I feel so sorry for most of you. You're missing out on all kinds of awesome things by either being some kind of loner or by being some kind of perpetually wasted loser.
My ideal night out, which takes place once or twice a week, is to go out with a few friends, have a nice dinner (either at the pub or an Ajisen ramen bar), followed on by waffles or a trip to a nearby dessert restaurant, or dessert at the pub if we decide to.
Then, we go to whatever venue we've decided to go to - no clubs, bars or any of that douchey shit - and drink beer or cider (depending on our mood) while hanging around with other friends who are there, and watching whatever local or interstate bands are playing at the time. Generally we end the night by saying we're heading off, then spending another hour saying goodbye or getting into conversations with people, then finally leave before getting sudden cravings for a yiros or kebab and indulging, before getting a taxi home in the wee hours of the morning.
Win.