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What is the worst breakup you ever had
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2) Lost a girl to an Emo kid? how hurt was your pride right then
Ouch, hope she was aiming for your leg and not your crotch(if aiming for the boys thank god she missed)theamazingbean said:
The one breakup was with a physco ex who tried to get me to crash my car when I was driving, I haven't seen her since and for good reason
The worst was my last ex (I'm married now). When we first got together she said she was having problems with her mom, so I told her she could stay for a few days with me. The ***** NEVER LEFT. For two years she stayed. After the first year I was done with the relationship for the most part. We didn't get along and I couldn't stand her. I never cheated (although I should have, I did have some good opportunities). I didn't want her around and she wouldn't leave. Finally I went on vacation, just me and my dog. I came back early and didn't tell her I was on my way home. She was moving her stuff out (turns out she took some of my stuff too. Weird shit though, computer cords, kitchen mixer, ect.). The kicker, she was moving into my best friend's place. They had been fucking around for a little while I guess. I wasn't upset about her, I was mad at my friend. But right after she left, I finally started talking to a girl I had liked for years, and we are now married and have a son. My ex ***** and ex friend got married too. I ran into him a few weeks ago and he is miserable. You reap what you sew. For their wedding, I sent him a sympathy card for his loss of balls.
I think she was aiming for my torso, she was in pretty full-on crazy mode at the time.Randy11517 said:
i once had a gf who ended up breaking up with me by txt, and i was fine with it. My next (and current gf) is aparently one of her ex bestfriends who my ex thinks shes still friends with. This has led to many swappings of vulgar language between me and my ex (her nickname is now bitchnye) and also many failed attempts at ruining mine and my gf's relationship.
I've only been through one breakup, and I'm not going there again. Wouldn't be much point, my right hand got custody of my --
Not applicable. I've only had two girlfriends, and the breakups very well handled on both party's parts. I'm still very close friends with both of my ex-girlfriends
Yes and extremely
Its amazing really she is only gone for 4 bloody months and she did that. What hurts the most really, and you can laugh if you want, is that I am still a virgin and so was she we were waiting till we got married to do anything.
p.s. I am not religious I just believe in waiting till you find the one you love.
Its amazing really she is only gone for 4 bloody months and she did that. What hurts the most really, and you can laugh if you want, is that I am still a virgin and so was she we were waiting till we got married to do anything.
p.s. I am not religious I just believe in waiting till you find the one you love.
We were together for a year and took a trip to a gaming con. After the con he kept a distance between us for a month before saying "I moved on, your just not.... mature enough." To find out he's moved on with someone half way around the world.
Then I found the most wonderful person in the world. Nothing can replace him, we've been together for almost 2 years.
Then I found the most wonderful person in the world. Nothing can replace him, we've been together for almost 2 years.
I've never really had a "bad" breakup, oh sure I've been accused of all sorts of things and called various interesting names, but I was never really close to any of those women. Either that or they were always mutual.
The one that did make me really sad though, was about 2...yeah 2 years ago. She was a Luitenant in the Army and she got deployed to Iraq. Totally sucked, because we actually did like each other. She's actually engaged now to a fellow soldier, good for her.
The one that did make me really sad though, was about 2...yeah 2 years ago. She was a Luitenant in the Army and she got deployed to Iraq. Totally sucked, because we actually did like each other. She's actually engaged now to a fellow soldier, good for her.
Wow. You win.7 said:
No wait. You win.theamazingbean said:
Me, I've never had any bad breakups. I mean, some of them sucked, but I've never been in any of those spectacular rows you hear of.
At the moment, a good friend is going through a horrendous breakup. This guy is tearing her self esteem to shreds (when she's one of the strongest, most intelligent, interesting, beautiful people I know).
I've been real lucky so far.
She was hosting a private party on new year's eve,only her and couple of her close girlfriends.
So I took the side to go out and party with my friends.
After some post-midnight Champagne and laughs,my friends decided it would be fun to just pop in over there and say hello.I naturally agreed.No party crashing involved.
As we head over there,I notice alot of cars.We ring the doorbell and some dude opens the door.
Now to get the full extent of the situation,you have to imagine the place reeks of bad cooking(she did NOT know how to do a fondue from the smell of it) and cheap booze.
We are invited inside by people we don't know guided by a voice from the back room saying we're cool and we can enter.
So this girl walks up to me and asks me if I was THE Exocet with a slight giggle.
I answer that I am.Her tone was mocking and I could smell the shit that was going to hit the fan.
I see that ***** of an ex enlaced in the arms of some gansta boy who looked like he just wanted to suck the blood out her neck like a vampire.At the same moment,my friends talking to a particularly dumb chick found out my ex had been talking trash about all of us.
We get thrown out,and I was a hair away from ripping the throat out of the gansta who was now hidden behind his pals,smack talking me.
It should have ended here,but in my rage I sent her an angry(to say the least) email the next day.She sends my friends a bullshit,text message email of apology,but not to me.
Queue 6 weeks later,where I sent a grouped text message to my friends asking how they were doing and if they wanted to go out,but included her by force of habit.
Didn't even realise until one week later,she calls me saying she was so wrong and sorry about what she did.After a 30 call(she paid),we decide to call each other every week to see if there is anything to salvage.
After 2 months of calling and healing,she stops answering.I knew she was under alot of stress with school and had gone through a depression before,so I,being of a worrying nature,thought she was in trouble.After a week of calling and leaving messages asking if everything was alright,I decide to take a train ticket to her place.A 5 hour ride and about 40 Euros for a one way trip.Of course,no one home.I ask the neighboors if they knew if she was alright.Nothing.
After 3 weeks like that,spending my weekends on a train with my grades falling during a difficult semester,I finally get some vacation time.The very day I got home,I decided to try an experiment.I called with a fixed line.Someone picks up and I hear loud music.Party music.
She knows it's me,so when I call with my phone,she finally picks up,only to let a friend talk for her.That dumb friend who didn't have the full story just kept repeating the same story about my ex not wanting to talk to me,and hasn't since new year's eve.
Now I get really mad and yelled as to make sure my ex could hear.I asked(still yelling) why the fuck she let me ruin my whole semester and waste over a month's rent and hours in a damn train.Still the same "she doesn't want to talk" stuff.
I let out the loudest,most bloodcurling and intense "*****!" to the point of scaring myself and alarming the surrounding houses.If I ever see her again and my friends aren't there to calm me down,I will sucker punch her in the face.
I'm generally calm and very forgiving,but she pressed all the right buttons to unsure I Hulked out.
So I took the side to go out and party with my friends.
After some post-midnight Champagne and laughs,my friends decided it would be fun to just pop in over there and say hello.I naturally agreed.No party crashing involved.
As we head over there,I notice alot of cars.We ring the doorbell and some dude opens the door.
Now to get the full extent of the situation,you have to imagine the place reeks of bad cooking(she did NOT know how to do a fondue from the smell of it) and cheap booze.
We are invited inside by people we don't know guided by a voice from the back room saying we're cool and we can enter.
So this girl walks up to me and asks me if I was THE Exocet with a slight giggle.
I answer that I am.Her tone was mocking and I could smell the shit that was going to hit the fan.
I see that ***** of an ex enlaced in the arms of some gansta boy who looked like he just wanted to suck the blood out her neck like a vampire.At the same moment,my friends talking to a particularly dumb chick found out my ex had been talking trash about all of us.
We get thrown out,and I was a hair away from ripping the throat out of the gansta who was now hidden behind his pals,smack talking me.
It should have ended here,but in my rage I sent her an angry(to say the least) email the next day.She sends my friends a bullshit,text message email of apology,but not to me.
Queue 6 weeks later,where I sent a grouped text message to my friends asking how they were doing and if they wanted to go out,but included her by force of habit.
Didn't even realise until one week later,she calls me saying she was so wrong and sorry about what she did.After a 30 call(she paid),we decide to call each other every week to see if there is anything to salvage.
After 2 months of calling and healing,she stops answering.I knew she was under alot of stress with school and had gone through a depression before,so I,being of a worrying nature,thought she was in trouble.After a week of calling and leaving messages asking if everything was alright,I decide to take a train ticket to her place.A 5 hour ride and about 40 Euros for a one way trip.Of course,no one home.I ask the neighboors if they knew if she was alright.Nothing.
After 3 weeks like that,spending my weekends on a train with my grades falling during a difficult semester,I finally get some vacation time.The very day I got home,I decided to try an experiment.I called with a fixed line.Someone picks up and I hear loud music.Party music.
She knows it's me,so when I call with my phone,she finally picks up,only to let a friend talk for her.That dumb friend who didn't have the full story just kept repeating the same story about my ex not wanting to talk to me,and hasn't since new year's eve.
Now I get really mad and yelled as to make sure my ex could hear.I asked(still yelling) why the fuck she let me ruin my whole semester and waste over a month's rent and hours in a damn train.Still the same "she doesn't want to talk" stuff.
I let out the loudest,most bloodcurling and intense "*****!" to the point of scaring myself and alarming the surrounding houses.If I ever see her again and my friends aren't there to calm me down,I will sucker punch her in the face.
I'm generally calm and very forgiving,but she pressed all the right buttons to unsure I Hulked out.
Although there was no drama, my worst breakup was when the relationship just stopped, no words exchanged, no fights, nothing. Just, one day he was there, the next he wasn't. He never told our friends why, he didn't start dating someone else. He threw himself into his work, stopped playing sports with his friends and generally moped around - in fact he acted like he'd been dumped.
OT: Nothing here seems to be as bad as, say, a bad divorce or violent breakup. Maybe we Escapists are better at having non-violent breakups, or perhaps having fewer relationships means you're likely to have fewer nasty breakups? According to the dating threads, many of us here tend to be nice but not very social. Anyone want to provide evidence for or against my theory?[/quote]
You want something bad? This is absolutely true.
2 years ago i broke up with my fiancee, I caught her in bed with my closest friend (needles to say we are not friends anymore).
I had arranged a supprise birthday party for her 18th and i hasd spent well over £1000 on tickets to makre sure her student friends could come from all over the world. I had given my friend specific instructions to make sure that she was at the venue at the right time, the were over 1 hour late (guess why).
anyway i started to notice that things wernt right and 2 days later i paid a supprise visit to her house only to find the 2 of them att it like rabbits in the spair room.
The next 2 hours is a bit of a blur, but according to her parents i:
* Broke 3 of my friends ribs, his lefty arm in 2 places and Jaw.
* did £3000 damage to her parents cars.
* £2000 damage to their house.
As i am very slow to trust people the loss of 2 of the 4 people that i would rtrust with my life was quite devistating. however after 6 months of therapy and lots of hard work on my part i was able to forgive them. However when i asked a mutual friend to set up a meeting between us, i got a phone call from the police 2 days later. this was not supprising as i had gone of the rails abit during the previous few months. However upon arriving at the police station for a "casual Chat", i was promptly arrested for rape. apparenytly when my ex herd that i wanted to speak to them she decided that rather than say no she would just get me arrested. the case was thrown out of court 3 months later but i am still going through therapy to try and come to terms with it.
P.S. I am sorry if there ae spelling and grammar errors in this i undrestandably find it hard to write aboyut this.
Cheers Escapists.
You want something bad? This is absolutely true.
2 years ago i broke up with my fiancee, I caught her in bed with my closest friend (needles to say we are not friends anymore).
I had arranged a supprise birthday party for her 18th and i hasd spent well over £1000 on tickets to makre sure her student friends could come from all over the world. I had given my friend specific instructions to make sure that she was at the venue at the right time, the were over 1 hour late (guess why).
anyway i started to notice that things wernt right and 2 days later i paid a supprise visit to her house only to find the 2 of them att it like rabbits in the spair room.
The next 2 hours is a bit of a blur, but according to her parents i:
* Broke 3 of my friends ribs, his lefty arm in 2 places and Jaw.
* did £3000 damage to her parents cars.
* £2000 damage to their house.
As i am very slow to trust people the loss of 2 of the 4 people that i would rtrust with my life was quite devistating. however after 6 months of therapy and lots of hard work on my part i was able to forgive them. However when i asked a mutual friend to set up a meeting between us, i got a phone call from the police 2 days later. this was not supprising as i had gone of the rails abit during the previous few months. However upon arriving at the police station for a "casual Chat", i was promptly arrested for rape. apparenytly when my ex herd that i wanted to speak to them she decided that rather than say no she would just get me arrested. the case was thrown out of court 3 months later but i am still going through therapy to try and come to terms with it.
P.S. I am sorry if there ae spelling and grammar errors in this i undrestandably find it hard to write aboyut this.
Cheers Escapists.