What attracts you most about the gender you're interested in?

[TheTim]

Chicks are much more datable if they have nice Boobs, Ass, Face, Eyes, And they CANNOT have an annoying laugh. Doesn't matter that much of personality as long as they aren't mindless.

 

[GLo Jones]

I have no specific preference, as long as they're obviously female, and don't have a thin head (no idea why). But I do find that girls automatically rate slightly higher if they're a redhead.

 

[AWAR]

One with whom I can communicate with, so hard to come by

 

[Blair Bennett]

It's all about the curves and the smile.

Girls with an ugly smile get rocks thrown at them. I would know, I throw alota rocks.

That was you?!

 

[Naheal]

Asexual, heteromantic. Intelligence is something that isn't a plus for me, it's a requirement. Personality? I don't care if you have the personality of a rock, just be able to think for yourself.

Edit: Add a sense of humor to that, or a tolerance for my own digs at a person. Can't have you crying at every little thing I say.

 

[Vagabond_Samurai]

Tall, short, soft, hard, I care not; I will take them all. I guess the main attraction is respect. If I respect her and vice versa, things will be gravy.

Intellect, bravery, relaxed nature, positive attitude, self improvement, and atheism are all necessary.

 

[Vagabond_Samurai]

My attraction to people depends on how I see them. Personality/compatibility is a big factor, but my mood also to some extent. For example, I've never been with someone that I wasn't attracted to at the time, but I've seen exes after a breakup and wondered what I saw in them. If I like someone then s/he will appear to be more attractive and if I dislike someone then I will perceive her/him as less attractive.

Truth.

 

[JanatUrlich]

I lovelovelove girls with nice legs

and they've gotta be interesting. Male or female, I don't care, just don't bore me.

And be atleast slightly attractive.

That'll do ;D

 

[WitherVoice]

... the moment I had written "voice, especially singing voice", I started feeling a bit like the Phantom of the Opera. Anyway, it's true. Also the expressiveness of the face. Eyes are usually a big part of this.

My fiancée has a beautiful voice, and her face is so... ALIVE! When she thinks, when she is happy, when she is angry (no, she's not "cute when she's mad", but at least her face lets me KNOW how she feels)... eyes can fulfill this function, but my fiancée's eyes are damaged to the point that they are barely recognizable as such. She tends to have her eyes closed.

That said, those are among the points that totally draw me in. If we're talking "factors that make them easy on the eyes", I'd have to say petite size, a confident bearing, not to mention that I subscribe to the school of thought that considers anything more than a handful a waste.

 

[Skeleton Jelly]

Tits and ass. My children can have only the best genes.

As for what I look for in women, personality.

All women have a personality.

For Physical attributes:

-Kinda chunky. Like not obese just a little bit of a muffin top and thick thighs. Chunky is sooooo beautiful.

-Hair that only goes to the shoulders or a bit higher up. Jet black hair ooor a red-head.

-they don't need clear skin, as mine isn't totally clear, and I dunno. Acne to me isn't a turn off, it'd make me feel more comfortable to look at them. I still do with my current gf, I just have self esteem issues.

Personality wise:

-They have to have the same humor as me, or I'd be cracking jokes and getting a :/ face from them. Alsooo they have to let me have some space (at least 3 hours a day to myself)

-CANNOT be religious. I fucking hate religion with a passion and will nto stop tearing on them until I show them their inner Atheism.

-Not vein

:I am I needy lol?

to CuddlyCombine: lol I think I have bigger tits and ass than most women so I'm not too worried about that feature

and to Undead Warfare: lol religion, you gotta remember it's good for some people and where they're at in life, so if I were you, I wouldn't be pointlessly getting pissed off at people, especially women, considering how emotionally responsive they are compared to us.

and no I'm not religious ATM, I find too many christians focus too much on things that don't matter, tithing and christian science, while forgetting their own morals and humility

we're all at a different place in our life and all see the world differently depending on the experiences we've had.

Well yeaaah, I'd be able to obviously put up with the fact their Christian or believing in Creationism in general, but if they brought up their beliefs a lot, we'd probably argue a lot.

 

[ModsDeleteThisAccountPlease]

Hair, eyes and personality first, rest of her body second

 

[Amarok]

I worry I'm not thin enough for today's definition of beauty all the time. So why is there such a difference between what people think is an acceptable weight?

Media, society and fashion in general is absolutely disgusting. And I mean abhorrant. That more people haven't noticed just how horrific it truly is really is quite worrying.

Women naturally tend to store more fat than men, particularly around the hips, and that's the way it should be, not just in aesthetics but in health. Gaunt, skinny women who are all bones aren't beautiful, they're sick; and the fact that society sees that as the ideal is sick.

NEVER worry about not being thin enough for today's expectations, because today's expectations are truly fucked up.

 

[Matt-Allan-ca]

Well yeaaah, I'd be able to obviously put up with the fact their Christian or believing in Creationism in general, but if they brought up their beliefs a lot, we'd probably argue a lot.

thats good man.

 

[VanityGirl]

A big...

Haha, in all seriousness.
I love big muscles(I want a guy that can carry me around!), a nice smile and the nose. I can't stand people with Owen Wilson's nose, yuck! I HATE that.

They also must love video games and have a certain degree of geekiness about them. No geekiness, no go.

 

[geldonyetich]

"I find the most erotic part of a woman is the boobies."
-- Zap Branagan, Futurama.

Honestly, I don't have a particular body part. I'll take em' flat and perky, supple and voluptuous, or anything in between. As long as a woman isn't suffering from excessive physical deformities (e.g. morbidly obese or severely underweight or carrying particularly nasty genes) I'm not picky.

Perhaps I'm wrong to even be this picky. All of creation has an inner beauty, does it not?

Of course, there's something to be said for mental deformities, too. Even outstanding outer beauty is soured if the woman in question is a complete psycho *****. I would prefer a lady who I could come away from a conversation with a sense that she has things going on upstairs.

 

[Beldaros]

I'm assuming this is asking for physical traits.

Well first off I'll say every part is important. Generally I find women attractive. Almost all women so long as they look after themselves well. Being below a healthy size is very much a turn off in my eyes. As is being unhealthily large. Anything in-between though is attractive. Everyone is beautiful in their own ways. it doesn't matter if they're disfigured or anything like that.

What I find to be most attractive though is Shoulders and Back. I meet many people who say things like "fuck me I wasn't looking at their shoulders, What a pussy..." (Edit: Whoops that looks wrong. Pun really not intended) etc. but I find these traits to be the most attractive aspects of a female. Everything else is just a bonus. Girls, you're all beautiful.

now, what I don't understand is why society, magazines, etc., try to bang repeatedly into our heads that guys only like really, really thin girls. Most of the [male] members of this site have agreed that average, curvy, or even a little chubby is prettier than anorexia. seriously, it's ridiculous. I've got friends that stress over everything they eat because they don't want to have any meat on their bones. It's not healthy. I worry I'm not thin enough for today's definition of beauty all the time. So why is there such a difference between what people think is an acceptable weight?

Ok I obviously do not know your nationality. However, media coverage that suggests the desired look is to have your ribs on show is mainly american. Other nations do dabble in it but they try to be more sensitive on the issue. Because of the way women have to look to be on the catwalk, many girls believe that they have to get to this same painfully unhealthy weight, it is a massive problem in the world and I see it in my friends as well.

I'm unfortunate in that I struggle to put on weight, I may not be a girl but we guys have to deal with the same problems with all these slim, muscle men that I think look awful but others think look desirable. I know what it's like to be unhealthily slim though, it hurts, you get sick often and it's uncomfortable to sleep. I have never understood why somebody would want to do this to themselves. The human psyche is a terrifying thing.

 

[AlphaOmega]

Hips... Oh god hips.

 

[psyniac_123]

The girl I'm currently infatuated with has the most amazing eyes. And she's a brunette, and I kind of have a weakness there.

(Also, ass xD)