EVE certainly is known for its complexity. I would also add that I've played City of Heroes and found a very patient and helpful crowd there most of the time. A lot of the people are nice and I think it is part of the "you are playing a hero, act like one" mentality you step into. City of Villains can be a bit more harsh, but I've found nice people there as well, since the same people play both quite often. But the "I'm playing a villain, be crueler" does seep in a bit. Overall, I've enjoyed my outings there, but choosing a good power blend can be essential an isn't obvious.jackknife402 said:go play EVE, you might like it, I know I did. 18-32k peeps on the server(depends on the time of the day.)
But it is a matter of opinion and perspective, not every game clicks for every player. And character choice/play style can also alter your experience. Do try something else. You may prever Neverwinter Nights, or Lord of the Rings Online, or even Dream of Mirror Online, etc. Go explore! You will find something that makes you happy.