Womplord said:
See, you don't know the effects of rape are "roughly the same level of severity" as a heavy beating because you have
never been raped. Is it really necessary for me to repeat this? You haven't been raped, and therefore you
do not know what it is like, nor can you even begin to speculate on the emotional ramifications of such an experience because, once you again, you
haven't been raped. You seem to just be comparing your experience with a few similar comments you might have seen written in some article about rape victims - what those articles don't cover, however, is the irreparable long-term damage that will undoubtedly occur as a result of that traumatic experience.
I'm not trying to downplay your experience - what happened to you is terrible, and I'm sorry about that. However, it seems to have been
so horrible for you that you're convinced you can compare it to one of the most horrific acts a human being can commit, when you can't. Why? You haven't been raped, and therefore, it makes no logical sense for you to compare your experience to another experience that you objectively know nothing about. You know what rape
is, but that's about it. What rape does to a person psychologically, emotionally, or even physically is something that only rape victims can elaborate on.
And, just in case you forgot, I've actually been trying to reinforce how horrible rape is - rape, being one of the most appalling and despicable types of violence out there, means that I was not downplaying the effects of violence
at all.