unlucky with love

[Gaz6231]

I call shenanigans on this thread. Anyone being honest on here has been trolled.

I was leaning towards that myself.

'course it didn't stop me laying the truth down. >_>

 

[khaimera]

I call shenanigans on this thread. Anyone being honest on here has been trolled.

I was leaning towards that myself.

'course it didn't stop me laying the truth down. >_>

Lay it down you did. Then I made it easier to understand for the dumber escapees

We've done good work

 

[Hawk eye1466]

dont worry about it if your a nice charming person people will love you thats how i got my girlfriend she was a huge ***** that fucked up half of freshman year but that just proves that you shouldnt rush into anything (and that i can be a massive idiot sometimes) but im a few days away from taking my drivers test i have a new friend that could become more soon
but the point is dont worry everything happens in its own time trying to rush towards it will show you that you missed something very important
but now i sound like a complete tool so im going to stop here

 

[Icarion (aka Stockholm)]

Ironic. I just spilled my guts to someone I like literally 2 hours ago. And then i find thsi thread. And I didn't really get a concrete answer. I won't turn down pity but all of my friends and me are going through a wierd few weeks

Is there a thread on this forum that doesn't begin with or dissolve into depression and self-loathing?

Just because I lost my virginity at 16 to a girlfriend I was with for two years doesn't make me a better man than you are. It just means I had sex with a girl, big whoop.

Go buy some Warhammer and quit moping.

And this answer might be a very good solution.
And if I may offer an opinion, I was the antisocial never did shit 7th grader. I then reimagined my self and kinda transformed. If you're really desperate, shed your cocoon and become that person you feel you would date. I mean don't sacrafice your individuality or anything just put forth a little more effort. Shit going back and reading this post I feel like a presumptious bastard. Sorry if I come across that way. Just trying to help

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

Don't worry, nothing is wrong with you. Get into the game when you're comfortable.

I was 17 when I started dating. I haven't been successful as I don't have a girlfriend anymore but that doesn't matter. The universe and my charms will eventually lead me to the girl I'll live with forever.

 

[Icarion (aka Stockholm)]

i just finished reading the scott pilgrim comics and thought to myself how nice it would be to have a girl in my life. suddenly it dawned on me that i havent ever had a girlfreind, or like anything even resembling that sort of relationship with a girl. its not like im some forty year old virgin (brilliant film) but i cant help but feel that at eighteen i really should have done a little more by this point. wondering have you guys ever gotten that sort of feeling or have you always had gals/guys in your more intimate life

same case
same age
it sucks

but I'm the pathetic person that doesn't even get hugs

and was so different he got kicked out of school because they couldn't suspend half the school

*hugs* It'll be okay. The social part of high school doesn't count for much. And you can look back at those assholes and laugh when they're drunk in the gutter and you've got a good job and a nice family

 

[archvile93]

No never. It take a lot of work, requires high amounts of luck, and in the end you really don't get much of anything.

 

[SeriousSquirrel]

Join the club...I have had TERRIBLE luck, though I still have 2-1/2 years of highschool left before I consider my self a total failure of love (kidding, no offense meant to anyone who made it through highschool without a girlfriend/boyfriend)

Edit: I end up as the huggable friend, but that's about it. Just saying that I have some friends who are girls, I'm not a complete loser with the ladies (again, no offense meant to anyone without any friends who happen to be of the opposite gender. Just saying)

Bawwwww, you would consider yourself a failure if you didn't have a girlfriend before you graduated highschool? i understand there is alot of pressure from peers and society in general but its not the end of the world. Highschool is a very very very very small portion of your life.

I said failure of love, I meant this with a sarcastic tone. Curse me and my sarcasm...

OT:In reality, it's true that your better off not looking for it. The more you focus on it the worse failure will feel.

 

[Gaz6231]

Besides, this is the internet. It has all the ass and boobies you could ever want.

 

[philosophicalbastard]

And if I may offer an opinion, I was the antisocial never did shit 7th grader. I then reimagined my self and kinda transformed. If you're really desperate, shed your cocoon and become that person you feel you would date. I mean don't sacrafice your individuality or anything just put forth a little more effort. Shit going back and reading this post I feel like a presumptious bastard. Sorry if I come across that way. Just trying to help

Holy shit! Thats exactly what I did in 6-7th grade, only it was less due to looking for love and more because of watching Gurren Lagann (atleast one tenth of my posts so far probably mention Gurren Lagann. Damn, I'm obsessed with it.)

 

[Icarion (aka Stockholm)]

Ironic. I just spilled my guts to someone I like literally 2 hours ago. And then i find thsi thread. And I didn't really get a concrete answer. I won't turn down pity but all of my friends and me are going through a wierd few weeks

Did you ask her out?

Maybe spent some time doing an activity?

I mean that approach works, but it's emotionally draining for everyone involved.

Ehh, its complicated but one of my friends just broke up with his gf of like 3 years and has now set his sites on her. I mean I grew up with this guy. I don't really wanna cock block him. So uhhh I told her how I feel and maybe after the weekend I'll ask her out.

 

[Icarion (aka Stockholm)]

And if I may offer an opinion, I was the antisocial never did shit 7th grader. I then reimagined my self and kinda transformed. If you're really desperate, shed your cocoon and become that person you feel you would date. I mean don't sacrafice your individuality or anything just put forth a little more effort. Shit going back and reading this post I feel like a presumptious bastard. Sorry if I come across that way. Just trying to help

Holy shit! Thats exactly what I did in 6-7th grade, only it was less due to looking for love and more because of watching Gurren Lagann (atleast one tenth of my posts so far probably mention Gurren Lagann. Damn, I'm obsessed with it.)

I did more in search of friends and because of watching That 70s Show. I mean shitty catalyst but you know, what works works. I though "Damn that looks like fun I should do that. I only need a Donna, (maybe) a Jackie, A Kelso, a Foreman, and a Red Foreman. Not to mention a Fez. And a sweet hippy van."

 

[cWg | Konka]

I end up as the huggable friend, but that's about it. Just saying that I have some friends who are girls, I'm not a complete loser with the ladies

To be frank being the "huggable friend" makes you a epic loser, its like when a girls says they love you but only like a brother

 

[Jake the Snake]

Relationships...well, girls, don't get me wrong are nice to be around. They smell better, have very soft skin, are usually nicer than most men...oh and the boobs. Can't forget about the boobs. But trust me, its a headache that can be very tiring to deal with especially in High School (My last two relationships have taught me that most girls in High School, no matter how smart, all have an off the charts, bafflingly high amount of crazy). Don't feel bad. You're 18, you get to go to college soon. I mean cmon man, anything can happen in college. Go with the flooooooow!

 

[Aeterna]

I've felt the same way bro, I'm 17 and never had a girlfriend, still get some here and there though, but I'm also usually the 'huggable friend' among my female friends, which is kinda good but fuckin sucks when u like one of them.

 

[SeriousSquirrel]

I end up as the huggable friend, but that's about it. Just saying that I have some friends who are girls, I'm not a complete loser with the ladies

To be frank being the "huggable friend" makes you a epic loser, its like when a girls says they love you but only like a brother

Thanks for shredding the last piece of confidence I had left, totaly didn't need it or anything

 

[Blue_vision]

I've felt the same way. But then I usually realize that I don't actually need a girlfriend. It probably doesn't apply to everyone else, but I'm perfectly happy the way I am now. I've got a bunch of friends, even plenty of girls that are friends, and I don't feel like I need a single person that deserves so much more than others. I'd be open to it if I got asked out by a girl (not likely,) or if I could see some real interest from somebody, but I just see everyone as friends to love.

So I suppose no, I haven't really felt that way OP.

 

[AgentDarkmoon]

My boyfriend and I were both each other's first significant others, and we met and started going out at the beginning of freshman year of college.

Edit: my point is, there's a good chance you'll meet someone when you're not expecting anything and it will turn out spectacular. When you're trying, you might be trying too hard.

 

[philosophicalbastard]

And if I may offer an opinion, I was the antisocial never did shit 7th grader. I then reimagined my self and kinda transformed. If you're really desperate, shed your cocoon and become that person you feel you would date. I mean don't sacrafice your individuality or anything just put forth a little more effort. Shit going back and reading this post I feel like a presumptious bastard. Sorry if I come across that way. Just trying to help

Holy shit! Thats exactly what I did in 6-7th grade, only it was less due to looking for love and more because of watching Gurren Lagann (atleast one tenth of my posts so far probably mention Gurren Lagann. Damn, I'm obsessed with it.)

I did more in search of friends and because of watching That 70s Show. I mean shitty catalyst but you know, what works works. I though "Damn that looks like fun I should do that. I only need a Donna, (maybe) a Jackie, A Kelso, a Foreman, and a Red Foreman. Not to mention a Fez. And a sweet hippy van."

Oddly enogh I've started to take relationship advice from the show Dexter (HBO seies with the serial killer blood anylist), I wonder what shows people take cues from unconciously.