I know a few people younger then me who are just as mature as i am ((15-16)), but i can pick out a dozen who arnt. Its one of those situations where it tends to be 1/30 who are able to handle it. Im sure you could flip through an average sized year book and pick out dozens of people who couldent handle most adult or mature themes. But then you can really only point out a few who are generally mature enough to understand it.Jkudo said:Trust me i know what kind of parents we have today. I know that many just don't care or at least don't care that much at this point, but i prefer to stay away from all or nothing scenarios. Even as i wrote that i knew it was unlikely, maybe impossible, but if the parents don't care then someone has to make them. It's allowing parents to not care that creates idiots and bullies in the first place. Stopping them from playing games isn't going to make them better people. If the parents are raising kids like this then they will just be awful someplace else.kouriichi said:I think your asking a bit much with that. Considering ((what i belive is anyway)) 70% or more of parents these days cant even talk to theyer kids about sex, what makes you think theyer going to care enough to talk to them about video games, or even care about such a thing?Jkudo said:Well since it is impossible to gauge every child or teen's level of maturity i think it should be up to the parents. Society just needs to encourage them to be parents and informed ones.kouriichi said:I mute everyone as fast as possible, but it is true.
They complain games cause violance, and all these bad things, but they dont inforce it one bit
I belive children shouldnt play 18 and older games, weather theyer parents purchase them or not. And i honestly think this should be enforced.
Im only 19, and i think this. Because its something that needs to be done before things really get out of hand.
I dont care that kids play games online, i dont care if theyer 12, 15, or 17. The problem is that theyer playing adult games, with adult themes.
You can trust parents with this, really only as much as you can trust the kids with it. The kid can say, "Oh, when they say blood and gore, they mean like the kind in a PG-13 movie" ((not kidding, ive heard a kid say that before and the mother accually belive it)) and the parent wont have any clue if hes telling the truth or not. Because the truth is, most parents dont really care anymore.
Its something i really belive is an all or nothing situation, because you cant determine if a child is ready for that kind of content, or if a parent even cares if theyer child is exposed to that kind of stuff.
Honestly i still don't think that your age can indicate you're maturity all the time. I mean the 10-13 year olds on xbox live don't really bother me. I find them funny if anything. I am in shock at how young they are and usually how high their voice is at first. I think "they really shouldn't be playing this game just based on the things they are saying", BUT what annoys me to no end is hearing people my own age(16). When i hear someone who sounds as if they are anywhere near my age group spouting some nonsense it kills me. I mute right away. People are the reason i don't like multiplayer games. Even though i am underage, i would probably enjoy multiplayer gaming more if minors didn't play. So i can see where you are coming from, in fact if i was a few years older i would probably feel the same way, despite the fact that i believe i am emotionally mature enough to handle any game on the market.
I mean, im sure if they spent a few months, they could come up with a test to see if someone is able to handle adult themes, but it wouldent be accurate, and even worse, many people would try to cheat on it.
Its one of those things where you have to consider the mental welfare of the many, then the addictions of the few.