If you're reading this, you most likely play video games. And you've probably played a few video games that were really hard, but you managed to beat them anyway and felt pretty good about yourself. Maybe you set the game on hard mode on purpose, or maybe it's a difficult game even on easy. Or maybe there's just one part in the game that's really hard. Whatever it was, you felt great about yourself when you finally beat it...
...until "that guy" came around and told you "that part was easy!" You know what guy I'm talking about. He's probably one of your best friends. But when you bring up a major accomplishment that took all of your willpower and focus and tested your patience to its limits, your friend goes and tells you he did it easily. And it pisses you off, because you thought he would ask "How did you do that?" But instead, he's saying "This is the best you can do?" And now you feel like you're not good enough.
(If you thought this topic was called "Your Accomplishments Belated", let me just assure you that the word is indeed "Belittled", and I am not the narcissist you probably thought I was when you misread the thread title.)
So I ask you, what accomplishments have your friends belittled? What game were you playing, what was the hard thing you barely managed to pull off, and what was your friend's response that made it seem so insignificant?
...until "that guy" came around and told you "that part was easy!" You know what guy I'm talking about. He's probably one of your best friends. But when you bring up a major accomplishment that took all of your willpower and focus and tested your patience to its limits, your friend goes and tells you he did it easily. And it pisses you off, because you thought he would ask "How did you do that?" But instead, he's saying "This is the best you can do?" And now you feel like you're not good enough.
(If you thought this topic was called "Your Accomplishments Belated", let me just assure you that the word is indeed "Belittled", and I am not the narcissist you probably thought I was when you misread the thread title.)
So I ask you, what accomplishments have your friends belittled? What game were you playing, what was the hard thing you barely managed to pull off, and what was your friend's response that made it seem so insignificant?