I guess "personal insult" wasn't quite the most accurate description. It just gave me that feeling like when I'm watching a comedian I usually like, and suddenly they go off on a track I really don't like. Like they get a lot more political or offensive than they usually are, and things go from all fun and games to just uncomfortable and weird. Being apparently magical and being the only female in the entire game at that point, her presence felt significant in some way. But then her purpose in the game became a very needy sack of potatoes. I kept waiting for her to gain some kind of backbone...and she never did. I just wasn't really expecting such a blatantly...problematic element to exist in what I knew to be one of the most revered titles on the PS2.ManutheBloodedge said:Very interesting position. So it isn't so much a lack of certain games, the existing ones would be fine if they wouldn't have these sexist aspects to them that prevent you from enjoying a otherwise good game. Ok, I can totally see where you are coming from with this, something like that would annoy me too.
I don't really get that Ico thing, I would never take anything a male character does as an personaly insult, and there are many useless and/or vile males in video games. I wouldn't take anything a female character does as a representation on all women everywhere either. The way I see it a characters flaws are there own, she may be cowardly and useless, but I don't think she is cowardly and useless because she is a woman. There is no logical correlation to draw between her flaws and her gender unless specifically stated.
Oh, and to answer your original question, as I said before I'm working on Undertale, but I suppose the games I've put the most time in are Final Fantasy XI and XIV (the MMO Final Fantasy titles) and Team Fortress 2. Apart from that, I really like Mass Effect, Kingdom Hearts, Final Fantasies IX, X, and even X-2 sometimes, Bioshock series, Half-Life series, Portal and Portal 2, Pokemon, Psychonauts, Walking Dead, Professor Layton series, Phoenix Wright, Bravely Default, the new King's Quest game. As another poster above said, I'm not opposed to a male player character if they are well-characterized and likable. I wouldn't have put over 800 hours in TF2 if I were offended by a lack of female options alone. But in too many cases, the lack of options and diversity is simply inexcusable, and feels more like a lack of perspective and care on the side of the creators than a truely stylistic or thematic choice.