I think this is holdover from real world. Before video games boys and men went out to play some sport. And in sport, as physical activity most often relying on strength, endurance and speed, males have natural advantage over females. So when men is beaten by woman of equal training level in particular sport it was badge of honor for her bur burden of shame for him.Phasmal said:Yeah, I've never bragged with the `You got beaten by a girl`, because it kind of implies that.. you shouldn't be beaten by a girl, you know? Like it's something to be ashamed of.
These days men and boys often go to video games for same R&R so it transitioned over.
Also, fact that in eighties and nineties mostly boys played video games and thus were, on average, much better in them compared to girls, added to that specific social stigma. Funny thing is, girls actually adopted pong much better then men since it relied on fine motor skills which girls were, on base level, better. Nobody had advantage of experience so better fine motor skills and roughly equal hand-eye coordination gave them the edge.
@runic knight
Publishers target male 18-35 demographics because they drop more money than anyone. And reason why they drop more money than any other demographics is complex but can be roughly simplified to
- When we first get freedom of choice we are least responsible with time thus spending most of it on pleasure. If video games are your pleasure, you spend it there.
- When we first get our own source of income we are least responsible with money thus spending it easily on pleasure. If video games are your pleasure, you spend it there.
- Men are much more likely to sacrifice other fields for their hobby. Clothes, nights out, food even health. If video games are your hobby, you spend what you save there.
- Men are more likely to spend time and money on things that hold no beneficial relevance to social life and world.
There for they target that demographic, which only reconfirms their ideas... I think you recognize the spiral.
As for verbal poison spewed on gender basis out there.
As I already said, most of it is because of "girl in boys club" behavior. While it's good, it's good, but when it turns sour: you are a girl!!! Even if most don't mean that as a gender based insult, it's what's different so it is used as base for attack. Only way to stop that is for females to become regular and accepted part of a group. Now, that requires some sacrifices and it's exactly female gamers who have to make them.
I hate making this comparison since social and cultral significance is really beyon being on the same scale but let talk about how white-black segregation got beaten into the ground.
For years white representatives of egalitarian societies came to segragated states and fought against those laws, And they would win cour case here and there or something like that but never made even an impression, since thing would return to old routine as soon as they left. Not when blacks got organised and decided that it was woth the sacrifice they gathered, formed several groups and one group went into white only shop and sat down. They were told to go away, and when they refused they got dragged out to the street and beaten then arrested. Another group came in, got the same treatment, Adn another, and another. Somwhere along the way owner decided enough was enough. White folks left and he closed the shop with black men in it. And then they repeated the same tomorrow. And the next day. And so on. Since that experiment kind of worked other groups in other towns did the same, with same results. Slowly people were both disgusted by violence and getting used to blacks around them. When they got used to them taking same places white did, people saw them as people thus became less and less racist. That was the initial shot that made it all possible.
So, as long as female gamers hide, no progress can be made. Good thing is that we still didn't invent how to punch someone over internet, but bad thing is that there is little responsibility for actions over internet. Second notion is actually made worse by recent idiotic court decision over mock threat in LoL game. What I'm trying to say is that female gamers, both girls and women, have to come to places they want to inhabit, as mass presence and stay there despite the insults and call-outs. Once group gets used to presence of females things will improve. Girl shaming will still be the ting, its almost genetic I feel. But other than that, it will improve.