ccdistancerunner said:
My mom treats me like a 16 year old, even though I'm 21. I have to ASK her to go out with friends, or my fiancee. She completely freaked out that I got engaged. She keeps on calling my fiancee "Princess" just because she does not have a job and is focusing on graduating college with a degree in Chemistry. She says that I bow to my fiancee's every wish. She also is forcing me to pay almost $300 a month for health insurance when I make less than that every two weeks. I cannot stay out past midnight most of the times, 10 on weekdays. I cannot see my fiancee more than 3 times a week. Me and her argued about a week ago and I stormed out and went to my fiancee's. About an hour later she called and said if I didn't come home she would call the police and file a stolen car report (because the title is in my parent's names). She will not transfer the title for my car to me so that way i can sell it and get a new one. She drives by my fiancee's house when I tell her I'm going out to another one of my friends houses to make sure that I'm not over there.
Oh and she goes through my trash to see what reciepts I have for what I've bought, and looks through my room probably on a once a week basis.
She's a psycho controlling *****.
If your an only child & your father has left...im gna have too say "empty nest syndrome" is the cause.
Feck the car off, Just refuse too pay for it and dont use it, Invest in a push bike, Save up & move out. Burn any non-essencial reciepts. Every now & again tell her your going too see your friends at a specific location as far away as you can say, then go somewhere else. Turn off your mobile.
basically throw a major spanner in the works to her control, Show her in every way possible that she CANNOT control you.
I did this with my step-dad. I was waiting for him too hit me so i could get him sent down for assaulting a minor (i was 16 at the time)...he didnt, But he did leave.