Allthingsspectacular said:
Bullying was never a problem back in my day. Problems were things like having enough food to eat, paying the rent, making sure you had clothes, etc. Not being name called. Now more often than ever, I see kids still living with their parents even after they turn 16. Which is a sign that kids are getting dumber, lazier and thinner skinned.
Bullying has always been a problem. The only change that's occurred is people have begun to realize just letting kids make other kid's lives a living hell on a daily basis is neither conducive to their education, nor is it a healthy or stable way for them go go through adolescence and move eventually into adulthood. Also, physical bullying like you see in '50s and '60s television shows got cracked down on as it turned out to be a pretty big safety risk, leading to more psychologically-geared bullying which has lead to more suicides caused by bullying. It turns out there's a big difference between having to live with a daily wedgie and having to live with your peers specifically targeting your fears and insecurities and turning the rest of the school against you. While most students wouldn't want to get involved in hitting another kid, a lot more of them don't mind getting involved in name-calling and jeering. Same effect, less blood and less of a chance of getting caught.
And furthermore, what on earth does bullying have to do with getting the rent paid? I mean I understand kids who lead harder lives are more likely to become bullies and have social and emotional problems and whatnot, but unless the kids were responsible for getting the food, paying the rent, and making sure they had clothes that really shouldn't affect them or whether or not they are bullying/being bullied. It wasn't their problem.
Yes, children should be taught to deal with people not treating them properly. But there is a limit to everything. School should, first and foremost, be a place of safety and openness. A kid shouldn't have to be made suffer and have his problems swept under the rug just because another kid's parent didn't properly teach them how to not be an asshole. Even if a kid is a bit too sensitive that is no excuse. Even the real world doesn't work like that--if somebody is stupid enough to have their wallet sticking out of their pocket and somebody takes it from them, it's still considered stealing. You don't let the thief get off because the victim wasn't prepared for such an event.
I agree that a lot of parents don't know how to discipline their children, but it's rather unfair and childish to say the ENTIRE generation is like that. That way of thinking is no better than the angsty teenager who thinks that all old people are out to get them, and serves no purpose but to prove that angsty teenager right.