I have seen around. He was French and had a thick accent but was really nice. We talked to the subway together and had to catch different trains. To say goodbye he hugged me and for about two seconds I thought "whoa! whats he doing!" and than afterwords I saw the look on his face and thought..."he's just friendly, why am I thinking something like this?"
I got onto the train and noticed some teenagers giving me a look but I just ignored it.
It depends on why your doing it and how your doing it. The only time I can remember hugging any males outside of family is my bestfriend during our graduation. If your throwing your arms around another guys neck, its gay. If your doing the handshake into a one arm hug then its all good.
Well, unless it was a sexual hug then no it's not gay, Also i'm gay but I hug plenty of people that aren't & they don't give a damn
I've always considered it a bit weird to hug someone (of either gender) you aren't "involved" with. Though I have friends (again, of both genders) who'd consider it normal. Which weirds me out!
Of course, hugging a male friend you don't need to worry about... how to put this nicely... "certain natural reactions taking place". No worse way for a girl to find out that you think they're attractive! D=
(well, there are worse ways, but it's the worst that you risk on a day-to-day basis!)
Of course, hugging a male friend you don't need to worry about... how to put this nicely... "certain natural reactions taking place". No worse way for a girl to find out that you think they're attractive! D=
(well, there are worse ways, but it's the worst that you risk on a day-to-day basis!)
Yes, but patting another guy on the arse while playing a sport isn't. :/
Most men, I assume, would find hugging another man, outside of the "bro hug" (clasping the fist and then patting on the back), a little uncomfortable and possibly call it a "gay act". However, they find nothing wrong with the example mentioned in my first line. Bit strange, eh?
Just in case you don't get my point; No. I don't think it's a gay thing for a guy to hug another guy unless is specifically for a gay purpose. For example: You get aroused by it, you're in a relationship, etc.
Most men, I assume, would find hugging another man, outside of the "bro hug" (clasping the fist and then patting on the back), a little uncomfortable and possibly call it a "gay act". However, they find nothing wrong with the example mentioned in my first line. Bit strange, eh?
Just in case you don't get my point; No. I don't think it's a gay thing for a guy to hug another guy unless is specifically for a gay purpose. For example: You get aroused by it, you're in a relationship, etc.
Ok, I can't seem to embed this, so I'll just provide the link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmhPHEBKCFQ&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmhPHEBKCFQ&feature=related
I hug my best friends all the time. but it depends on the mannor on which you do it. If you hug simplely then its normal. If you hugg them and swing them in a circle with your arms that is gay
I dont find it gay, but then again, I dont find anything sexual in a huge period.
Everyone needs a hug at one point or another. Just to let them know that they have someone there that they can lean back on and feel supported.
Everyone needs a hug at one point or another. Just to let them know that they have someone there that they can lean back on and feel supported.
