what do you look for?

[Ultress]

Are you alive?do you walk on two legs? then we'll get along great,even if neither describe you I'm still willing to give you a shot.


Ok in semi seriousnessretty/weird colored hair, willing to accept my weirdness, realizes that occasionally I just want to be alone(hopefully she does to), knows what she wants and is a gamer/anime fan.Also if they liked Time to Eve or Princess tutu then they're pretty damn awesome.

 

[Colour Scientist]

A great pair of personalities!

OP: I go for well-built types, not necessarily fat or muscley but with a sturdy frame. I like guys who are into metal, no idea why though because I'm not that into it. Someone who'll play games with me but won't judge my lack of FPS ability. Good sense of humour and able to take an insult or two, that's how I show affection.

In reality though, it depends on the person.

 

[ShindoL Shill]

escapabillibambadoes

What the fuck? Uh... yeah, what the fuck?

OT: Someone who isn't a dick.
And a functioning brain.
And a nice pair of... eyes [small][sub]You thought I was going to say something different, didn't you? Naughty boy![/sub][/small].

 

[Soxafloppin]

Essential
I must find them phyiscally attractive
Capable of a conversations
They gotta be fun!
Good Personal Hygene, bad breath and B.O euagh.

Bonus
Long hair, I dig long hair!
Good taste in music and films.
Enjoy touching (not just sexual) but enjoy cuddling up on the sofa, watching films and what not.

 

[Wintermoot]

not a vapid girl that,s only interested in her looks which sadly is 80% of the girls here.
what I AM looking for is a cute girl.

 

[C F]

Essential
I must find them phyiscally attractive
Capable of a conversations
They gotta be fun!
Good Personal Hygene, bad breath and B.O euagh.

Bonus
Long hair, I dig long hair!
Good taste in music and films.
Enjoy touching (not just sexual) but enjoy cuddling up on the sofa, watching films and what not.

I'mma just gonna borrow your list, mmkay?

In addition to the above, I'm also going to request that they be kind-hearted, intelligent, open-minded, and self sufficient.
How much of that is negotiable? The "good taste in music and films part" and the "long hair" part; everything else isn't.
Yes, I can be picky.

 

[Al-Bundy-da-G]

2 breasts and a pulse.

If i've had enough to drink .... pulse is optional.

As long as the body's warm am I right?

 

[Psychedelic Spartan]

escapabillibambadoes

What the fuck? Uh... yeah, what the fuck?

OT: Someone who isn't a dick.
And a functioning brain.
And a nice pair of... eyes [small][sub]You thought I was going to say something different, didn't you? Naughty boy![/sub][/small].

It was from a thread that I can't seem to find, asking for a name for escapists in general.

 

[3quency]

In terms of fantasy:
Majestic, authoritive, statuesque and lots of other fancy words. And to drop kick anybody who claims that Batman is better than Judge Dredd on reflex.

In reality?
A girl that kind of understands I suck at making the first move/talking to people in general and tries to work around that would be cool.

 

[Patrick Buck]

Well, if I'm honest, If i get a crush on someone, it's random. I'm usally friends with them, and it just happens. Reguardless. I have fallen for people who everyone else reguards as ugly, but when I've fallen from them, I think they look good.

I guess that makes me a good person?

 

[Bloodtrozorx]

1. Do I fantasize about killing her after 15 minutes?
2. Everything else is negotiable.
3. Tattoos and piercings = Bonus points.

 

[The Funslinger]

Sexually attractive, gamer, nonreligious, intelligent (I am told I have a tendency to talk over peoples heads), preferably cynical, adventurous, and curious. That is what I could ramble off the top of my head. I will let you know if I think of more.

thats quite a check list....

the gamer thing is potentialy fixable if youre able to "convert" them

I'm gradually working out the best way to convert my girlfriend to gaming.

That said, she has a NES, and was willing to let me show her Lord of the Rings (though I didn't, explaining that I had the extended edition which was around four hours long)

Considering that she's got a pretty face, a great body and that we always make each other smile, pretty good catch I've got.

I suppose she's a pretty good list for my criteria: At least open to geek culture (without being a trend following "nerd girl") likes a bit of silliness, quite sexually confident, and doesn't mind my cynicism and equal parts loopy and embittered sense of humor. As for physical traits, obviously someone I'd be attracted to. I'm not obsessed with large boobs, but the fact that my current girlfriend has them is a nice plus. I prefer darker hair colors to blondes (since that's being over represented with fakeness nowadays) though blondes aren't unattractive. A slight niggle is that I prefer girls who aren't taller than me. It just makes me feel weird. My current girlfriend is roughly my height, maybe ever so slightly shorter.

Edit: I do go in for the cuddly sort of relationship. The one where we're often holding hands or cuddling, where spontaneous kisses aren't unusual. People squirming over PDA can fuck off.

 

[Elementary - Dear Watson]

That is a question I have been asking myself a lot lately! Trying to work out why I fall for some girls, but not others...

A strange thing I have noticed is it doesn't matter how attractive a girl is, if she appears cold, or hard to talk to I instantly lose interest... seems the 'hard to get' principle doesn't work on me at all!

Another thing is that my personality trait, that always pushes me to help those in need, and frequently will put the needs of the people over the needs of the objective/task, causes me to constantly appear to attract to girls who appear vulnerable... This means I have a habbit of chasing after girls who are going through some sort of crisis... not only does this make me pick up unnessessary emotional baggage, but also is the quickest route to the nearest freind-zone!! The latest of these was a young lass going through a divorce... I do pick em! :S

All in all, I really suck at this, and need to possibly re-evaluate what I look for, and possibly change my own mind somehow!! :S

 

[babinro]

I've never had the urge to actually look for a mate. However, the following things are important for me to consider myself compatible with a woman:

- Straight up honesty about anything remotely important.
- Realistic / Optimistic outlook on life
- Open Minded. I'm fine if you hate my nerdy hobbies, just be willing to try before dismissing.
- Has no kids and wants no kids
- Ideally doesn't smoke, drink or use drugs (as I can't relate to any of that stuff)
- Sense of Humour / goofy / playful attitude
- Independent. I'm extremely independent and don't wish to exclude my friends from my life because of a relationship. I'd want a girl who has no problems with me taking a couple days every week and spending times with my friends or just by myself. She'd have every right to do the same.

In my life I've probably only come across about 4 woman who I felt met the above ideals. Unfortunately for me they were all married or had kids.

You might also note that appearance plays no role in what I look for. I certainly have preferences in what I find attractive, but if you meet the personality side of things that's what really matters at the end of the day.

 

[The Unworthy Gentleman]

Blonde and skinny with legs that would go down for double homicide if anyone could catch the damn things. I don't limit it to that but that's physical perfection, y'know, if they have a good face on them.

 

[Genericjim101]

I like short girls, I'm more attracted to a pretty face than boobs and ass, hair colour is non concern. As a person they have to be intelligent and have a dark sense of humour. Hobbies aren't an issue, I've gotten on with people who have no hobbies in common just fine.

 

[TheYellowCellPhone]

Ability to talk with them and hold a conversation about interesting and relevant topics. A maturity level on par with their shoe size. Decent looks. Double X chromosomes.