"Wait, you like a fat chick?"

[Artemis923]

I make fun of my buddies if they pork fat chicks.

So, whatever. If you can't take someone calling your gf fat, find new friends.

Personally, I think you need to stop taking it so personal and grow a pair. If you like your fat chick, tell your buddies to go eat a dick or something.

Captcha: Grain of salt, with which you should take my opinion.

 

[Starik20X6]

I don't mind a little meat on dem bones. Hell I probably prefer it. Not roll upon roll of blubber, but a nice filled-out figure is, to me, very sexy.

Just go with whatever you like man. "Whatever floats your boat" as they say.

 

[Rule Britannia]

So long as you're not one of those people that has a fetish for it and makes him/her fatter. That doesn't sit right with me, I know it's not my business but you're affecting another person's life for your own selfish (kinda creepy) needs.

Generally I'm a "whatever floats your boat" kinda a guy

Just my opinion though. I'm not so against it that i will make a hate group; to put things in perspective.

 

[Rooster893]

That's just fucking stupid. I think girls with a bit of fat on their bones look way more attractive than skinny girls.

Exactly this.

 

[Helmholtz Watson]

Being fat is a health risk. Doesn't matter if you're "comfortable" or a "real woman" or think you're a "healthy size". You risk health problems. So NO DEAR SILLY ESCAPISTS, BEING FAT IS NOT A PERFECTLY FINE THING TO BE.

My god, this! A thousand times this!

That said,.....
I get where your friend is coming from, I think they are just looking out for you.

Because being fat is infectious?

Because it can get you made fun of, and his friend(I assume) doesn't want that to happen to him.

By being an one sided asshole?
I think not. I don't call trying to control what I find attractive looking out for me, that sounds like something a dictator would do.

lol what? He is looking out for you, quit being overly dramatic.

Let people make fun of me, I won't let that compromise what makes me happy. And, like I said before, she isn't really fat. Most of my friends are friends with her, and I don't see why any of them would make fun of me.

I guess I'm just trying to be optimistic. Think of it this way, he could have gone behind your back and talked shit about you, but instead he thought you might be made fun of, so he told you. He didn't just sit there and (from his POV) let you get in a situation where people would make fun of you. He did what any good friend should do, he saw you heading towards a bad situation(you may disagree that it was a bad situation but in his mind that's what he saw) and he wanted you to avoid it. Now disagree that it isn't a bad situation all you want, but in my opinion he thought he was helping you out. Not trying to bully you. Its like when you take the keys away from a drunk friend trying to drive home, your not trying to bully them your trying to help them.

 

[Helmholtz Watson]

Being fat is a health risk. Doesn't matter if you're "comfortable" or a "real woman" or think you're a "healthy size". You risk health problems. So NO DEAR SILLY ESCAPISTS, BEING FAT IS NOT A PERFECTLY FINE THING TO BE.

That said, your friend is a huge douche and you shouldn't be friends with him anymore.



CAPTCHA: against the grain

Being a man is a health risk.
Having kids is a health risk.
Drinking soda is a health risk.
Genetics is a health risk.

Everything you do or are heightens a risk of something down the road. By your logic everything is not fine.

That doesn't justify choosing[footnote]I'm referring to people who have the possibility to be skinny but because of their lack of exercise and diet, choose to be fat[/footnote] to be fat.

 

[Nye Roberts]

no need to be angry dude with an open minded attitude like that you'll have lots of friends and be very popular with girls your superstitial narrowminded ex friends will live lonely lives until hopefully one day they grow up or they die alone i look upon people like that with pity not anger

 

[2733]

do you really need us to confirm that your friend is a massive douche? I have a feeling you already know. Ignore his nonsense and if he says it in front of you again hit him with a newspaper until he learns. Personally I am not attracted to larger women but a good personality can trump that in an instant. Our relationship would likely be strained by the fact that I am a bit of a fitness nut so I would be trying to "fix" her all the time.

 

[lacktheknack]

Statistically, he's probably into something MUCH more WTFy than heavy people.

Anyways, my guess is that he watches waaaaaaaaaaaay too much Teen Drama TV. You know, where actually fat people don't exist.

 

[Helmholtz Watson]

Being fat is a health risk. Doesn't matter if you're "comfortable" or a "real woman" or think you're a "healthy size". You risk health problems. So NO DEAR SILLY ESCAPISTS, BEING FAT IS NOT A PERFECTLY FINE THING TO BE.

That said, your friend is a huge douche and you shouldn't be friends with him anymore.



CAPTCHA: against the grain

Being a man is a health risk.
Having kids is a health risk.
Drinking soda is a health risk.
Genetics is a health risk.

Everything you do or are heightens a risk of something down the road. By your logic everything is not fine.

That doesn't justify choosing[footnote]I'm referring to people who have the possibility to be skinny but because of their lack of exercise and diet, choose to be fat[/footnote] to be fat.

Being afraid of percentages is not justification of singling out fat people.

Hell being of a certain race has health risks that can follow you for the rest of your life. Yet I don't see people saying "don't date the darkies."

certain foods from certain races have health risks, yet I don't see people say "don't eat Mexican food."

No matter what you do, you will have health risks. You might as well pick one because you cant escape it.

Ok I choose to "escape" from being fat

 

[The Unworthy Gentleman]

What the fuck? Is there really a problem with what people find attractive? Is there really a problem with finding a girl who isn't completely skinny attractive? Why does society drive us in such stupid ways?

Wait... you like a fat chick? Dude, come on, I'm pretty liberal but there's a line. That line is no fat chicks, no ugos; and we repeat that rule until we die.

But seriously, while I follow that rule it's cool for others to not; it's not my business who you get hard for. Obviously we're a society built on attraction and on sexuality so we'll find others' attractions difficult to grasp if they're different, but it's all a part of not being a total wanker.

You don't seem to much better than your friends. You're getting angry at them for not agreeing with you and expressing their own opinion on attraction. Give them some room to talk, maybe throw in a friendly insult and be on your way. If you're willing to give up friends because of something like that then you're going to run into bigger problems than a girl just being 'out of your league.' Which, while I'm on the subject, is totally not a thing. There are no leagues, only attraction: the key is to be attractive. If you still think that attraction is based entirely on physical fitness and appearance then you have a long way to go.

At any rate, don't worry about your friends, chase this girl, roofie her, whatever you need to do, have a laugh with her and have a good time. Chances are it'll fail, make it a story of glorious defeat.

 

[Paladin Anderson]

Uggghhh, sometimes I hate people.

Sometimes? I'm, more often than not, holding in some level of rage toward the human race.

It all started in high school. I was shy and I looked different so... generic bully target story.

Move onto to college where I hurt myself playing tag football with my friends. Their insurance wouldn't allow them to house anyone who is "disabled". So they kicked me and my crutches to the curb screwing me out of my education.

Afterwards I worked glorious and fulfilling jobs in costumer service where my hatred for mankind was heated in the fires of an endless stream of belligerent asinine customers then tempered in the moronic "office politics" and lazy uselessness of my co workers.

I envy you for sometimes hating the human race. I automatically hate EVERYONE with few exceptions. I only hope we destroy ourselves before we develop space travel and spread our stupidity across the cosmos.

 

[Easton Dark]

Snip

That was the most pessimistic and out of touch post in this thread. Yay for you.

OT: So what? She's not exactly a 700lb morbidly obese monster than can't fit through doors or... walk. She's just a bit squishier than thin girls. I like girls with a little heft myself.

Your friend's a judgemental, superficial douche and cutting him off or insulting him daily is the best option.

 

[chadachada123]

I have friends that date ugly girls.

I may make a snide remark once or twice, but once my friends makes it clear that they like their girls and aren't just going for a one-night-stand, I back off, regardless of my opinion on her looks.

That said, your friend sounds like he needs some counter-trolling to make him understand how big of an ass he is currently being, if he continues to try and influence you like that.

Just make fun of any girls he finds attractive until he backs off, is my advice. Will it work? Maybe, hard to say. Depends on the type of guy he is.

A couple of remarks from him can be friendly, but if he seriously won't let it go, it's a very un-bro thing to do.

 

[Waaghpowa]

1. Your friend is stupid an immature.
2. Would the "being made fun of" angle, like someone suggested, really be a factor? If so, how old are you guys that being made fun of is an issue?

 

[EMFCRACKSHOT]

As long as you are attracted to her (I ay this because it is important that you are attracted to someone if you are going to date them, it may sound like i'm stating the obvious but some people don't get that) and you make each other happy there isn't a problem, your friend is just being a dick plain and simple.