What the hell is wrong with the world?

[GordonFawx]

1) Do they like each other?
2) Have either of them been a dick to the other?
3) Do their parents know?

If your answers are Yes, No and Yes then It's probably time to butt out. :/

 

[cuddly_tomato]

*shrug* when I was 20, I dated a 16 year old. Neither of us wanted anything serious, and we had a great time before parting ways. Now I'm 23, and find myself immensly interested in girls who are around the 18 mark.

Also, am I the only one who sees the irony that the OP basically boils down to "Everyone's so selfish! They should think what I think about a given situation!"?

*when* the fuck did i say that everyone should think what i think about the given situation? im asking WHY they think they way they do, i just dont quite understand it. i dont give a fuck if they think the way i do, i just want to know the logic behind why they want to ignore a persons flaws and actions because "he's a sweetie."

so fuck you, asshole

You called this guy a rapist and then went on to use strawman "brutal murderer" arguments. This is why the thread went the way it did.

But to answer your question, she is going out with this guy because she likes him. The reason she is not going out with you is because she doesn't like you... well.. not like that anyway... but I am sure you are good friends....

ok, i didnt call him a rapist. learn to read. furthermore, i even admitted in my first post that i took things out of proportion. so dont call me out on that.

also, i dont have feelings for this girl, so get off that point already. i dont have feelings for any and every girl i try to defend/help. sorry to disappoint you.

I think you'll find I can read perfectly well....

"He's a sweetie!" (direct quote from several people) Also, he's not a bad person because, "He's never done anything wrong to me, and how he lives his life is his business." (another direct quote)

And I just think...what the FUCK has come over people lately? If a rapist is the sweetest person in the world, do we let the fact that he's a rapist go? If someone brutally murders people, do we let it go just because thats how they live their life? If a someone is a known child molester, is he a good person so long as he's not molesting YOUR kids?

Was that just a random paragraph that had nothing to do with this "case"? You just like non sequiturs? That cat typed that and it wasn't you?

As I said, I can read perfectly well, as can most of the other people here. And many of us have read your post and come to the same conclusion - you are having a jealously fueled crush.

 

[HentMas]

Kids fuck.

It happens.

hahahaha

just you cold point out the obvious max, yeah, you are right, its obvious they like it and they both enjoy it, why put our mindset onto others!?? why force people think like us!?!?

 

[lord canti]

I just want to say despite where I stand on this I don't think that the guy need to be beaten or is a bad guy. I think he wrong but not bad.

 

[PrinceoN]

I know what I should have said!

The world isn't as bitter as you, that's what's wrong with the world, right?!

this could be it. if everyone was more cynical the world would be a much better place imo.

but i dont think i really want everyone been more bitter, just less...i dunno, easy going?

people seem to let things that are wrong go these days, and im just tired of that mindset as a whole really.

 

[mobsterlobster]

yeah sure it's selfish but if something doesn't involve me I don't care and for things that do involve me I tend to avoid them, since this doesn't concern me I don't care he can screw up his and her life as much as he wants but it doesn't matter to me as long as it doesn't screw up mine

Although it is a bit weird that a 20 year old is dating a 15 year old, I agree with Leon here. He could get arrested and it'll be his own fault. It's definitely stupid, but it's his problem. But I understand if he's your friend and you don't want him to mess his life up just to get his end away.

 

[Tiny116]

The only reason that it's unnaceptable (And i agree it is) is that the girl is under age. If he were 30 and she 25 would you still have a problem?

 

[axia777]

And I'm glad I'm not your teenager, you sound like you'd be a terribly overbearing parent.

Actually not really. I all ready told my daughter that provided the gets good grades I will pay for any tattoo(provided it is not indecent) that she wants when she is 16. She can also get any piercing she wants after she is 16. I have also let her dye her hair all ready and she is only 10. She can continue that as long as she likes at any color she wants. She can be punk as fuck if she wants to.

She also watches movies like Resident Evil and Shaun of the Dead(she loves Zombies). I also will let her drink at home when she is 16. I don't think the drinking laws in America are really that realistic. When she gets older than 15-16 sex is her business. She just needs to know getting pregnant as a teen ager will impede her life for quite a long time and that AIDS/other STD's are a real danger, especially to women.

My basic rule of thumb for teens having sex and maturity is this. Are you mature enough to handle raising a kid? Yes? No? It is a hard question to answer. If it is not you are not thinking about it enough. Because if you are having sex then you can have a child. If you have a child your whole lives are changed forever.

 

[The Austin]

EDIT (again): alright, fuckers

I was up with you until this point. Now you just seem like a... Well..... A dick.

 

[cikame]

Same situation only my friend was 18 and she was 14, it seemed very wrong at the time but it's been 3 years, seems totally normal now.
I no longer have a problem with it, just goes to show age changes alot of things.

 

[nelsonr100]

Lol just sound a bit jealous to me. Its not illegal for them to date, and if they have feelings for each other then whats the harm? It wouldn't be so odd for an 18 year old to be with a 23 year old would it

 

[PrinceoN]

also, i dont have feelings for this girl, so get off that point already. i dont have feelings for any and every girl i try to defend/help. sorry to disappoint you.

If you didn't have any feelings towards someone you try to help/defend, then you wouldn't be helping/defending them.

alright, lets not be an extremist please =|. this girl is my friend. i dont have any feelings of love/infatuation for her. better?

 

[HentMas]

I'm totally for PrinceoN on this, to hell with these immature posters, what the fuck does it matter if he fancies her or not anyway, what he has described is wrong? it doesnt matter how nice the guy is, he is a grown man messing around with a silly underage girl, she is likely to end up doing something she is not ready for and will likely later regret.

a guy i know knocked up a girl three years his junior (he is 17 she is 14), where i live at least this was seen as disgusting and totally unacceptable. and so it should be there, these girls are too young to understand what they are getting in to, and as such it is perfectly right to voice concern.

to be honest what he has described is absolutely deplorable, hwoever once she reaches the age of consent it is no longer anyones business unless she is in physical danger.

in my, humble, opinion

are you female and 14?? if not then my friend you cant have a voice in the argument because you have no idea what level of maturity a female 14 years old haves

and voice concern is right, except this is actually just raging and flaming and insulting, see the flaw!?!?

 

[Chipperz]

This is off topic but why is it that teens seem to have such anger against any form of authority?

Wasn't there something about having a chemical makeup in their brains that is related to their changing hormones, making it hard for them to accept orders or something? I... I can't remember where I saw it, or I'd link it.

I may have dreamed it, in fact, but it sounds plausible.

HMMM I'm not sure but I sounds like you being sarcastic. and if your not then that is really interesting I might have to look into it.

I'm being serious. To the best of my recollection, I saw the results of a study that suggested there was a physiological reason why teenagers rebelled more. I'll be buggered if I can find it on Google, though. I'll keep looking - I've piqued my own interest now...

 

[Internet Kraken]

also, i dont have feelings for this girl, so get off that point already. i dont have feelings for any and every girl i try to defend/help. sorry to disappoint you.

If you didn't have any feelings towards someone you try to help/defend, then you wouldn't be helping/defending them.

alright, lets not be an extremist please =|. this girl is my friend. i dont have any feelings of love/infatuation for her. better?

I wasn't trying to be an extremist. But if I sounded like one, then I apologize.

And why do you care so much about the decisions your friend makes? She doesn't need you to defend her from anything.

 

[PrinceoN]

*shrug* when I was 20, I dated a 16 year old. Neither of us wanted anything serious, and we had a great time before parting ways. Now I'm 23, and find myself immensly interested in girls who are around the 18 mark.

Also, am I the only one who sees the irony that the OP basically boils down to "Everyone's so selfish! They should think what I think about a given situation!"?

*when* the fuck did i say that everyone should think what i think about the given situation? im asking WHY they think they way they do, i just dont quite understand it. i dont give a fuck if they think the way i do, i just want to know the logic behind why they want to ignore a persons flaws and actions because "he's a sweetie."

so fuck you, asshole

You called this guy a rapist and then went on to use strawman "brutal murderer" arguments. This is why the thread went the way it did.

But to answer your question, she is going out with this guy because she likes him. The reason she is not going out with you is because she doesn't like you... well.. not like that anyway... but I am sure you are good friends....

ok, i didnt call him a rapist. learn to read. furthermore, i even admitted in my first post that i took things out of proportion. so dont call me out on that.

also, i dont have feelings for this girl, so get off that point already. i dont have feelings for any and every girl i try to defend/help. sorry to disappoint you.

I think you'll find I can read perfectly well....

"He's a sweetie!" (direct quote from several people) Also, he's not a bad person because, "He's never done anything wrong to me, and how he lives his life is his business." (another direct quote)

And I just think...what the FUCK has come over people lately? If a rapist is the sweetest person in the world, do we let the fact that he's a rapist go? If someone brutally murders people, do we let it go just because thats how they live their life? If a someone is a known child molester, is he a good person so long as he's not molesting YOUR kids?

Was that just a random paragraph that had nothing to do with this "case"? You just like non sequiturs? That cat typed that and it wasn't you?

As I said, I can read perfectly well, as can most of the other people here. And many of us have read your post and come to the same conclusion - you are having a jealously fueled crush.

im sorry, i always learned in school that paragraphs seperate ideas. there was a clear space between those two paragraphs, i was hoping you would realize that they only vaguely had anything to do with each other.

but even then, i wasnt calling HIM a rapist. i was asking if a rapist's personality has anything to do with whether we forgive the rapist while he's raping someone or not. i said "sweetest" because it was already on my mind. you can change it out with any positive personality trait if you wish, i dont really care.

and no, you cant read. "also, i dont have feelings for this girl, so get off that point already. i dont have feelings for any and every girl i try to defend/help. sorry to disappoint you."

"And many of us have read your post and come to the same conclusion - you are having a jealously fueled crush." <---i just said i wasnt.

 

[HentMas]

also, i dont have feelings for this girl, so get off that point already. i dont have feelings for any and every girl i try to defend/help. sorry to disappoint you.

If you didn't have any feelings towards someone you try to help/defend, then you wouldn't be helping/defending them.

alright, lets not be an extremist please =|. this girl is my friend. i dont have any feelings of love/infatuation for her. better?

if she is your friend, hear her out! she haves her reasons to be with that guy! cant you trust your friend enough to stand by her side with her decition?? after all, if all goes down at least she will have YOU to support her as you are already doing it in your own peculiar way.

 

[Booze Zombie]

this could be it. if everyone was more cynical the world would be a much better place imo.

but i dont think i really want everyone been more bitter, just less...i dunno, easy going?

people seem to let things that are wrong go these days, and im just tired of that mindset as a whole really.

If he isn't pinning her down and having wild cocaine fueled orgies with her and all of her underaged friends, there is nothing illegal happening.

 

[PrinceoN]

EDIT (again): alright, fuckers

I was up with you until this point. Now you just seem like a... Well..... A dick.

oi, sorry, i didnt mean to sound like a dick, im just mad and have been fueled by rage thanks to some of the posters

 

[PrinceoN]

this could be it. if everyone was more cynical the world would be a much better place imo.

but i dont think i really want everyone been more bitter, just less...i dunno, easy going?

people seem to let things that are wrong go these days, and im just tired of that mindset as a whole really.

If he isn't pinning her down and having wild cocaine fueled orgies with her and all of her underaged friends, there is nothing illegal happening.

i didnt say "illegal" i said "wrong." theres a difference

not everything thats wrong is illegal, and not everything thats illegal is wrong.