What are your prejudices? (Yes, you do have them.)

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DaWaffledude

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I have one against anyone I don't know who I see laughing. I usually jump to the conclusion they're laughing at someone's expense.
 

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SadakoMoose said:
Fat Cosplayers...
Oh god I'm sorry, I know I shouldn't judge but sometimes it RUINS the cosplay...
It doesn't bother me as much if it's just somebody messing around on the weekend, but for someone that maybe wants to do a skit or an in-character panel, it bothers the crap out of me.
An otherwise perfect homestuck panel was ruined for me by a fat Kanaya, who's hair didn't even match. She looked like an alternian Marcy from Charlie Brown. Sure, she kind of had the voice down and the mannerisms but was just so jarring. Almost as bad as the fat robot Aradia, with the SUPER shiny face that made her look like a tin man version of Rosie O' Donnel.
So sorry for feeling this way, and I'd NEVER say it to anyone's face, but cosplay is SO much more than a costume.
I should note that I have NO PROBLEM whatsoever with multiracial cosplaying, and could never conceive of having a problem in the first place. I know there are some people out there who would, most of them living in Tumblr, but it shouldn't bother anyone. I WELCOME the idea of Black Jade Harley, Hispanic John Egbert, Asian Roxy Lalonde. This should not bother anyone.
You must hate me then because my default setting is cosplaying Hurley from Lost irl. :D

For me, it's diction or at least the way they speak in general. Oh you've got a thick southern accent? Well you must be down homey and simple. What's that? PHD in Microbiology you say? Huh.

So yeah, I'll end up labeling people by how they speak, not how they look. It's aggravating. And some things can just drive me up a wall. I met this guy once who I think has cerebral palsey (not 100% sure what his condition is) and he talked extremely slowly. Frankly, it really grated on me, and I found myself immediately thinking he was stupid. So, the whole time I'm constantly, consciously telling myself not to judge him; he can't help the way he speaks. After knowing him for awhile, I came to the conclusion that he was by no means the sharpest crayon in the tool shed, but he was hardly deficient either.

He was a dick, though. He hit on my friend that got a job as a note taker for him until she flat out stopped coming.
 

Relish in Chaos

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Helmholtz Watson said:
Relish in Chaos said:
I'm black, but I can't stand any "black culture" and have made efforts to remove myself as far as possible from any stereotypes relating to them, to the point that I kind of resent my mother for even giving birth to me (yeah, I have self-esteem issues). I also can't stand people assuming that I'm attracted to black women or even have a preference to them over white women or any other race of women, because I don't. I'm not attracted to them at all. I'm attracted to the attractive women of all races except black. Although, bad thing is, two girls that are sort-of-not-really friends of mine mentioned that they're not attracted to black guys while I was standing right the fuck there, which made me feel...sad.
Dude...you need to cheer up. Also correct me if I'm wrong but did you say before that your first generation Nigerian-American? Aren't there any aspects of Nigerian culture that you like?
Yeah, I know. I?m quite insecure about my race, appearance and self-image (the latter two are kind of the same, but whatever). It?s partly because I was bullied by my friends who thought that they were just joking around by teasing me, but it did actually do some serious damage. That, along with a multitude of other things that happened in my life, made me develop an inferiority complex around pretty much everyone around me. I'm one of those people who'd take someone saying "You're so white" as a compliment. Since I over-analyze the shit out of everyone, I've "accepted" that there will always be more advantages, societal or otherwise, to being white than black.

And my parents are Nigerian, but they moved to the UK in 1984 and gave birth to my siblings and I, so we were all raised in England. So I suppose I?d be classed as Nigerian-British, although I would describe myself as just British. But no, I don?t think there are any aspects of Nigerian culture that I like. Even when I was five and went on holiday with my immediate family to Nigeria to visit my extended family, I spent most of my time playing on my Game Boy Colour. I still cringe whenever I see charity appeals and stuff on TV showing African people dancing, or some skeletal boy with insects crawling on his face. Self-centred as it may sound, my immediate reaction is always, ?They?re giving me a bad name, and it's their own damn fault for the position they're in.?

Helmholtz Watson said:
Also, in regards to attractive Black chicks......come on [https://twitter.com/i/#!/kiwirabbitfru/media/slideshow?url=http%3A%2F%2Finstagr.am%2Fp%2FO-ThYqq08m%2F], tell me she's not cute. :D
Better yet, can you honestly that this girl isn't "interesting [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fd3n_xlLIQ4]" to you in the slightest? ;D
Can?t tell if serious or joking...

But no, the only black girls that I?ve found even remotely attractive were ones that looked pretty white/light-skinned anyway: a girl who used to go to my school who looked more mixed-race than anything, Halle Berry, Nicki Minaj 50% of the time, and maybe Thandie Newton. Rihanna and Beyonce are overrated. I?ve only ever dated white girls, but they probably don't count, since they were all before either of us hit puberty and would've presumably realized how much of a fugly freak I really am.

Aylaine said:
Rapists. I can't really stand rapists. I've been friends with most other types of people, and thinking about it I can accept the things they've done in their lives/pasts just fine. I don't have any other prejudices that I can think of but I'm very wary around people who have committed that crime. :/
To be honest, I'd be worried if you weren't wary around rapists (especially if you were a woman), or for that matter, anyone who'd committed a crime of a certain extreme in the past.
 

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CPunchMaster said:
Mormons. There was this one back in High School that left an awful taste in my mouth. I'm not a big fan of Mitt Romney either, so that's not helping that out. In all fairness, I'm not a big fan of overly religious folk, but yeah... That's mine. Not really that proud of it.
As a Mormon can I ask why? I probably already know the answer though, because I've met some Mormons who act like there isn't a world out there where people think and behave differently than them and it just drives me crazy.
 

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LobsterFeng said:
CPunchMaster said:
Mormons. There was this one back in High School that left an awful taste in my mouth. I'm not a big fan of Mitt Romney either, so that's not helping that out. In all fairness, I'm not a big fan of overly religious folk, but yeah... That's mine. Not really that proud of it.
As a Mormon can I ask why?
My guess is one word: Twilight.
 

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Religious people. And by that, I mean people who bring up their religion in conversation. To me, it seems they are always trying to make the world follow their specific belief.

Hairdressers: Poorly educated, often racist, chatterboxes, nicks my ear with a knife. What's not to hate?

People who like techno music, especially women (for some reason)

Fat people. i blame my mother for this one.

Romani people.

And many mooooooore!
 

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Aylaine said:
Relish in Chaos said:
To be honest, I'd be worried if you weren't wary around rapists (especially if you were a woman), or for that matter, anyone who'd committed a crime of a certain extreme in the past.
While that should go without saving, I have met and befriended people who have done other crimes, including murder. It wasn't easy, but people change. I try my hardest to accept that. For the most part I've been pretty accurate with that acceptance. However, I have been assaulted before. It didn't come to rape, but the intent was there. When I look back on it, I'm unable to visualize or formulate any reason that I would force myself upon another sexually. Whereas, under certain circumstances, if I had absolutely had to I would consider killing someone. Given the kind of person I am, I would never want to do it, but I might have to if there is no other way.

I hope that makes sense. :)
Yeah, that makes sense. I guess I'm just looking at it from my own perspective. Since I'm not friends with anyone who's stolen, raped or killed, I guess I can't imagine myself befriending someone like that, even if they expressed remorse and/or claimed to have been rehabilitated.
 

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Queen Michael said:
LobsterFeng said:
CPunchMaster said:
Mormons. There was this one back in High School that left an awful taste in my mouth. I'm not a big fan of Mitt Romney either, so that's not helping that out. In all fairness, I'm not a big fan of overly religious folk, but yeah... That's mine. Not really that proud of it.
As a Mormon can I ask why?
My guess is one word: Twilight.
...I don't get it.
 

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With books, I tend to impulsively avoid anything with cover art that looks like it's trying too hard to be "cool", "dark", or "badass", because I assume that they'll be pandering schlock that claim to be targeted at "young adults", but are really written for someone of the mental age of 13. I've heard such great things about the Night Angel trilogy, a lot of it from other Escapists, but seeing the cover always activates my bias, and I haven't been able to bring myself to buy it yet.

As for people, if someone says something along the lines of "reading sucks", I tend to think far less of their intelligence. I know that isn't really fair, and I'm trying to work on fixing that.

I feel really bad about saying this one, but I tend to assume that obese children will be incredibly obnoxious. I really don't know why I have this bias, but I do. Thankfully, I've never acted on it, but being so reflexively annoyed by them does make me wonder, "what the fuck is wrong with me?". Again, I'm trying to fix this one.
 

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SciMal said:
1) Fantasy series are a waste of my time because, despite potentially good characters and plots, I can't get over the whole 'Everything can be solved with magic' thing. It depresses me because magic isn't real, and I'd much prefer Sci-Fi where (if the author has done their research) at least I get a glimpse of the POSSIBLE.
Phew, I think my bile meter is drained for the day. Thanks anonymous thread creator!
Actually, read R.A. Savatore's 'Homeland'. Magic is very limited in good fantasy. And saying that magic doesn't exist therefore fantasy sucks is unfair, given that Sci-fi has aliens in it.
 

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I'm prejudiced against the term "prejudice." It has negative connotations that don't fit with its use in a scope this wide.

Sadly, there's not really a superior option; the closest I can think of, "preconception" is unwieldy.
 

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Muslims

This stems from before good ol' 9/11 though. I simply dislike the general culture, the idea behind the headscarf, how women are treated as marital property and sometimes ostracized by their own family, and how teenage muslim men call non-muslim women sluts because they wear a skirt.
 

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LobsterFeng said:
Queen Michael said:
LobsterFeng said:
CPunchMaster said:
Mormons. There was this one back in High School that left an awful taste in my mouth. I'm not a big fan of Mitt Romney either, so that's not helping that out. In all fairness, I'm not a big fan of overly religious folk, but yeah... That's mine. Not really that proud of it.
As a Mormon can I ask why?
My guess is one word: Twilight.
...I don't get it.
Stephenie Meyer, who wrote the Twilight series, is a Mormon.
 

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BJ_Pwn said:
SciMal said:
1) Fantasy series are a waste of my time because, despite potentially good characters and plots, I can't get over the whole 'Everything can be solved with magic' thing. It depresses me because magic isn't real, and I'd much prefer Sci-Fi where (if the author has done their research) at least I get a glimpse of the POSSIBLE.
Phew, I think my bile meter is drained for the day. Thanks anonymous thread creator!
Actually, read R.A. Savatore's 'Homeland'. Magic is very limited in good fantasy. And saying that magic doesn't exist therefore fantasy sucks is unfair, given that Sci-fi has aliens in it.
I don't really care if magic is "limited" - it seems pointless to me. Most of the time the same task could be accomplished in a completely realistic fashion, but the author uses magic as a crutch, whether there are rules or not (and the rules are inevitably broken).

Sci-Fi has aliens, yes, but on the scale of plausibility between "definitely real" and "visions from acid-induced fever dreams", aliens are closer to real than being able to manipulate the fabric of reality with your mind.

Plus, some of the best selling Sci-Fi novels ever made don't feature Aliens. Like the "Dune" series - not a single alien, or any of Jules Verne's work. Sci-fi simply requires some level of plausibility, while fantasy - by definition - features implausible mechanics.
 

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...Assumptions make the world go round? Everyone does them, mistakenly or otherwise, you never realize you have them until they present themselves to you.