I know what EQ means. I'm just assuring you that this is NOT TROLLING.avykins said:
And yeah, blaming my mum... that's kinda a dick move
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And yeah, blaming my mum... that's kinda a dick move
Your an idiot. Looking at a topless woman is a lot different to looking at a gangbang. What would you prefer your mother catching you looking at? a topless woman or a gangbang ending with a bukkake??? get your head together. If you are in a relationship you don't need to look at porn and if you do there is something wrong with your relationship. I never said anything about it being wrong do imagine penetration.LimaBravo said:
I caught my step-dad masturbating once.
But you know what? He's a guy. Not genetically related, just a guy.
Guys masturbate, reguardless of sex life.
Hell, tell your mum, go ahead. Listen to her laughing.
They probably look at the same stuff for all you know.
Yes, shocking, your mum masturbates too.
To what? That's right, porn.
But you know what? He's a guy. Not genetically related, just a guy.
Guys masturbate, reguardless of sex life.
Hell, tell your mum, go ahead. Listen to her laughing.
They probably look at the same stuff for all you know.
Yes, shocking, your mum masturbates too.
To what? That's right, porn.
He's fantasizing about women he will never be with. Seems fairly harmless to me. Even if he's perfectly happy with your mom, there's no reason he wouldn't ALSO look at porn. What happens in your mind isn't a betrayal until you resolve to put it into action (as in, committing an act of cheating with another person). I don't think you need to worry about your step-dad and your mom's relationship just yet.
As for the other thing... You know, being uncomfortable around him... There's not much you can do about this but get over it, unless you've forged a close relationship with this guy. If you have (and he's the sensitive type you can talk to), why not just discuss it openly with him? Say it makes you feel uncomfortable, and say why (or that you don't know why, if you don't know the exact reason). Even if nothing gets resolved, maybe the whole situation will feel less awkward. Discuss things like adults if it's becoming a problem for you, or else just get over it. After all, it's easy to point the finger and not see the four pointing back at us, isn't it? Harmless fantasy of a sexual nature is something practically all men and women indulge in, to my knowledge.
Your gender and age (approximate age if you're uncomfortable with disclosing information online) might be useful to know regarding how to proceed. I guess I just realized in retrospect that this isn't a situation where most young girls would want to "talk it out" with the guy due to it being kind of uncomfortable, but it still seems like your best option (aside from forgetting about it completely, which I recommend, because in my opinion it really is nothing).
As for the other thing... You know, being uncomfortable around him... There's not much you can do about this but get over it, unless you've forged a close relationship with this guy. If you have (and he's the sensitive type you can talk to), why not just discuss it openly with him? Say it makes you feel uncomfortable, and say why (or that you don't know why, if you don't know the exact reason). Even if nothing gets resolved, maybe the whole situation will feel less awkward. Discuss things like adults if it's becoming a problem for you, or else just get over it. After all, it's easy to point the finger and not see the four pointing back at us, isn't it? Harmless fantasy of a sexual nature is something practically all men and women indulge in, to my knowledge.
Your gender and age (approximate age if you're uncomfortable with disclosing information online) might be useful to know regarding how to proceed. I guess I just realized in retrospect that this isn't a situation where most young girls would want to "talk it out" with the guy due to it being kind of uncomfortable, but it still seems like your best option (aside from forgetting about it completely, which I recommend, because in my opinion it really is nothing).
HA! I like this a lot. So much I had to repost it so everyone reads it again.avykins said:
Because... Everyone else has huge, moaning wanks out in public? I mean, I used to run around the garden naked, but I was five at the time... Ever since then, it's been dingy rooms with an internet connection for meAngloDoom said:
OT - Dude, everybody masturbates. You do, your dad does, your step dad does and, for bonus points, I'll put money on your mum doing it too! There's only really a sense of betrayal there if the women on the sites he goes on are more ugly than your mum. That's an actual scientifically-proven fact.
I'll leave you with a quote from one of my favourite comedians; "When you're a teenager, you always think the worst thing that can happen is your mum catching you masturbating, but that's because you never think it'll happen the other way round."
He was watching porn...and? Since when were you forbidden to look at other women whilst married? Does that mean that you don't love your wife? No! Of course not.
I still don't understand what's so wrong with this? Since when it was such a crime to masturbate whilst you are married?
I still don't understand what's so wrong with this? Since when it was such a crime to masturbate whilst you are married?
That is the most absurd logic I've heard. Just because someone looks at porn does not mean they have a terrible sex life. That's like saying men only check out other women because they think their girlfriends aren't pretty enough.Triple G said:
As for the OP:
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Your step dad looked at porn in his own privacy. It is his right.
Unless he was looking at something illegal (I doubt it, you just described a naked woman) then maybe you should consider telling someone. But he did nothing wrong and you shouldn't break his confidential manner.
He's not cheating on your mother. If it was something particularly risque or kinky, pray that it's not your mother he's doing it to.
There are two types of men in this world:
Men who check out other women and men while in relationships; and those who lie about it.
There are also those who look at porn.
So just get over it. It isn't some big moral dilemma to burden you.
He is saying that by your definition, a guy on a business trip for two weeks should not masturbate if he is in a relationship because it would be wrong, and he'd only want to if the relationship wasn't working.Pr0 InSaNiTy said:
Which is nonsense. It isn't cheating, it's just sexual release.
This... and lol *highfive*Hoxton said:Being on a diet doesn't mean you can't take a look at the menu
That is a valid point apart from religous reasons there is no reason that masturbation is bad ( that I can see )
I dont support doing it in public but hey what you do in your personal time is your own, not mine or anyone else's.
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What to do, I wouldn't worry about it to much, just pretend you didn't see it... easy as that... If that is hard, which I know it can be... Talk to him about it which trust me is harder but usually more closing.
Nothing wrong with masterbation. Every girlfriend i've had has been fine with it.
However the way your reacting, and having the same blood as your mother, I dont know if she would blow it out of proportion aswell. She had any sort of "birds and the bees" talk with you?
Edit: Could be abit personal, sorry if it is, I happily discuss these sorts of matters on a daily basis, realise others might not.
However the way your reacting, and having the same blood as your mother, I dont know if she would blow it out of proportion aswell. She had any sort of "birds and the bees" talk with you?
Edit: Could be abit personal, sorry if it is, I happily discuss these sorts of matters on a daily basis, realise others might not.
If he married your mother, why would he want to look at other women in the first place? To paraphrase Swedish cartoonist Charlie Christensen, when you marry someone you say "Your tits and yours only are what I wish to ogle and squeeze", so if you're gonna go around staring at other women, why'd you get married in the first place?
I say talk to him about it.
I say talk to him about it.