Indeed, people need to have a good long hard look at themselves before accepting responsibility over one child, let alone nine. If you don't think you can look after all of them, don't have all of them, practise safe sex, get abortions, put kids up for adoption, whatever feels right to you, gorram do it.
Hell, I ain't gonna have kids. I'm not responsible enough, and even if I was, if my career goes well, I'll be do busy to be there for them, and I don't plan on being a scumbag parent.