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FallenJellyDoughnut

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Christemo said:
never been there, havent done that.


oh well, being 13 its probably a bit early anyway, but, y´know.
Unfortunately, I know a 13 year old who has had sex with about 12 different people (one of them was SIXTEEN!)
 

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Ghengis_tron said:
zombflux said:
I got dumped a few weeks ago, my [then] girlfriend came over just to say that we weren't compatible. I said "okay, bye" and wondered why a simple text couldn't suffice. I don't understand why people have a problem with being dumped/dumping over phone or text.
I really don't take offense over this method, but to me it conveys disrespect and weakness. It's like someone is telling you you are not worth the time for a face to face discussion or worthy of a proper explanation to their actions. Weakness should speak for itself.
What do I care if they disrespect me or are weak? They're dumping me- just get it over with and go away. She even texted me after she left and asked me if I wanted to talk. I was like, "uh, about what?"

Maybe I'm just weird. I don't care for their explanation or reasoning.
 

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Ghengis_tron said:
zombflux said:
I got dumped a few weeks ago, my [then] girlfriend came over just to say that we weren't compatible. I said "okay, bye" and wondered why a simple text couldn't suffice. I don't understand why people have a problem with being dumped/dumping over phone or text.
I really don't take offense over this method, but to me it conveys disrespect and weakness. It's like someone is telling you you are not worth the time for a face to face discussion or worthy of a proper explanation to their actions. Weakness should speak for itself.
Yeah, it's weak and rude. It's like waking up and finding out your boss called you last night to fire you, but it isn't as bad even though it feels worse. (I assume.)
nWovance said:
Whats the worse way you have been dumped, or dumped someone.

My ex dumped me by fking email boys haha, i dumped someone over the phone once (>.<) lol
I'm slowly becoming a grammar Nazi... I hate myself.

OT: I haven't been dumped.:p
 

Christemo

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FallenJellyDoughnut said:
Christemo said:
never been there, havent done that.


oh well, being 13 its probably a bit early anyway, but, y´know.
Unfortunately, I know a 13 year old who has had sex with about 12 different people (one of them was SIXTEEN!)
wow, thats sick.
 

Dragon_of_red

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Christemo said:
FallenJellyDoughnut said:
Christemo said:
never been there, havent done that.


oh well, being 13 its probably a bit early anyway, but, y´know.
Unfortunately, I know a 13 year old who has had sex with about 12 different people (one of them was SIXTEEN!)
wow, thats sick.
You better mean thats "sick" as wrong, not "sick" as in good.

Cause that is seriously messed up, 13 is a bit early
 

Kermi

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I went out with a girl a few times. Called her up to arrange a date - she was telling me she was busy that weekend, while with another guy. Sounded like she was having a good time. A really good time, if you catch my meaning.
 

LooK iTz Jinjo

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I was dumped over msn video chat. She hooked up with her new bf right in front of me. That wasn't a good day.
 

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dragon_of_red said:
Christemo said:
FallenJellyDoughnut said:
Christemo said:
never been there, havent done that.


oh well, being 13 its probably a bit early anyway, but, y´know.
Unfortunately, I know a 13 year old who has had sex with about 12 different people (one of them was SIXTEEN!)
wow, thats sick.
You better mean thats "sick" as wrong, not "sick" as in good.

Cause that is seriously messed up, 13 is a bit early
Isn't that illegal? It is here in austria. I don't know about the country this kid comes from but I guess it's the same there.
 

Jaqen Hghar

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Got dumped over the phone. Said girlfriend was at a festival, called me to tell me that she was dead drunk, she had made out with at least four dudes, and she wanted to end our relationship. I was really broken for about a day, then I realized I never wanted to date a slut anyway.

Now I have been together with my current girlfriend for over two years, and we have lived together for more than one :D

(Oh, and I have only had three girlfriend, counting my current one. My first girlfriend dumped me when I was visiting her for the first time. She lived six hours away by train. Wasn't a real relationship I guess :p )
 

Cody211282

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I spent all the money i had saved up to go see my girl in DC over the summer since she was at an internship, went to see her over the 4th of july weekend, got a hotel for us and everything, she calls me up 2 weeks later and tells me she doesnt love me anymore, ya well what do you need a lifes savings for anyway
 

Angryman101

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First girlfriend became a coke fiend and was sent off to rehab.
Second girlfriend I had to do a little digging because I was suspecting something was amiss. Turns out she was cheating on me. Confronted her in her dorm room and the dude came out of the shower behind her wondering where she'd gone.
Third girlfriend started off great but the relationship was destroyed because of her mom. We kept hooking up with each other for another 4 months, our relationship becoming a twisted parody of its former self with her becoming a cold, passive-aggressive ***** and I a simpering coward who's quality of day hung on whether she decided to be nice to me that day or not. She then told me she was trying to extract me slowly out of her life, so I totally broke it off. Best decision I could ever make, but I got weak and tried contacting her again later. That blew up and now i'm totally over her.
I've currently grown tired of random hook-ups and am looking for a steady girlfriend.
That last one, needless to say, was the worst breakup i've ever had merely because it was so drawn out and painful.
 

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I have a couple juicy breakup stories (although, the last time we had one of these discussions, people made a big stink)

I had been dating a girl online for a few months when I was about 16.. she came to my place for a couple weeks, had my first kiss, yadda yadda.. she goes back home, and I realize that I want some more kisses.. so one of my sisters friends really likes me, so I decide to break up with my girlfriend.. first time I had done that, so I screwed it up.. a friend of mine did it for me, via email (I could have called, we talked a lot on the phone, but I am a chickenshit I suppose).

So I date this friend of my sisters for about 2 years, and we eventually break up.. she's way too clingy, hates my friends, whole deal.. the day that we break up, she, being pissed at me, fucks one of my best friends in my bed. I have a conniption fit, kick the guy out of my house, and refuse to talk to the girl ever again (even though she owes me 500 bucks.. I consider it a "never having to see you again stipend).

I date another girl online after that trainwreck, date her for about a year, visit her in the states a couple times, she comes to see me a couple times.. everythings pretty good.. at the time, we're both pretty big roleplayers.. I play a lot of Vampire the Masquerade, she plays a lot of Mage the Acsension. She ends up breaking up with me. I had been planning on doing it anyway because I really didn't care for her, but she beat me to the punch.. her reasoning was golden though "Matt, it could never work between us, you're vampire, I'm mage, we're too different, too incompatible."

I was flabbergasted, but went along with it, to save myself having to break up with her at a later time.
 

SirDeadly

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I once got dumped by silence, She didn't talk to me forever, So I assumed she broke up with me. No texts nor nothing.
Were you sure if she was even alive?
 

damselgaming

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Boyfriend:
"You when you have a really awesome slice of cake, and you're like- damn this is good cake! But you look on the cake plate and there's another piece of cake that you wonder about... Is it more delicious?.. Well.. you're the first cake."

The best bit, he came crawling back a week later when the more delicious cake (an unknown friend of mine) said to his face that he was a c*nt and he didn't even deserve me. That was a good day.
 

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SirBryghtside said:
I had one kiddy relationship when I was 10, and it ended hilariously.

My g/f told asked a Polish girl to ask me if I wanted to dump her.

She said my name, and I said yes, wanting to know what she wanted.

As she was Polish, she took this as the answer to the question :p

I didn't really care, because, by that stage, I knew it would be meaningless anyway.
that's a great little story.
 

Disaster Button

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I got dumped on Christmas day. I think.

I texted her "Merry Christmas babe" and she rang back, for some reason I didn't answer but when I went back to school apparently it was over and I had no idea.

I was 15, so it's probly not as serious but we were together for 7 months. It didn't really matter that much though as it was an awful relationshiop (mainly due to me) but it was still a shock to have everyone know I was dumped and not know myself.
 

Christemo

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dragon_of_red said:
Christemo said:
FallenJellyDoughnut said:
Christemo said:
never been there, havent done that.


oh well, being 13 its probably a bit early anyway, but, y´know.
Unfortunately, I know a 13 year old who has had sex with about 12 different people (one of them was SIXTEEN!)
wow, thats sick.
You better mean thats "sick" as wrong, not "sick" as in good.

Cause that is seriously messed up, 13 is a bit early
i mean "sick" as in his dong has its own evil mind.
 

Neosage

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Well I ate some bad meat one day, had the runs for a few days. Decided maybe I should take some pills. They worked too well, didn't go for a shi........Oh, you mean breaking up.
 

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nicole1207 said:
Boyfriend:
"You when you have a really awesome slice of cake, and you're like- damn this is good cake! But you look on the cake plate and there's another piece of cake that you wonder about... Is it more delicious?.. Well.. you're the first cake."

The best bit, he came crawling back a week later when the more delicious cake (an unknown friend of mine) said to his face that he was a c*nt and he didn't even deserve me. That was a good day.
That is an amazing story. Congratulations, I think you just made my day with that one, and hopefully you've had more luck since then.