Vegosiux said:
Therumancer said:
I'm not going to argue this, since I already know people won't like what I'm saying on these forums.
Standard tactics again, I see. If you participate in a discussion, expect to have your position challenged. Putting up a wall of text then going "but whatever, not going to argue here" is just trying to get out of the debate without having to back up your points should they be challenged. There's a line about cake that would be fitting, but I hate that line.
What people "don't like" about you arent your points, it's your passive-aggressive attitude, your unwillingness to participate in proper debate, how you talk about people "not liking what you're saying" before anyone even replies. You know, a lot of us here are quite capable of respectful disagreement, provided there's a basic level of respect and civility extended from the other side as well.
Or in other words, unless you're willing to back up your points with some proper sources, you might as well not open your mouth at all, because your glorious greatness is worth jack squat around here, and nobody's going to take what you said at face value, just because
you said it.
Oh also, strawmen are bad, mkay? Please, either discuss things properly, or don't discuss at all, it's rude to disrupt other people's conversations with random throw-ins you yourself don't care about enough to stand behind.
I shall continue to do what I've been doing thank you, there are some solid reasons behind the current trend which I have explained before.
Among other things I will point out that pretty much everything I have said on these forums is easily defensible and indeed I've pretty much won every serious debate I've been in here by any objective standard. I have simply grown tired of lengty, circular discussions with people insisting that the sky is green, and wanting to dismiss anything anyone says that disagrees with them. Present a source? Well that source is biased because it disagrees with them. Then come the attempts to derail things with a flame war and yeah... no thanks. Those keeping track might notice I actually made a New Years resolution on the subject. I suppose if someone was to actually come up with something you know, new, valid, and thought provoking on some of these topics, and put it up anyway they might get me to do more than just make a statement for the purposes of balance nowadays, but really I see more QQing about the fact that I'm not going to argue nonsense with people. I long ago established my credentials in these forums, whether anyone wants to accept that or not (and yes I imagine right now the peanut gallery is revving up to make flames about how those credentials are objectively negative ones).
It's more or less like this. When we throw around an issue like gay rights, the typical "defense" you see is that allegedly experts have "proven" that my arguements are false and that gay men aren't more likely to attack children than anyone else. These "experts" of course being respected and carrying weight among those making the arguement simply because they happen to be saying what the poster wants to believe or happens to reinforce the arguement they are trying to make. In reality anyone with half a brain knows that no such research has ever truely been conducted because it is simply put impossible to do under our current system. By and large any kind of research has to be conducted using volunteers or publically accessible information. When your dealing with these kinds of trends towards criminal behavior you by definition need to be empowered to violate any and all privacy rights, and snoop people by the millions in order to track their trends. A "study" conducted from 1,000 volunteers or whatever isn't going to tell you crap because there is no way to guarantee they are revealing their secrets. To find out you need to have people who are totally unaware of you, and to be able to dig into what they are doing when they think nobody is around. Even police files don't work for this kind of thing because they by definition only involve people who "slipped up" and were investigated, and in general there are limitations on what someone can access for purposes of a study. Those who have the authority to snoop on people generally have it very carefully regulated, and can't do it on a massive scale, and what they find out in general outside of the scope of an investigation can't be released.
The point here being that anyone who has the abillity to give real information on the subject can't reveal it, and nobody has the authority to gather that kind of information on a massive enough scale. You'd pretty much have to give the goverment (as it would take govermental resources) carte blanche to snoop anyone and everything and then compile files on the trends and release that information publically.
In the final equasion the only person who has any right to an opinion on a subject like that is someone who has had investigative authority in some context, even if that is not what they were looking into specifically. They might have SOME idea of what's going on, but no scientist or "expert" without it ever will. This applies to most social issues. It's also incidently why I hold the general position that such experience should be a pre-requisite for holding public office, or any kind of job that can create or modify policy within the goverment. It's also why I've given the rather "hateful" middle-ground position on gay rights that we should impose laws allowing this kind of tracking and information gathering, largely because then such information could be compiled in an official context, on a large enough scale to make a differance.
The point here not being the gay rights arguement (which I'm not going to get into again here) but the simple fact that beyond a certain point there is no real reason for me to conduct it anymore. I by definition do not consider any sources other than those coming from those with the right kinds of surveillance authorities to be valid. What I say is based on personal experience from having done such a job. The other side is thus in the position of either accepting what I have to tell them as someone who can actually claim first hand experience, or to call me a liar, and honestly if they think I'm a liar then we have nothing to talk about anyway.
Most arguements come down to the same basic thing, but in other ways. You trust your sources, I trust mine, and/or I am speaking from personal experience. "You" can state your side, and I'll state mine, but I see no real purpose in argueing about it other than to see how long a circular arguement can be kept going until whomever I'm talking to starts trying to turn it into a flame war because they can't handle it. Why bother?
Maybe if someone has something new to say, or something I'm going to take seriously, things will change. Right now, I'm just going to do the mature thing, say my piece for balance, and move on.
I'll also confess that a lot of it has to do with boredom in conducting the same, go-nowhere arguements again and again. I still feel the need to make some statements for balance, but I don't feel any pressing need to spend 72 hours or so argueing about the same garbage, in the same way.