SinisterGehe said:
If you call me Craka, Cracker, Milk, Milk-face... etc... Then I am allowed to call you black, ******... ect...
We are all equal that means that you can not say that you have the unique right to some words, if it is so then we have that right also.
The false pretense that we're currently equal aside, there is such a thing as context which does grant bodies unique rights to use words without offense. For example, I can make a crack about any one of my friend's mothers without repercussion. They can do the same about mine. We trash talk each others' families, beliefs, and even spouses where applicable. I wouldn't expect to be able to make a joke about your mother, or anyone else's here without repercussions, because I'm capable of understanding the difference. And I wouldn't want someone random attacking any member of my family, period. Even though I know they're all screwed up.
If you're going to equate a word tied to centuries of slavery, hate, and even abuse and violence to one literally derived from being the one holding the whip, well...I'd say it sounds like you're going out of your way to look for a reason to be offended or even possibly combative.
And honestly, if you've got a grasp of the English language (or almost any other), you should probably have some grasp on the way language always has tiers of severity in its connotation. This is one of the reasons "******" is reacted to with more vitriol than even other slurs against black people, of which there are TONS.