IamLEAM1983 said:
As for the OP: who gives a damn, honestly? Keep liking what you like and let anyone stupid enough to condemn your tastes prattle on. Opinions are pretty hard to modify
That's a good way to sum it up. Haters gonna hate and so on.
I've seen more of the "hating" described by OP towards Rap, electronic and classical music though. If you're between the ages of 10 and 70 and you say you like metal, nobody won't give a fuck in Finland because that's as shocking and rare as saying you like ice cream.
Personally I find the heavier rock, metal (and their forty-eight thousand different genres and subgenres) way too boring. It has to progressive or otherwise interesting. I've enjoyed plenty of SoaD, native punk rock bands and bands like At The Drive-In (not Mars Volta though) and so on. There are certain aspects that catch and keep my attention, which is the case for most people, of course.
As a teenager, a large majority of my friend group were enthusiastic metalheads, the odd rest liking whatever pop songs to the here-and-there hits, music not being such a factor. My strongest passion was and has been Hip-Hop, but it doesn't mean there wasn't plenty of room for everything from classical music through Miles Davis, Johnny Cash, Maximum The Hormone to Blockhead and Aphex Twin...
Which slowly and clumsily bridges to my original 2 cents to this conversation: Seeing these kind of topics and the general talk about metal and similar entities, especially online, as well as in real-life; many people who like metal, like to mention that whenever a chance comes or at least show it by appearance, and except an awe of certain respect for that. At the same time when they are complaining why some people
wrongly see them (because of their appearance or heavy metal stereotypes associated to them) as intimidating and other imaginable adjectives; they go on to chew them over, and like it. Even enforcing those stereotypes so they can wear it like a cloak, whether to gain a bit of some kind of strange admiration, or to hide their insecurities.
That's kind of a complex thing to bring up as I see it, but anyone willing to elaborate on that, feel free to do so, because I still don't understand why the label of metal-listener is used in such a way.