Whos your dream girl/boy?
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i'd like to give some happy tale about how i found her and that we are happy together, but no, i found a girl who seemed to be everything i ever wanted or could dream for, then she used me, abused me, left me and came back when i was needed again, just like all those before her, and like an idiot, i keep on welcoming them back, because they are all the same, a dream is a dream, fiction given life by desperation and delusion...
aren't i just a happy camper ? -holds up rifle-
perfection is a curse, not a gift; a standard set too high for one mortal to reach.
aren't i just a happy camper ? -holds up rifle-
perfection is a curse, not a gift; a standard set too high for one mortal to reach.
She treated me fine, but you're kind of right about nothing in common. We were good friends and all, and if it wasn't for the major differences in taste then it'd have been fine.SimuLord said:
I feel bad for letting her go, since she was a genuinely nice, funny person, and I feel guilty for dumping her because she invited me to a Miley Cyrus concert. And asked me to see New Moon with her. I could have put up with the annoying Tweeniness for a bit longer, it just pissed me off.
Probably a girl that will listen to me, and I wouldn't think she was judging me (I happen to do that alot lately).
Personality wise, I would like it if she shared the same view on life as me. Where if crap happens, it happens, when its good, its great. Also its not a want, she NEEDS to be kind. I never want to consider girls in the same light of jerkitude as some guys but sometimes I do, and i'm sad about it.
Physically, no deeply defined muscles would be good. No being taller than me. Other than that I think its ok ("I think").
Personality wise, I would like it if she shared the same view on life as me. Where if crap happens, it happens, when its good, its great. Also its not a want, she NEEDS to be kind. I never want to consider girls in the same light of jerkitude as some guys but sometimes I do, and i'm sad about it.
Physically, no deeply defined muscles would be good. No being taller than me. Other than that I think its ok ("I think").
Unless you're about 14, you don't get to kick yourself for that. As I see it, it's still being a pedo even if the girl is 30 if she's into that tween shit.Octorok said:
Seriously...Miley Cyrus and New Moon?! Get yourself a girl with taste and stop worrying about it.
Sheesh, a lot of people here like goths. But I understand. I'm a sucker for lanky goth boys with multi-colored hair. To make this boy ideal, he'd have to be music and geek oriented, like to talk with me doing the listening, and like traveling.
My ideal woman...hm. Guess I should have some idea of one, after 4 solid years surrounded by chicks. I think my facebook wife is my ideal woman: charismatic, brilliant and adventourous.
[sub][sub]incedentally, I'm a kinds-redheaded semi-goth chick. so we do exist.[/sub][/sub]
My ideal woman...hm. Guess I should have some idea of one, after 4 solid years surrounded by chicks. I think my facebook wife is my ideal woman: charismatic, brilliant and adventourous.
[sub][sub]incedentally, I'm a kinds-redheaded semi-goth chick. so we do exist.[/sub][/sub]
viper3 said:
You will probably never find perfection, that is true for everybody. Everyone has flaws, but in most cases it is easy to overlook those flaws in someone due to their positive traits. The trick is recognizing and differentiating a small flaw from a giant one that could potentially harm you. Liking slightly annoying music is in the first category. Something like that should never come between two people. A tendency to stab you in the back fits in the second category.
When someone with a flaw in category B comes along, sometimes welcoming is the wrong response. I've learned that from experience. In the past, I've never rejected anyone who stabbed me in the back before. That never ended well. Just more blood lost overall. Recently though, someone did the whole betraying me thing again. I flat out told them no the second time around, and in a polite manner, explained exactly how they were trying to manipulate me (this, after the first time around I got a very detailed description of how much she hated people that manipulate others), and how I would not stand for it. There was a sudden silence, and I have yet to hear a single word from that person again.
The feeling I got from that was not sadness, as I would have expected (since I really did like the person), but a sense of joy and confidence, perhaps equal to the feelings that were there before the first betrayal. It didn't fix things, but it helped me personally. That's all you can try to do in those situations, really. If you continue to let your nice welcoming nature run rampant where it is not warranted, you are doomed to sitting in a corner crying yourself to sleep at night. That, or eventually becoming dead inside. Depending on your personality. I'm more of the latter, myself.
(That being said, I would like to amend my original list o' qualities. I want someone who is fun to be around, has a great personality, and likes me for who I am, not what I am.)
a red-headed goth girl with deep, crystalline eyes.
One with whom I could speak with at length about anything from video games to philosophy to technology to literature ... anything really. Someone who would want to be with me forever; who shares my interests and pleasure. Someone I can cook with and eat with. Somebody I can write and draw with. Someone I can cuddle with whenever I want to because ... well ... she and I would share the same interests so, she would like to cuddle any time anyway ...
One with whom I could speak with at length about anything from video games to philosophy to technology to literature ... anything really. Someone who would want to be with me forever; who shares my interests and pleasure. Someone I can cook with and eat with. Somebody I can write and draw with. Someone I can cuddle with whenever I want to because ... well ... she and I would share the same interests so, she would like to cuddle any time anyway ...
My dream guy? Someone I can be with without feeling awkward or inhibited, which is a big leap for me, as I always feel awkward and inhibited.
My dream guy would also be fairly neurotic, he'd have problems but he'd know how to deal with them properly, he'd be emotionally open, and blah blah blah, who cares.
We all answer the same way for these things, let's get to the truth: Appearance. I never liked muscles, they just look freakish to me, to be honest I'd prefer a skinny guy, I'd probably go for an indie-ish person, with a sort of vulnerably nerdy thing going on.
My dream guy would also be fairly neurotic, he'd have problems but he'd know how to deal with them properly, he'd be emotionally open, and blah blah blah, who cares.
We all answer the same way for these things, let's get to the truth: Appearance. I never liked muscles, they just look freakish to me, to be honest I'd prefer a skinny guy, I'd probably go for an indie-ish person, with a sort of vulnerably nerdy thing going on.
Someone that is attractive (duh)
That can be a bit of a nerd
That isn't annoying
REDHEAD PLEASE
And someone who I can talk to about music without felling like I'm talking to a brick wall
(starts drooling at the mental image I gave myself)
EDIT: also someone that dosen't want to be with a guy just to have a million kids
That can be a bit of a nerd
That isn't annoying
REDHEAD PLEASE
And someone who I can talk to about music without felling like I'm talking to a brick wall
(starts drooling at the mental image I gave myself)
EDIT: also someone that dosen't want to be with a guy just to have a million kids