Total War. Just Total War.
Now, it isn't quite on a personal level, but your generals can gain attributes depending on what actions they take. These actions then affect their soldiers and morale respectively. A dread lord might be the deadliest unit in your army, but his attributes could give him a lower leadership score. Butchering thousands of innocents or prisoners affects your reputation, and fighting under such a merciless leader can make your men wary.
The other thing is with unit experience. Gold Chevron warriors are borderline unstoppable, and you will grow attached to them. These guys will be your frontline soldiers, smashing apart the enemy. You will want to conserve them for pivotal battles, especially when the Horde Nations arrive. There, it is better to weaken the hordes with dozens of weaker armies before delivering the killing blow.
Now, it isn't quite on a personal level, but your generals can gain attributes depending on what actions they take. These actions then affect their soldiers and morale respectively. A dread lord might be the deadliest unit in your army, but his attributes could give him a lower leadership score. Butchering thousands of innocents or prisoners affects your reputation, and fighting under such a merciless leader can make your men wary.
The other thing is with unit experience. Gold Chevron warriors are borderline unstoppable, and you will grow attached to them. These guys will be your frontline soldiers, smashing apart the enemy. You will want to conserve them for pivotal battles, especially when the Horde Nations arrive. There, it is better to weaken the hordes with dozens of weaker armies before delivering the killing blow.