"Well, when I was about your age, a lot of bad stuff happened where I was from. One of the bad things was that my mother got very sick, and I had to put her out of her pain, because I knew she would die either way." He pulled out the paper he'd given her yesterday. "I took up writing letters to her. She never got to read them, or at least not directly, but it helped me feel better. Maybe you'd like to try the same thing? She's still alive, I mean, but you can still say how you're feeling to her."