ShiningAmber said:
I think it's a primarily male community that is overly sexist, racist and homophobic. Many of them have little clue as to how the world really is. Or how women really are for that matter. Or how anything really is for that matter.
It's a male dominated sphere. With male dominated opinions and bias on everything. A differing opinion in any way, shape or form on the site is typically attacked ruthlessly and for little reason other than it being a differing opinion.
As a female poster here and a survivor of sexual assault, I have been harassed, have had numerous rape jokes sent to me personally, been victim and slut shamed, told I am looking to be offended, called a Feminazi for simply being a woman and more.
I don't really enjoy this forum. I basically just come to remind myself how backwards some people really are.
You asked.
Not really sure where you're getting the whole racist/sexist/homophobic thing, most people are pretty accepting of other people. Shit, I just read a thread about gay experiences, and I swear, half the posters on this site have had some. Never seen anything I would call racism either. And from my experience, on this site, anyways, the word 'sexism' is met with extreme disdain.
Don't lump everyone together, saying that everyone here is ignorant to the ways of the world, and women. There are actually quite a few women that frequent this site, mods included, if I'm not mistaken. Still though, sorry about any adversity you've suffered here, nobody deserves to be harassed.
OT though,I've been lurking here for years before I made a profile, and I still enjoy the community from time-to-time. But I always get disgusted with internet culture as a whole and have long bouts of dormancy. It's a vicious cycle.