What attracts you most about the gender you're interested in?

[Doitpow]

lots of jelly.
Jelly coming out the wazoo

 

[HowToCatchAFirefly]

Ok I obviously do not know your nationality. However, media coverage that suggests the desired look is to have your ribs on show is mainly american. Other nations do dabble in it but they try to be more sensitive on the issue. Because of the way women have to look to be on the catwalk, many girls believe that they have to get to this same painfully unhealthy weight, it is a massive problem in the world and I see it in my friends as well.

I'm unfortunate in that I struggle to put on weight, I may not be a girl but we guys have to deal with the same problems with all these slim, muscle men that I think look awful but others think look desirable. I know what it's like to be unhealthily slim though, it hurts, you get sick often and it's uncomfortable to sleep. I have never understood why somebody would want to do this to themselves. The human psyche is a terrifying thing.

astute guess -- yeah, I'm american. (and I know you wouldn't get that from my profile since that says I'm from antarctica) there's a ridiculous pressure to be thin and tan, even though lately being pale isn't quite as bad as it has been. anything less than starving is 'fat'. girls I know pinch their sides and call it disgusting. the myth being here that guys will only like you if you're a size two or zero. I'm a size 6 to 8 and somehow obese by fashion's standards. good to know it's not this bad everywhere -- and all the guys on this thread saying they value a girl's eyes and smile and sense of humor/intelligence more than how closely she resembles a toothpick is very good to hear. I just hope it kicks in soon how awful these expectations are, especially the ones we create for ourselves.

 

[RanD00M]

It's the eyes or the belly button.
The eyes because they can say everything without saying a word.
And the belly button because a good looking girl should have the perfect belly button.

 

[Claymorez]

Eyes their is a lighter feel to them in girls and I find them very powerful when romancing them.

 

[SextusMaximus]

Eyes, hair and... well you know.

EDIT: (girls btw)

 

[likalaruku]

In a man, I like androgeny. This mostly limits me to Asians, but any guy who looks like a chick will catch my eye. Scrawny, girly-faced, unusualy pinched waste, long hair, no body hair, but with a deep voice & broad shoulders.

In women, I like curves, not-blonde hair, a tiny nose, intence hatred of celebrities, complete distrust in politicians & news anchors, creepy "aura", an aggesive manly sence of honor, & a stong sence of nostolgia.

But being realistic, when my parents die, I will probably just marry a funny but unattractive nerd who likes my cooking, hates kids as much as I do, & doesn't care too much that I hate being employed.

 

[Beldaros]

astute guess -- yeah, I'm american. (and I know you wouldn't get that from my profile since that says I'm from antarctica) there's a ridiculous pressure to be thin and tan, even though lately being pale isn't quite as bad as it has been. anything less than starving is 'fat'. girls I know pinch their sides and call it disgusting. the myth being here that guys will only like you if you're a size two or zero. I'm a size 6 to 8 and somehow obese by fashion's standards. good to know it's not this bad everywhere -- and all the guys on this thread saying they value a girl's eyes and smile and sense of humor/intelligence more than how closely she resembles a toothpick is very good to hear. I just hope it kicks in soon how awful these expectations are, especially the ones we create for ourselves.

be yourself no matter what the consequences. I don't know if american sizes are different then british but 6-8 is quite thin by uk standards. My smallest friend is a size 8 after that 12 and all my female friends are stunning. I'm not sure it will ever kick in globally peopple have to make the realisisation on their own unfortunately.

 

[Smagmuck_]

Green eyes, smooth legs and a nice voice.
*Drools*

 

[stok3r]

Besides obvious sexual features, I would have to say eyebrows.

Yes, eyebrows. Weird, no?

 

[Communist partisan]

I like the jugs^^ ofc it exist other nice things too but I took the first that a thinked of.

 

[SwishiestB0g]

the eyes.
unlike men, women almost NEVER tell you the truth about themselves, and there is a secret tell behind a womans eye that shows you who they really are.
this is also why people wont play poker with me T_T
and its funny to see the reactions when I can tell if they are lying
either that or the shape of a petit butt, I dont mean to be sexist, but its like something...animal, comes out of me when I see a petit girls butt.

This. To the point actually.

 

[stok3r]

Boobs.

No, not boobs. That's just vulgar and I don't think of woman as objects of lust, but as people with personalities and...

Ok, tits and ass.

Ok, this may sound weird, but I find boobs... boring... bigger is not better imo

 

[Soxafloppin]

LOL, Loving the politically correct thread title, anyways...

Nice hair, nice legs, humour and im most definately a boob man.

 

[Zoedelyce]

Yeah I have to say, I don't really care what they look like, I mean if they are nice-looking it's a bonus but what really gets me hooked with a guy is if he makes me laugh, but really laugh. And good hands and pushing it, soulful eyes. Lolz a girl can dream ^^