I'd say that as long as you don't suffer from mysterious stomach pains the day of or after eating there, you're probably safe.Kenbo Slice said:I'm not sure if my gf's parents like me or not...they don't speak english, but they say hi to me and shake my hand and feed me a lot. So I think they like me.
It was the same exact way with me and a friend of mine from highschool, only your two and a half years is more like five for me. I had actually given up dating when I met the girl that would be my current gf and we just clicked. Funny how things work out. It'll get better in time though.Orange643 said:I don't currently have a girlfriend, but the parents of a girl i've had a crush on for the last two and a half years absolutely adore me. Shame said girl "only thinks of me as a friend."![]()
Yeah it wasn't exactly the best way to go about it. But he knew they'd react badly both to him being gay and to him having a boyfriend. So I can see why he got them both out of the way at the same time.ravensheart18 said:Sounds like your bf set that up to fail. It's rather ignorant to push it in their face that way rather than have a conversation with them first if he knew they would be upset.ReservoirAngel said:They're okay with me now. At first they refused to even let me onto their property because of how much they hated me.
We're not 'friendly' with each other, but they can at least be civil, for the most part. You could still EASILY detect their dislike of my "lifestyle choice" as they put it, but at least they don't outright insult or refer to me as "that ******" anymore.
Back when I was first introduced to them though...yeah if they weren't bound by the law they'd have crucified me on their front lawn if they could of. It didn't help that the first time I met them was also the first time my boyfriend told them he was gay. For AGES they accused me of poisioning his mind and corrupting him with my satanic, unholy influence.
Master of Puppets was what actually got me into music and was the first CD I bought. Not really relevent to this topic, but since you did mention it. XDTheRightToArmBears said:They seem to really like me. Her dad and I share a lot of music taste and get into a lot of conversations over the best Metallica album (it's Master of Puppets. He says it's Ride The Lightning. Heathen!), whether Sonisphere or Download is getting a better lineup and the like. For a guy in his 50's he's pretty up-to-date with his music tastes, and he's painfully funny too. Her mum thinks my accent is adorable (I find this a little annoying at times), but likes me because I'm well mannered and all that, and I'm usually happy to jam with her 13 year old son (he plays the guitar too well for his own good).
Well your girlfriend is like 11, bro. LOL I joke, I joke. But no, she is 11Ranooth said:Where do i begin? Well my girlfriend comes from a very religious family. They are hardcore Christians which is weird because outside of social meetings and church they are always at each others throats. I'm not allowed in her bedroom at all when at her house, and they think that its the same at my house, they also think that we're both virgins.
I'm the mini me to her dad (minus the insane jew fro i have), he's a mega geek, loves violent games and movies and knows every meme under the sun. However he still resents me, he'll never admit to it but you can tell from his body language that he doesn't think im right for her (no one would be by his standards).
Her mum is a bit more understanding and seems to help us she can, but she can also be an evil *****. Many a time she has planned something and forced my girlfriend to go so that i can't see her.
As for her sisters they both love me, the youngest loves me because im mental and the middle child loves me because i smuggle in anime and manga for her.
O and the extended family love me as well which is awesome, last Christmas they defended me when a huge argument broke out between me and the father-in-law.
Wish I knew people who like Metallica xDMasterOfWorlds said:Master of Puppets was what actually got me into music and was the first CD I bought. Not really relevent to this topic, but since you did mention it. XDTheRightToArmBears said:They seem to really like me. Her dad and I share a lot of music taste and get into a lot of conversations over the best Metallica album (it's Master of Puppets. He says it's Ride The Lightning. Heathen!), whether Sonisphere or Download is getting a better lineup and the like. For a guy in his 50's he's pretty up-to-date with his music tastes, and he's painfully funny too. Her mum thinks my accent is adorable (I find this a little annoying at times), but likes me because I'm well mannered and all that, and I'm usually happy to jam with her 13 year old son (he plays the guitar too well for his own good).
I can never tell if these "I'm so great posts" are joking or not. I hope they're jokes.Berethond said:You're a slightly racist joke teller?JohnnyCakes said:My Girlfriends folks think I'm a racist. It's like the old joke goes, you build a hundred bridges, you're a great bridge builder. You build a hundred boats, you're a great boat builder. But you tell one slightly racist joke at a 4th of July barbecue...
I've never really had the "my girlfriend's parents hate me!" mostly because I'm insanely likable.