Louis CK covered this gay thing very well, when he was verated for giggling at some rollerskating guy in nothing but pink glittery hotpants and some lime green rollerskates, gliding down the sidewalk..just being very stereotypically...gay.
'Hey, you can't laugh at him for being gay'
'I'm not, I'm laughing cos he looks fucking ridiculous, I don't care if he loves cock or not, he looks hilarious!'
I also don't care if you are gay or not, but, just like if you choose to dress like a chav, I've got every right to assume you'll try to steal my phone and wallet, if you go so flamboyant that you look like you were dragged backwards thru a vat of glue then a carnival warehouse, then yes, I might think you look funny.
As for religion, it's pretty much the same as gay, neither side's going to convince the other to change sides thru talking, yet the 'book' demands that they keep trying.
I suggest as an athiest, leave religious people alone to believe, only pull them up on it if they're using it to hate, THEN we have a problem with what they believe, personally, I think the more people who think it's right to help others, love each other nad look after the weak, the better, and if believing in God helps them do that, I'll accept it. If believing in God makes them beat up gays, protest funerals or murder abortion doctors however, fuck em. ( I understand that's a small minority of idiots, mainly just using the Bible as an excuse.)