Why dont people work harder to have MOAR sex in their lives?

[megaraccoon]

hate to say this but sex equals world peace? ummm no men would immediatly slaughter one another over the best woman and women over men the increase in sex would result in an increase in population irrespective of availability of contraception and abortion resultin in more poverty as family size increases not to mention how the constant sex would harm men and women physically from std's and as any prostitue will tell you the inevitable friction damage plus imagine the arguments of how you would get everyone sexually satisfied, do we all just shag whowever we want or do robots come into this not to mention the moral and ethical consequences of over-promiscuis behaviour cuz frankly ive been with a woman with wizards sleeve it wasnt fun for me or her

 

[Foolishman1776]

Because, first off, and this never happens for some people. Once you GROW UP and get rid of the teenage hormones you realize there is more to life then getting your rocks off. Because sex in any other case than to produce offspring is a waste of time, and spreads disease. Because sex rapidly becomes an addiction, and like any addiction, takes priority over all other considerations, like eating. Also, sexual frustration is not the cause of all the world's evils, that's a load of hogwash put forth by closet sex addicts to attempt to justify their selfish behavior.

 

[Xabekrn]

Because sex shouldn't be a physical experience that is just for a quick 30 minutes of joy. Coming from someone who has had meaningless drunk sex, I would much rather create a bond with a girl and progress that bond until I feel close enough to her to have sex. Sexual abuse is perverse and immature. People always say its only natural because animals have sex all the time with of course no emotional bond. Well just yesterday my dog ate cat turds out of the cat box and I told my roommates its only natural. So should we eat cat turds because animals do it? We are different from animals we have self control and we have morals( at least we should) Having a meaningful relationship with someone you care about is a lot more rewarding than sexing up some hoe that you wouldn't care if you saw the next day.

 

[Xabekrn]

Because, first off, and this never happens for some people. Once you GROW UP and get rid of the teenage hormones you realize there is more to life then getting your rocks off. Because sex in any other case than to produce offspring is a waste of time, and spreads disease. Because sex rapidly becomes an addiction, and like any addiction, takes priority over all other considerations, like eating. Also, sexual frustration is not the cause of all the world's evils, that's a load of hogwash put forth by closet sex addicts to attempt to justify their selfish behavior.

You posted this right before I posted mine, but I completely agree. I can't belive there is an actual adult out there with a reasonable opinion. Thanks

 

[Glademaster_v1legacy]

Well it is good but like everything it needs to done in moderation. Too much can be bad as it eats into your time and also you know there's the STDs. It should also be with someone that love and genuinely enjoy being with. If you can satify those coniditons it is all good and sex will be a good thing.

 

[ComicsAreWeird]

People should just have the amount of sex they feel like having. I found that the "People shouldnt have sex" thread rather pointless, but i wouldnt tell someone to have more sex just for the sake of it. It´s something natural and shouldnt be forced. Since it´s only natural, it shouldnt be supressed either.

Too much thought is being spent on these subjects. If anything, i would encourage people to do what feels right to them...that could mean being more sexually active or being abstinent.

That said, sex is great. I highly recommend it , heh.

 

[Jamboxdotcom]

to quote the Dresden Dolls (Shores of California):

Why all these conflicting specifications?
Maybe to prevent overpopulation.
All i know is that all around the nation
the girls are crying
and the boys are masturbating.

 

[Saulkar]

The idea behind this thread is going, going, gone!

 

[Dirzzit]

If I were to have even more sex then........wait whats 1 times 0?

 

[Addendum_Forthcoming]

Well ... arguable, good sex is ebetter than moar sex ;P

Though in all seriousness you can have too much of a good thing. If your partner(s) gave ut away too easily then there'd be no feeling of accomplishment and it would be less romantic #.#

Spoiler

It's not about sex ... it's about intimacy

Should probably note that that pic is actually two female wolves exchanging affection <.< But the point still stands ... it's close-ness and intimacy that ultimate give the feeling of the greatest reward in a romantic relationship n.n

 

[stormtrooper9091]

well i can't have sex because i'm an engineer, shit like that is reserved for regular people

 

[z3rostr1fe]

Because we want to have MOAR, that's what!

 

[Vortigar]

Sex isn't the cure for cancer.
That's all I care to contribute to this.

Well, okay, one remark then.

Haha!

Oh God, that avatar goes really well with this thread.

And so does that sheep above me...

 

[OldRat]

Because my hard drive's already full and my hands get tired easily.

 

[HellsingerAngel]

Because, first off, and this never happens for some people. Once you GROW UP and get rid of the teenage hormones you realize there is more to life then getting your rocks off. Because sex in any other case than to produce offspring is a waste of time, and spreads disease. Because sex rapidly becomes an addiction, and like any addiction, takes priority over all other considerations, like eating. Also, sexual frustration is not the cause of all the world's evils, that's a load of hogwash put forth by closet sex addicts to attempt to justify their selfish behavior.

How terribly narrow-minded. Good to know the only reason to have sex is to make babies. Because, y'know, it has nothing to do with an expression of passion or deep seeded attraction/love for a person. That would be silly.

I agree, there is more to life than getting your rocks off. However, getting your rocks off is apart of life and one that humans tend to neglect to a large degree. As you've put it, once you grow up, you should realise, as an adult, that while you shouldn't nessesarily be fucking everything with two legs that are wide open, you do need to indulge on a regular basis to be a well adjusted individual. Anything but will start to have negative reprecussions on your life and this thread is not just about having tons of sex, but the possible benefits of having a healthy sex life.

The other things I'd like to point out is your claims to sex becoming an addiction, for anyone, very quickly. Are you just stupid? Yes, sex has addictive properies. You know what else does? Food! Books! Video games! Almsot anything that gives positive stimulation to your brain has, in some shape or form, addictive properties. Good job on being yet another person to take that to an extreme and say "sex is 100% addictive" because it has the properties to be so. Responsible people don't get addicted and have very meaningful, healthy relationships with various partners during their years of being sexually active. Just because some people get addicted to it, doesn't mean it's bad.

Lastly, I'd like to touch on your last comment, which seems extremely out of line. All people who say sex can be rooted to issues within someone's life are sex additcs? Well, good to know all those studies that doctors perform on psychological studies relating to sex are all useless. Because, y'know, a group all with doctorates successfully corrolating the build up of stess within one's life to something as simple as not having a roll in the hay once in awhile have no idea what they're talking about. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it is proven that having sex does improve your life, so long as you're responcible about it. Do a quick google search and you'll find plenty on the subject of how sex can improve one's life emotionally, physically and mentally. I actually just did one myself and CBS had an interetsing little article on "Top Ten Reasons To Have Sex". While I would say there are more in-depth articles on each of these topics, it certainly runs the gambit on why you should have sex: http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2008/03/24/health/webmd/main3961093.shtml

 

[fundayz]

Why don't people work to get mroe sex? ....umm they do, inf act it is the main of any single person(plus a nice relationship but its in the same line)

 

[Tarmon'gaidin]

Oh god this sex thing is really turning into a flamewar ABOUT SEX it's amazing.

OT: I lovez to make sexy time with ma girl.

 

[Simonccx]

because flowers are expensive

 

[Skarvig]

First of all: Too much sex = Bad. We already have too much people on the planet, we really don't want more.
Second: Masturbation is as good as sex. Even better, because you can concentrate on your needs, not the needs of someone else. But most people don't realize that and just listen to T.V. and the yellow press.