What's Your Kink?

[Jenvas1306]

I like to do kinky things to my bf while he sleeps. Does that count? Besides that, giving a bj is quite a turn on for me.

Yes raping your boyfriend while he sleeps definitely counts.

its not rape if its mutually consent

If he's unconscious it's not consensual.

he is my boyfriend, he knows about my kinks quite well and usually enjoys waking up like that.

 

[370999]

Refusing to write what I like in bed on a public forum, due to privacy concerns.

Does that count?

 

[WolfThomas]

If he's unconscious it's not consensual.

So all surgeries are non-consensual because the patient was asleep?

It's a bit of a grey area that actually arose in Canada a little while back, for some light reading:
http://wiselaw.blogspot.com.au/2011/05/supreme-courts-confusing-decision-in-r.html

For a (non-legal oppinion) from popular sex commenter Dan Savage:
http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=20489

When you're in a serious longterm relationship there's a bit of wiggle room with initiating of sex.

he is my boyfriend, he knows about my kinks quite well and usually enjoys waking up like that.

And this is pretty much prospective implied consent.

 

[Jenvas1306]

I'm fairly amused by this stuff....

for the files, he is my bf, so we talk about such things and i actually asked him about such things. you know making clear if we have the same understanding of lines that are not to cross and we do.

 

[Hazy]

[HEADING=1]Freckles[/HEADING]

I love them on girls.

 

[disgruntledgamer]

he is my boyfriend, he knows about my kinks quite well and usually enjoys waking up like that.

Hey not judging, just saying many courts would still consider that rape so might want to get something in writing just in case things go sour.

So all surgeries are non-consensual because the patient was asleep?

Apples and Oranges dude not even close.

Refusing to write what I like in bed on a public forum, due to privacy concerns.

Does that count?

Nope.

 

[Jenvas1306]

he is my boyfriend, he knows about my kinks quite well and usually enjoys waking up like that.

Hey not judging, just saying many courts would still consider that rape so might want to get something in writing just in case things go sour.

So all surgeries are non-consensual because the patient was asleep?

Apples and Oranges dude not even close.

Refusing to write what I like in bed on a public forum, due to privacy concerns.

Does that count?

Nope.

ah its good that there are still people who know how to troll in a funny way.

btw, is that your kink?

 

[WolfThomas]

Apples and Oranges dude not even close.

There's some very important similarities as both are pretty significant events that occur while you're incapable of giving consent. As mentioned in the article surgery which is arguably more dangerous requires lower levels of consent to sex in Canada.

Even if it is illegal in the nation of the poster, it doesn't make it morally or ethically wrong. Sodomy was illegal in Texas up into 2003. Laws are ever changing to accommodate new and different situations.

Boyfriend likes having sex initiated on him while sleeping, gives informed, capable and voluntary consent. I can't see the problem.

Edit: Also
http://improb.com/airchives/paperair/volume1/v1i3/air-1-3-apples.html

 

[scarred4life]

Yep, you're winning this thread.

Good job posting it despite it being pretty out there.
/fistbump.

Yup, I had a feeling that would happen. XD My kink is waaaay the fuck out there.

Any tips would be helpful, BTW.

'Practice' having sex (and you know what I mean by that) in the location and approximate time you plan to have sex. Do it while imagining your fantasy.

Then when you have sex, the sights, sounds and smells of the place you 'practiced' should help to get you aroused enough in anticipation to get through the actual act itself. (NOTE: It may take more than three weeks of 'conditioning' to your mind in the right place at the right time).

Then what you do in your own mind while having sex should get you through the rest. It's also best to do it when you're tired so you don't over-think it and lose momentum (as it were). Hope that helps. That's some free sex therapy advice right there.

Yeah, that's good advice. Thanks.

Already, when I umm...have my 'alone time', I tend to change my thoughts to my sweetheart about 3/4 of the way through. I'm slowly backing it up too.

 

[CrazyGirl17]

Kinks? Weeelll... let's just say I have a thing for transformations and leave it at that...

 

[Dragoon]

I like girls with short hair who are quite spunky and energetic, as you can see from my avatar. Sadly girls like this in real life are hard to find

I also have a slight thing for japanese anime/video game girls so I guess that's a little weird although not to the whole waifu love pillow level, I do prefer real women though.

Spoiler: My favorite anime/video game girls

 

[disgruntledgamer]

ah its good that there are still people who know how to troll in a funny way.

btw, is that your kink?

Nope that's just a minor hobby. And hey remember if men can get arrested for it so can women.

 

[Jenvas1306]

ah its good that there are still people who know how to troll in a funny way.

btw, is that your kink?

Nope that's just a minor hobby. And hey remember if men can get arrested for it so can women.

yeah, got ya, we're being equal and thats good. women can rape too. not the case here. If you can molest your boyfrind, then who else?
Its still leading of the topic, so better add something naughty soon.

 

[JochemHippie]

Get the whips out, I love me some SM.

Also pegging, gotta love pegging.

 

[StormShaun]

I like girls with short hair who are quite spunky and energetic, as you can see from my avatar. Sadly girls like this in real life are hard to find

I also have a slight thing for japanese anime/video game girls so I guess that's a little weird although not to the whole waifu love pillow level, I do prefer real women though.

I know your feeling man, I like girls from anime and visual novels. Too bad they don't exists...well my ideal girl might but she is just incredibly hard to find...
(And I'm the same way, I prefer RL girls...but I think my perfect girl is out there...being all cute. T_T)


But my favorite girl is the cute, adorable, innocent and petite type.

Spoiler: My favorite VN girl.

She's 16 years old...I swear it!!! >.<

I'm a... fuck it, I don't feel like sharing again.

You'll just have to guess.

I'm going to judge you by your avatar...

Gordon Freeman?
A crowbar?
The combine invasion?
Weird G-Mod poses?

Just guessing. ^.^ (But kidding)

 

[Slenn]

I'm kind of a sucker for girlish cuteness, so whenever I see a girl in a frilly or cute dress, I squeal.

 

[CAPTCHA]

Pertentious hippy chicks - the ones with nitted berets and baggy jumpers who hang out in Waterstones.

 

[Moonlight Butterfly]

Intelligence and tall dark and handsome.

I guess I'm kind of traditional