What is "Love"?

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Nuke_em_05

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SikOseph said:
ben---neb said:
SikOseph said:
ben---neb said:
Benjeezy said:
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails."

1 Corinthians 13 v 4 - 8

That is love.
Love does not envy? Really? Someone tell the thousands of years of monogamous tradition.
Love shouldn't envy. But since we're all sinners then it does.
Now I'm confused. In your opinion, does love envy or doesn't it?
Your initial question doesn't make sense. What does envy have to do with monogamous tradition?

Don't answer, you're just looking to pick a fight.
 

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The_root_of_all_evil said:
Before anyone else

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more.
Somehow I believe that this will be the entire thread. :)

OT: Love is psychological/physiological interaction, it's neither good or evil. In general it makes survivability of DNA easier, even if it can get misguided regarding that purpose. Calling things love that aren't evolutionarily enabling (getting turned on by the household fern at the end of the staircase, say) aren't a problem since "love" wasn't designed.
 

Nuke_em_05

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SikOseph said:
Nuke_em_05 said:
Your initial question doesn't make sense. What does envy have to do with monogamous tradition?

Don't answer, you're just looking to pick a fight.
I'm not looking to pick a fight. Monogamy is the exclusion of others from a love-pair (though obviously monogamy has not always involved love, for the sake of exposition I am assuming it has). That means keeping that person to yourself, which shows before the fact envy of anyone else they might choose to spend their time with. That's what envy has to do with monogamy.

P.S.
For future reference, if you see someone you think is "looking to pick a fight", perhaps trying to aggravate them by asking questions then inviting them not to respond and saying "you're just looking for a fight" might not be the wisest response. If nothing else, it isn't very nice. If you don't want a conversation with them, don't start one.
Your argument simply doesn't make any sense.

This is why I presume you are simply trying to be clever or edgy by making the statement "the Bible says love doesn't envy, but supports monogamy, so the bible contradicts itself". ben---neb was just providing what they believe love is, and you tried to make it into a philosophical debate.

Anyone who is just looking to create an argument where one isn't warranted doesn't deserve me being nice to them. It does, however, inspire me to "nip it in the bud".
 

HellbirdIV

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Love is, in its simplest form, the natural desire to have a single dedicated partner. If humans weren't governed by social rules, intelligent reasoning and everything else that's defined us for ten thousand years, we would simply be refered to by the land-dwelling cetaceans that would then rule the world instead of us as "animals who mate for life". Love is a word describing the whole spectrum of emotions and reactions that makes up this otherwise rather simple instinct.

To prove that I am not a machine incapable of being completley irrational like my fellow meatbags, I will also add my personal perspective on what love is;

Love is fucking fantastic.
 

Burst6

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Love is a state people are in that attaches them to someone who looks like they can help make great babies, or something cute and harmless.
 

ben---neb

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SikOseph said:
ben---neb said:
SikOseph said:
ben---neb said:
Benjeezy said:
What is/does the definition/concept of "love" mean to you?

As always, thank you for your time and posts.
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails."

1 Corinthians 13 v 4 - 8

That is love.
Love does not envy? Really? Someone tell the thousands of years of monogamous tradition.
Love shouldn't envy. But since we're all sinners then it does.
Now I'm confused. In your opinion, does love envy or doesn't it?
Ok, back at the very beginning before sin entered the world then love would not envy. Adam and Eve would have had a perfect love both for themselves and God. And God's love to them would also be like the love described above.

After Adam and Eve broke God's direct command then there was the Fall of Man were sin entered the world. Sin corrupted everything including love which means that man's love does envy. However, God's love remained perfect because is perfect.

So yeah, love does envy, but it shouldn't. And when Jesus comes again and there is a new heaven and new earth then love will no longer envy as all sin will be punished.
 

Helimocopter

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love only goes one way
makes the other person reason with the lover
the lover ends up hating themselves more for the attempt than anything else
 

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Hoppetussa said:
'Love' is making a shot to the knees of a target 120 kilometers away using an Aratech sniper rifle with a tri-light scope... Love is knowing your target, putting them in your targeting reticule, and together, achieving a singular purpose against statistically long odds.
Thank you for saying this so that I didn't have to.
 

Serioli

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Zoidberg - Fry! Is it love when you care for a female for reasons beyond mating?

Fry - Nope, must be some weird alien emotion
 

WayOutThere

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love- caring about someone else's wellbeing an equal to or greater than amount than you care for you're own wellbeing
 

ziggy161

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In my opinion, there are two types of love: Material and uh...non-material.

Material is when you feel love for physical things, like I am a gamer and I genuinely get attached to my consoles/computer, if they are ever broken I get greatly upset to the point of tears.
Non-material is when you love a person, more like attraction to either how they look or how they act. This love is when you want to spend time with that person and you'can't say why, you just do.

I know this explanation sucks but I hope someone understands what I mean XD
 

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The_root_of_all_evil said:
Before anyone else

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more.
gahhhhhhh....i wanted to do that.

well, i could get into the biochemistry of love, but i prefer to impart my definition. since the root of love in in sexual desire (as it's needed to carry on the species blah blah blah, boring stuff), the most important differentiation from lust is that there's more than that. the person you love has to be a friend too. so, if you feel intense desire for a person that you're very good friends with, that's love.