views about sexual assault on men

[WolfmanNougat]

It depends more on the individual than the the sex, really.
Me, I was victim to assault for quite a while. Kept encountering this girl who played dirty, I just went with it for a while, but eventually it really did get uncomfortable and I did indeed open up and admit that it just wasn't right.
I got over it after a while. Some people still bring it up, I just shrug it off, pulling the ol' "yeah whatever, I got some". Hell if I'm in the right mindset I can get a little flirty when talking to girls.

I can understand how assault would affect people, but claiming that men care less about it than women do... pardon the obvious statement, but that's bullshit.

 

[TikiShades]

You can't rape the willing.
Most men are willing.

Therefore, you can't rape men.

Transitive property failed.

And it always makes me laugh when I hear that a man is not afraid of being raped. It isn't common, but it can still happen.

You say you are "willing", but how "willing" are you to EVERYTHING? Do you like nails being stuck in you? How about in... "places where it hurts" or something else being stuck... somewhere else? What if she takes your "something" and puts it in your "somewhere"? Most rapists have knives you know.

Just think of all the ways you can feel pain, and then rethink if rape is scary. While a woman may experience a "traumatic" experience, a man can be left with less than he had, if you catch my drift.

And who said that it would be a woman raping a man?

 

[Trivun]

You can't rape the willing.
Most men are willing.

Therefore, you can't rape men.

No, that's a completely untrue statement. I sincerely hope you were being sarcastic there.

Women can be raped. We all know that, we all accept that. A sad fact, and not one anybody condones, but sadly a true fact nonetheless. However, there seems to be an idea that a woman cannot rape a man. That is also untrue. Last I heard, the law in the UK states that a woman cannot be charged for rape, only for sexual assault. There are two ways in which a man can be raped though. One, they're raped anally by another man. That's generally seen as the worst case for most men. However, the second way is for a woman to rape a man, simply use Viagra or some other drug and trick the guy into taking it. Then rape is possible, even though the guy is unwilling he'll still have an erection from the Viagra or Viagra-type drug that he was drugged with. Hence the law stands as being incorrect.

Thing is though, rape should never be condoned and in my personal view it's only a few short steps away in severity from murder. Rape is a very serious crime and should always be treated as such. Hence I disagree with rape jokes and so on, although I've made a few in my time (I severely regret them now), and basically it's a disgusting and vile act.

 

[TikiShades]

You can't rape the willing.
Most men are willing.

Therefore, you can't rape men.

No, that's a completely untrue statement. I sincerely hope you were being sarcastic there.

Women can be raped. We all know that, we all accept that. A sad fact, and not one anybody condones, but sadly a true fact nonetheless. However, there seems to be an idea that a woman cannot rape a man. That is also untrue. Last I heard, the law in the UK states that a woman cannot be charged for rape, only for sexual assault. There are two ways in which a man can be raped though. One, they're raped anally by another man. That's generally seen as the worst case for most men. However, the second way is for a woman to rape a man, simply use Viagra or some other drug and trick the guy into taking it. Then rape is possible, even though the guy is unwilling he'll still have an erection from the Viagra or Viagra-type drug that he was drugged with. Hence the law stands as being incorrect.

Thing is though, rape should never be condoned and in my personal view it's only a few short steps away in severity from murder. Rape is a very serious crime and should always be treated as such. Hence I disagree with rape jokes and so on, although I've made a few in my time (I severely regret them now), and basically it's a disgusting and vile act.

There we go. And then combine that with my argument, and we have a serious recipe for disaster.

 

[Trivun]

(Sexual abuse of minors is a different thing, I'm not talking about it here)

Ok let's set a few things straight:

1. How can a woman rape a man (without a strap-on of course)? You can't ride a limp dick, so the guy must be willing to do it, if he was really terrified, he couldn't get it hard.
2. Men are by definition physically stronger than women, except those monstrosities that are female only on their IDs, and who the hell stays in the company of such things in situations and places, where rape can occur?

I may be grossly unfair here, but I say if you are a healthy, adult, free male and you got raped by a woman, you failed so hard you deserved it.

Point 1. Ever heard of Viagra? Simply drug someone with Viagra or a similar drug and they'll be hard whether or not they're willing. No amount of fear can stop that.

Point 2. Men aren't always physically stronger than women, even when we accept your stereotype. Many strong, beefy looking guys may still be physically weaker than a smaller sized, possibly petite woman. Strength doesn't necessarily correspond to the size of your muscles, you know.

 

[HyenaThePirate]

Lol @ this thread.

Gamers will argue about anything... you crazy kids!

 

[veloper]

You can't rape the willing.
Most men are willing.

Therefore, you can't rape men.

LOL. Tell that to the big brute in black leather costume standing next to you and to the his sadist woman acquiantance with the strap-on.

 

[Caimekaze]

(Sexual abuse of minors is a different thing, I'm not talking about it here)

Ok let's set a few things straight:

1. How can a woman rape a man (without a strap-on of course)? You can't ride a limp dick, so the guy must be willing to do it, if he was really terrified, he couldn't get it hard.
2. Men are by definition physically stronger than women, except those monstrosities that are female only on their IDs, and who the hell stays in the company of such things in situations and places, where rape can occur?

I may be grossly unfair here, but I say if you are a healthy, adult, free male and you got raped by a woman, you failed so hard you deserved it.

People have used that logic to justify female rape. "She had an orgasm/was lubricating, so she must have enjoyed it!"
It's not true. Your body can act completely against your wishes. A man's erection and orgasm is a physiological thing; while it can be controlled by the mind, it's not necessarily going to be limp just because they're scared.

Also, weaponry. I'm guessing that you're a relatively large man. Would that matter if you had a knife to your throat or a gun to your head?

 

[Lonan]

I'm just going to answer the question ?What are your thoughts on male sexual assault?? (Presumably by woman)
GID-I-DY GIG-I-DY GOO!
I would pretend I was in pain just to see how far she what she would do, and enjoy every second of it.
And also, I think most judges where I live would laugh at you for being raped by a woman, and give YOU punishment for being a pussy, being raped by her again.
*edit*
It's pretty much the fantasy of every guy I have ever encountered. If two girls actually wanted you that much, and you didn't like it, all the guys I know would hate you. And I was kidding about the judge.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

(Sexual abuse of minors is a different thing, I'm not talking about it here)

Ok let's set a few things straight:

1. How can a woman rape a man (without a strap-on of course)? You can't ride a limp dick, so the guy must be willing to do it, if he was really terrified, he couldn't get it hard.

I'm not a doctor, but I'm fairly sure you could drug someone and use a penis pump or otherwise to get them hard.
At least that's what I've gathered.

Damn, I'm glad I come from a quiet little place where women plotting to kidnap and drug their unsuspecting victims and use some devilish contraptions in order to rape them is not a social issue.

I don't think it is anywhere in the world.

 

[-Orgasmatron-]

1. How can a woman rape a man (without a strap-on of course)? You can't ride a limp dick, so the guy must be willing to do it, if he was really terrified, he couldn't get it hard.

Are you a dude? If so, you might of realised you don't think "Man, I'm gunna get a boner", then you get one, it just happens, the slightest gust of wind can bring it about.

 

[Kiutu]

You can't rape the willing.
Most men are willing.

Therefore, you can't rape men.

You're an idiot. Rude way to put it, but you are. Not all men are willing. Some may have someone they care about and are faithful to and not be willing to want to do it with other women, they can be gay, they can actually not be horny bastards, they might not be interested in the girl. It is your thinking that makes it difficult for men who are raped because this view puts it on them that they should be HAPPY about being 'raped' or something.

Anyways, this feminist actually is how feminists should be. Feminists who seem more interested in putting women above men are counter-productive and any who actually wants to make men and women genuinly equal is great in my book.

 

[pdgeorge]

Kakul: in regards to point one. Guys can get a hard on no matter what. It's a thing about the body, it doesn't have to have anything to do with what the person is thinking.
Hell, girls can have orgasms during rape (real rape not that "I said yes at the time but now I am turning around and saying its rape cause I regret it" sort of rape).
You wake up with a hard on generally, randomly get one throughout the day etc. can get it just by seeing a pair of boobies. If a girl plays the the guy in different ways even if he doesn't like it it'll come to life.


Btw I was also intending to raise the question of "is it understandable for someone to get raped and then move on, or to genuinly say "I didn't mine it/I liked it" afterwards?"

 

[-Orpheus-]

If you read up on the law a bit you will see that it is not really relevant whether or not the male victim has an erection. I appreciate legislation varies from country to country but basically these offences rely on penetration of some sort and that can be with either body parts or objects.

The assumption that a male would be up for anything purely because he is male is what belittles these offences in the first place and prevents victims from reporting them. The whole point of the offence is to show power over and to degrade the victim so he is hardly likely to agree to that now is he?

 

[Ronwue]

I really don't know what to say to the feminist aside from "Sorry, but I won't feel emo if a girl rapes me." I'm not saying it's not a big issue for some and a little for others, but from what I read in the person's statement, she wanted to impose her will on how men should react to being raped. That's just wrong. If someone wants to feel like a victim let them, if someone doesn't again let them.

 

[Lonan]

Damn, I'm glad I come from a quiet little place where women plotting to kidnap and drug their unsuspecting victims and use some devilish contraptions in order to rape them are not a social issue.

How is it any different than drugging a lady and tying her up before raping her?
The only added action is to either force-feed the dude Viagra or to manually stimulate him.

Seriously, if someone is going to commit a crime, are they really going to half ass i--...
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Yes, of course they are.

I'm just going to answer the question “What are your thoughts on male sexual assault?” (Presumably by woman)
GID-I-DY GIG-I-DY GOO!
I would pretend I was in pain just to see how far she what she would do, and enjoy every second of it.
And also, I think most judges where I live would laugh at you for being raped by a woman, and give YOU punishment for being a pussy, being raped by her again.

Yes.
That is how the legal system works.
"You, a young guy in your twenties, beat up that old lady? High five!"

I didn't mean you should beat up anyone, I just said you should enjoy it, but I was being pretty unreasonable, and kind of joking.