My advice? Don't do anything people have posted so far (except for Smilomaniac and Scimal).
I'm a normal guy who lives in a Western country. I'm not fat, even though I'm not one of those people who can eat anything they want. I have been a lot bigger for a while but I got lost of the excessive weight.
How? Simple: don't do anything that requires effort. Counting calories, not taking sweets or alcohol or meat, eating too little &c. are extremely bad ideas because nobody, except for a few people who kind of make these regimes their hobby (i.e. bodybuilders) can sustain that for a long time. You'll lose weight now and gain lots of weight again when you inevitably stop being so harsh on yourself.
Knowing that it is possible to not be on a diet while still remaining slim or even losing weight, while knowing that literally everybody who has gone on a diet, ever, has soon gained weight again (we all know at least one of these people) what you should do is change your habits. Not a lot, just a bit can be enough.
The main advice I would give you is: enjoy food and enjoy exercise. I like walking and cycling so I do that instead of taking the bus or going by car. Just a bit of exercise works rather well to make you feel fitter and better and I guess it will make your metabolism get working though I don't know whether that's really true.
Enjoying food is especially important. Most people who eat too much (especially junk food), like I did, actually don't really enjoy the food, they enjoy eating. When I was younger I would once in a while buy some sweets and savour every single one of them. Years later I would buy them and eat all of them in a few minutes and frankly I didn't enjoy it nearly as much.
Start cooking for yourself, make nice meals.* You can eat anything, just make sure you don't eat a lot and do eat vegetables and fruit. I eat more meat and less vegetables than is typically advised but I'm still rather healthy. You don't have to be too strict, just make sure to eat full meals and not too much, and avoid eating lots of snacks (eat a small bowl of crisps instead of the whole pack and try to enjoy every single one).
If you can pull it off (such a change, albeit smaller than a diet, can still be tough) you'll find yourself enjoying food more, feel better about yourself and be fitter.
*As in: enjoyable meals., including stuff like hamburgers (with salad). I'd recommend buying a nice cookbook with meals that appeal to you. I personally like Italian cooking, Italian recipes usually do not contain a lot of ingredients (meaning its cheap and easy), taste great and are rather healthy.
I'm a normal guy who lives in a Western country. I'm not fat, even though I'm not one of those people who can eat anything they want. I have been a lot bigger for a while but I got lost of the excessive weight.
How? Simple: don't do anything that requires effort. Counting calories, not taking sweets or alcohol or meat, eating too little &c. are extremely bad ideas because nobody, except for a few people who kind of make these regimes their hobby (i.e. bodybuilders) can sustain that for a long time. You'll lose weight now and gain lots of weight again when you inevitably stop being so harsh on yourself.
Knowing that it is possible to not be on a diet while still remaining slim or even losing weight, while knowing that literally everybody who has gone on a diet, ever, has soon gained weight again (we all know at least one of these people) what you should do is change your habits. Not a lot, just a bit can be enough.
The main advice I would give you is: enjoy food and enjoy exercise. I like walking and cycling so I do that instead of taking the bus or going by car. Just a bit of exercise works rather well to make you feel fitter and better and I guess it will make your metabolism get working though I don't know whether that's really true.
Enjoying food is especially important. Most people who eat too much (especially junk food), like I did, actually don't really enjoy the food, they enjoy eating. When I was younger I would once in a while buy some sweets and savour every single one of them. Years later I would buy them and eat all of them in a few minutes and frankly I didn't enjoy it nearly as much.
Start cooking for yourself, make nice meals.* You can eat anything, just make sure you don't eat a lot and do eat vegetables and fruit. I eat more meat and less vegetables than is typically advised but I'm still rather healthy. You don't have to be too strict, just make sure to eat full meals and not too much, and avoid eating lots of snacks (eat a small bowl of crisps instead of the whole pack and try to enjoy every single one).
If you can pull it off (such a change, albeit smaller than a diet, can still be tough) you'll find yourself enjoying food more, feel better about yourself and be fitter.
*As in: enjoyable meals., including stuff like hamburgers (with salad). I'd recommend buying a nice cookbook with meals that appeal to you. I personally like Italian cooking, Italian recipes usually do not contain a lot of ingredients (meaning its cheap and easy), taste great and are rather healthy.