sigh... the big 'issue' is that people can't understand each other and no amounts of gender-amalgamation/fluidity or the increasing change of what exactly 'gender' is in our society will change the fact men and women simply think differently... there is a basic underlying trend in our different thought processes that just make us see the world differently...
males see things 'simply' and are generally set into simple ways, their way of thinking is geared to focusing on a single target and doing whatever is necessary to acquire said target for whatever means for the situation, something probably hungover from our hunting days as a species...
females see things in broad strokes, as the primary caregivers for young we have to be able to multitask, we see far more in one broad stroke then any guy ever will, we're better with grasping large concepts of a situation and a higher sense of paranoia to protect us from potential predators... but this gets annoying when we see things that are 'right there' but really aren't...
guys think pinpoint whats necessary, ladies see EVERYTHING whether its immediately necessary or not...
apply this to video games (or really any situation actually):
-game requires killing to acquire target:
male view: pick up gun, shoot other guys, acquire target, get trophy...
female view: spotting every little detail of said characters, why are they doing this? what's the purpose? where's the next opponent coming from? why are there only dudes? that's really weird... this is really weird... and kinda pointless... and repetitive... i could be making food or reading something as this is rather tedious... oh, guess i killed that guy... huh... yea... meh...
-game has only male leads:
male view: squad move out...
female view: this is really gay... like so much even rue paul might have a problem... and they aren't even doing anything interesting... why am i playing this again?
-game has only female leads:
male view: odd... but okay, acquiring targets...
female view: that's... weird... okay... okay i get this, sweet chicks duking it out... and they are all wearing rediculous outfits!! are you serious?! woman where did you pull that sword out of?! seriously!! what the hell... ugh fuckit, i'mma stab that ***** for having bigger boobs then me...
-game has mixed leads:
male view: lets see, healer, tanker, dps, glass cannon... alright squad move out...
female view: -snorts- least they have some funny stuff to say... oh man, those to are eyeing each other, GET A ROOM!! HA!! oh right combat... uh... go blow stuff up nukey-dude while i watch the sideline drama...
-game has scantily clad woman as plot device:
male view: acquire woman, get new gun, kill bad guy... yes, yes, uh-huh when can i move on from this cutscene?
female view: *****'s boobs are bigger then mine -.- fuck her and fuck this game... (rival target acquired... spend rest of time trying to kill her)
-game has scantily clad male as plot device:
male view: what a pussy... (target acquired, spend rest of time trying to kill him)
female view: what a pussy... (spends rest of game trying to get him to shut up) "OR" he's so cute... i think i'll leave him in a corner just so i can look at him... no wait, he'll probably die... damn... eh, well, fuckit i'm done with this its kinda boring...
-game has child as plot device:
male view: escort mission, move target to position... as quickly as possible to not lose points...
female view: goddamnit, not another freakin' kid... fine, trying to get through this... OH WHAT THE HELL KID!! i swear when i have kids... actually no, fuckit, i think i won't have kids if they're this stupid...
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so is there a correlation between vidya-games violence/sexism to enacting violence and sexism? not on their own, no i doubt it, but like all things in life they can (like all media) provide a kind of positive/negative reinforcement to these concepts, thus encouraging/discouraging them, people without the capacity to accept they are FANTASY and NOT REAL see this as a reinforcement to do said horrible things, so it really comes down to how much of a gullible person you are...
do i see sexism in video games? yes... though is more unintentional in my opinion, this is a fantasy medium, people are going to make what the want and what they're familiar with, you can't take ANY of this literally... personally one of my FAVORITE games based solely on the art is Magna Carta, and in that all the guys were either cross-dressers/uber-burly and the ALL the women were basically bomb-shell-boobs-strippers save like one (who was probably actually a guy now that i think about it XD) that's an example of its so ridiculous its funny and in a way awesome, as the female characters weren't any more detrimented then the males... plus you can't argue with the artist, who basically said 'i just want to make beautiful people', can't argue there buddy...
is it annoy as a woman playing games? yes, but that's because most games are made predominantly by dudes and dudes have no idea how women think, back to my first point, the sexes simply see things differently, i like a game where i can make a female character as my main, i get annoyed having only dudes to pick from, my annoyed when all the chicks i 'can' pick from are 2D and just generally BAD characters in general... course that's typically followed by ALL the characters are 2d and just bad to begin with...
personally i hate the argument of 'loincloth equals stripper-outfit' it doesn't, Kratos in his man-skirt (which was typical of greek heroes and their portrayl) isn't about making him 'sexy' to woman, its about making him 'sexy' to men, loincloth for guys generally means 'primal'-beastlike-rage guy, this is a male ego-boost, not fanservice for women, some woman may see it as sexy, like some guys find bomb-shell-boobs sexy, but its not 'reeeaaally' there for us women... see clothes can 'enhance' female sex-characteristics easy (its part of our evolutionary design to attract a mate) while males is a bit more difficult (at least by censorship standards), guys show off their prowess or strength, beat up opposing males, and women find that sexy as it marks that male dominant to the other thus attractive... you can't really boil that down to a particular 'look' without slipping into male-fantasy-hero-worship and basically male-fanservice for male-egos .-. in my experience the only male character i can think of that got close to idealized female-fanservice/attractiveness without the male-hero-worship overriding it is Dante, the original, from Devil May Cry... he just kinda eeks 'i'm sexy awesome and better then all of you' and in the first game he's not even showing any skin so kinda tramples 'loincloth' vision...
so i suppose its not really "does this encourage sexism" as us women don't really get anything from our point of view and it gets rather boring after awhile, least that's my take on this argument... .-.
and please don't take that top part too seriously, just what i've seen from people i know playing the same games XD