Well I just broke up my 11 month relationship

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gbemery

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I'm extremely happy with my relationship right now. She is AMAZING!!! I love her so much! I want to be able to spend as much time with her in the time we have left together. Right now she's overseas. I'm glad she is living her dream while on photo shoots in Malaysia, but I want to see her so badly. At least we have been keeping a good long distance thing going. She comes back some time in September and I am going to be waiting for her with open arms. Then in October she is going to Rome for more photo shoots but this time we'll be going together! I love her so much and love every minute I'm with her. If I am lucky I have one more year with her, but I want so many more :(
 

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dex-dex said:
more fuck buddies that I am comfortable with.
Error: Does not compute.

Anyway, I'm engaged with my partner of two years. Mind you, we're going to be engaged for a long while until we've left university, it seems like too much hassle/money and neither of us are really that bothered. I'd say the only flaw in our relationship is that we live in a house with two of our friends, which is apparently an excuse to not have loud sex.
 

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You dated an 11 month old?! You monster! You're a terrble... Oh! I just got it. Damn.

Me and my dogs are doing fine, thanks for asking.
 

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My current relationship has spanned 4 years and featured 2 break ups.

Not concerned though. We were still pretty immature when we started going out and have grown alot since then i.e. despite everything, we're doing better now than we ever have since the start of the relationship.

Going pretty good.
 

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I'm not in a relationship =( There are several girls I think I have a chance with (no guys, sadly), but I seem to have mild Social Anxiety Disorder, so that kinda gets in the way of asking a girl out. (I'm accepting any pointers there =D) And no, I'm not happy with my current lack of a relationship.
*looks at your profile*

Ahh, a Leo. Great people, witty, nice and very intelligent, but sadly ofttimes unable to sell themselves. I know a Leo is a fucking computer genius who has an IQ of around 160 ... to give you an idea, he used to collect computer viruses and take them apart so he could see how they were coded ... but he's just not able to sell his talent. :-/

But yeah, same here man, never had a girlfriend and not enjoying it! >:-(

I wish I could give you pointers or advice or anything like that, but I'm not good with social settings like that either. In fact, I am almost positive I have this, as it describes me well, except for symptom #4 and I did well in school (then again, I was homeschooled, might have been different in a classroom setting): http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/schizotypal-personality-disorder/DS00830/DSECTION=symptoms

So, I guess all I can say is: Good luck! :)
 

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The Virgo said:
JCBFGD said:
I'm not in a relationship =( There are several girls I think I have a chance with (no guys, sadly), but I seem to have mild Social Anxiety Disorder, so that kinda gets in the way of asking a girl out. (I'm accepting any pointers there =D) And no, I'm not happy with my current lack of a relationship.
*looks at your profile*

Ahh, a Leo. Great people, witty, nice and very intelligent, but sadly ofttimes unable to sell themselves. I know a Leo is a fucking computer genius who has an IQ of around 160 ... to give you an idea, he used to collect computer viruses and take them apart so he could see how they were coded ... but he's just not able to sell his talent. :-/

But yeah, same here man, never had a girlfriend and not enjoying it! >:-(

I wish I could give you pointers or advice or anything like that, but I'm not good with social settings like that either. In fact, I am almost positive I have this, as it describes me well, except for symptom #4: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/schizotypal-personality-disorder/DS00830/DSECTION=symptoms

So, I guess all I can say is: Good luck! :)
Just to be a dick: Horoscopes are based on the Babylonian calendar of the 7th century BC. Unfortunately for modern idiots, the earth has moved in space since then due the to the slight wobble in our orbit of the Sun caused by it's gravitational pull on the earth. Such that this wobble has thrown off the position of said 'zodiac' signs by about a month. Every horoscope you've ever read was completely inaccurate. Fact.
 

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What is with all these threads saying that they anloy have 1 reply, and then turn out to have, like, 50? Anyone else having this problem?

OT: I have never been in a relationship. I am my own man[sub]sniff...[/sub]
 

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novixz said:
So yeah, she just broke up with me. It doesn't matter though, she's homophobic, I'm bisexual, I'm falling for another girl. Don't worry about me. So the discussion value: How are you doing in your current relationship? Are you happy?

Edit: Yeah, when she found out she tried to talk me out of being bisexual. Also she didn't like the "kinks" I had. All my friends say I looked gloomy with her anyway.
She sounds like she didn't take things well, but to be fair, it sounds as though that stuff wasn't in the original advertisement.

Now that you can let people know these things from the beginning, I imagine things will go better for you.

Regarding your question, been avoiding a relationship due to a pending move. Now moved, so it's time to start looking!
 

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novixz said:
So yeah, she just broke up with me. It doesn't matter though, she's homophobic, I'm bisexual, I'm falling for another girl. Don't worry about me. So the discussion value: How are you doing in your current relationship? Are you happy?

Edit: Yeah, when she found out she tried to talk me out of being bisexual. Also she didn't like the "kinks" I had. All my friends say I looked gloomy with her anyway.
My girlfriend is amazing. The only thing wrong with my current relationship is the fact that she lives more than 6000 miles away. I miss her so dearly sometimes, but we can make it work. This Christmas, I'll get a "present" better than any I've ever gotten. ;)
 
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Rubucopter said:
I just married my high school sweetheart and boyfriend of 10 years. So, I would say I'm very happy right now.
I'm curious how you made that work? I ask because my girlfriend and I are both going into our senior year of high school, and our plans for the future are taking us on very different paths.
 

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I have a stalker, she won't leave me be. It's been 2 years since we broke up, why she won't leave me the hell alone I don't know.
 

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novixz said:
So yeah, she just broke up with me. It doesn't matter though, she's homophobic, I'm bisexual, I'm falling for another girl. Don't worry about me. So the discussion value: How are you doing in your current relationship? Are you happy?

Edit: Yeah, when she found out she tried to talk me out of being bisexual. Also she didn't like the "kinks" I had. All my friends say I looked gloomy with her anyway.
awwww thats to bad but its for the best I am kinda lucky I am still dating my high school sweetheart for 5 years and were both very very kinky so we have our fun :p but the point is its best to be able to share that sorta thing cause if you cant share it with your lover who can you share it with
 

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Ham_authority95 said:
novixz said:
So yeah, she just broke up with me. It doesn't matter though, she's homophobic, I'm bisexual, I'm falling for another girl. Don't worry about me. So the discussion value: How are you doing in your current relationship? Are you happy?

Edit: Yeah, when she found out she tried to talk me out of being bisexual. Also she didn't like the "kinks" I had. All my friends say I looked gloomy with her anyway.
My girlfriend is amazing. The only thing wrong with my current relationship is the fact that she lives more than 6000 miles away. I miss her so dearly sometimes, but we can make it work. This Christmas, I'll get a "present" better than any I've ever gotten. ;)


My girlfriend of a year just left for Michigan yesterday for college. Granted, it was already a long-distance relationship (About 300 miles, I'm in California, so it's like 2,000 miles now), but I haven't seen her since July of last year, and knowing I also have to wait until December to see her again (if I'm even able to) is almost unbearable. But for what is possible in a relationship like this, it's been absolutely fantastic. I love my Ashley. <3
 

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Well, I'm with my girlfriend of nearly 3 years, we've never even met each other physically. Right now things are swell, I'm just waiting to see whether she's going to come on before she goes to bed. We've had some rough patches (We got back together 2-3 months ago after 4 months of no communications after we broke up) but I'm happy with it. I should be going over next year as a birthday present ^^, so I've been seeing how I can conquer my disability, so far with great success. After all, I wouldn't want to be a burden on her, especially since I'm better than her in the kitchen :p.
 

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I have a stalker. One of the reasons I deactivated my Facebook account was because she would not stop posting on my wall and sending me messages and trying to chat with me when all we had was a 2 week relationship.

It got way out of hand.

But as far as current relationships go, I am single. I really loved this one girl, but her FUCKING HOMEWRECKER ***** of a friend made sure our relationship wouldn't work out. Plus it didn't help that when we WERE going out, I found out she was cheating on me, so she's not an option for me anymore.

So I've kind of lost my hope for relationships currently.
 

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My girlfriend and I are doing well after 10 1/2 months. We're both very accepting of each other, and, aside from when I'm suffering from my semi-chronic depression, there are very few times when we fight. She's religious, I'm not - not a huge deal. We used to get into mild arguments about that, but it blew over. Just sad that we won't be together much until she transfers into my college next year.
 

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novixz said:
The Virgo said:
JCBFGD said:
Just to be a dick: Horoscopes are based on the Babylonian calendar of the 7th century BC. Unfortunately for modern idiots, the earth has moved in space since then due the to the slight wobble in our orbit of the Sun caused by it's gravitational pull on the earth. Such that this wobble has thrown off the position of said 'zodiac' signs by about a month. Every horoscope you've ever read was completely inaccurate. Fact.
One problem with astrology is that it is currently based on time of birth, not the more accurate time of conception. That's why it seems like a BS to a lot of people, because if you were born a month premature, you're not what sign the zodiac charts says you are. That's what was wrong with that relationship I had that I was telling you about.

For example, Twiggy is technically a Virgo. Bullshit. Premature Libra. I know those Libra eyes anyway.



One way to tell the difference between a Virgo and a Libra: Libras most often times have sleepy looking eyes, caused by the upper eye-lids being visible when they are at normal. Two other common characteristics among the Libra are flat foreheads and somewhat tall faces.

This is how I know, even without asking, that Alexander Perls' (the guy who does the 009 Sound System) wife is a Libra. Look at her!



My God, her Libraness couldn't be any more obvious unless she stuck a note on her saying "LIBRA!!!!!!" in size 36 font!

Another example is actor Dennis Farina, technically a Pisces.



Uh-huh, right. He's obviously an Aquarian born late. It's obvious by the forehead (not a typical Pisces trait, as they tend to have rounder faces).
 

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onewheeled999 said:
Ham_authority95 said:
novixz said:
So yeah, she just broke up with me. It doesn't matter though, she's homophobic, I'm bisexual, I'm falling for another girl. Don't worry about me. So the discussion value: How are you doing in your current relationship? Are you happy?

Edit: Yeah, when she found out she tried to talk me out of being bisexual. Also she didn't like the "kinks" I had. All my friends say I looked gloomy with her anyway.
My girlfriend is amazing. The only thing wrong with my current relationship is the fact that she lives more than 6000 miles away. I miss her so dearly sometimes, but we can make it work. This Christmas, I'll get a "present" better than any I've ever gotten. ;)

My girlfriend of a year just left for Michigan yesterday for college. Granted, it was already a long-distance relationship (About 300 miles, I'm in California, so it's like 2,000 miles now), but I haven't seen her since July of last year, and knowing I also have to wait until December to see her again (if I'm even able to) is almost unbearable. But for what is possible in a relationship like this, it's been absolutely fantastic. I love my Ashley. <3
Thanks, man. I feel your pain, but it must be so much worse when you haven't seen her in a year. I would basically die without my girlfriend for a year straight...

You have it a lot easier than I do, though. You both live in the US, so plane tickets cost a lot less, or hell, just drive. And if you REALLY wanted to, you could move in with her, considering that you wouldn't need a visa or anything to get a job near her. I would give ANYTHING for my girlfriend to live in the US again...

I hope you get a good Christmas "present" yourself and I hope it works out well between you two! You'll definitely have a much smoother Christmas eve than I will, since thats when my girlfriend and I first got together last year and we will probably be crying our eyes out from joy. XD Take it easy, okay? *Hug of ultimate sympathy*
 

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The Virgo said:
JCBFGD said:
*looks at your profile*

Ahh, a Leo. Great people, witty, nice and very intelligent, but sadly ofttimes unable to sell themselves. I know a Leo is a fucking computer genius who has an IQ of around 160 ... to give you an idea, he used to collect computer viruses and take them apart so he could see how they were coded ... but he's just not able to sell his talent. :-/

But yeah, same here man, never had a girlfriend and not enjoying it! >:-(

I wish I could give you pointers or advice or anything like that, but I'm not good with social settings like that either. In fact, I am almost positive I have this, as it describes me well, except for symptom #4 and I did well in school (then again, I was homeschooled, might have been different in a classroom setting): http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/schizotypal-personality-disorder/DS00830/DSECTION=symptoms

So, I guess all I can say is: Good luck! :)
I don't believe in astrology, though I do seem to be witty, nice, and intelligent (all IMO)...strange...

But yeah, not much of a demand for nerds in the relationship market. It's a shame, too, 'cause I think I'm a damned good guy! I'll happily listen to you talk about your day, or rant about how that ***** over there is a total slut...anything! And sex is not a priority. I've gone 16 years without it, and I've a hand and a computer, so I can go without for a little while longer XD Certainly not opposed to it, though.

Also, sorry to hear that you may have SPD. That sucks =( Worse than SAD (what a terrible acronym!). *Also reads through symptoms* Yeah, looks like I have mild SAD.

Thanks for the good wishes, and I hope you have good luck, too =)
 

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retyopy said:
Oh boohoo, you left a reltaionship you didn't care about. Would you like me to play you a sad song on the worlds tiniest violin.
I'm not sad man. I think I'll play you a song instead,