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Though I'm not a Jehovah Witness I go to their churches a believe what they believe. I believe in what I learn and have never been happier with my region, but people really don't like Jehovah witnesses. Their the nicest people I know and follow the bible the closest then any other form of Christianity, but they cause a lot of flak if you mention their name. I want to stick up more for what I believe but I don't want to alienate people.
I dnt want to get into religious debate. But... Uh... Have you read the Bible ? like God seding bears to maul children for calling a guy bald.
Wow, I have totally got to read the bible now, it sounds awesome!

OT: I dunno, I mean I havnt told them about that person I killed but other than that no biggies.
 

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Volf99 said:
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Today i became a brony.
I haven't told anyone yet, and i don't recon i will in a long time.
Welcome to the herd bro. i too am a brony.

I'm bipolar. the ponies actually help with the depression tho. so that's kewl.
same here, it has alleviated my depression as well.

though when i first became a brony, i was all like "NO ONE MUST KNOW" and such lol.
i find this image helpful when people try to mock me.
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and this is what comes to mind when I think of bronies
Ah, yes. The infamous image used to attack fans of the show. Do you really believe that all of us are as creepy and socialy awkward? Trust me, I watch the show. That's as far as it goes, at least with me ( and I'm sure lots of other people too). I don't own any merchandise or anything. I just enjoy the show. You got a problem with that?
With you, personally? No, I don't know you nor have I seen any responses from you before. What I have a problem is with the constant threads that involve the show or the fans. Also when fans hijack other threads. That is what I have a problem with.
now you're just getting ahead of youself.

NO ONE was high jacking this thread, we were only having our own conversation, and you decided to post something offensive.

all you're doing is drawing people to come out and make the situation worse.
I'm sorry I should make myself clear, I wasn't referring to this particular thread, I was referring to my past experiences.
Yes i understood that, what I'm talking about in this particular instance is that we were, in fact, not high jacking anything, nor was that initial image aimed towards you to begin with.

I would be on your side in fact if a bunch of bronies were irrationally imposing and interjecting everywhere with the show and spamming images, but in this case that did not happen at all.

We were exchanging in a conversation, just between us two bronies (the conversation of which was relevant to this threads topic btw), that image being a part of it, and then you decided to interject and interrupt, it was none of your concern.

look at the religious conversations happening in the thread as well, they are having their own exchange of words, leave us to our own.
I don't know what I'm not making clear, I NEVER accused you of hijacking this thread.
Then i am baffled as to the reason why you would post that image, instigating a possible flamewar
I was responding to another post which had a picture of a pony. look at the post I responded to.
yes, i know, and he was talking to ME, we were talking about how liking the show could lead to certain ridicule, and so he shared with me the image he uses to respond to people that mock him.

and again, that image wasn't directed towards you, nor was it directed towards anyone else here.

are you saying you HAVE to respond to every instance of a pony picture with something offensive? no matter the circumstance?
 

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I'm a virgin in my mid 20s. I've fallen in love with a 19 year old woman through skype who happens to really be into BDSM and cam sex. I want to move to be with her, but I'm scared and can't find a job. I've used chat roulette a lot for webcam sex... (not the regular version, the porn version). I like "big" women. I really want to engage in cunnilingus. She wants to be tied up, but one of my go to fantasies is being sexually humiliated by an authority figure. For awhile, she thought she had gotten pregnant by another man... and I didn't care at all.
 

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Dtox333 said:
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Berithil said:
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Ulquiorra4sama said:
Today i became a brony.
I haven't told anyone yet, and i don't recon i will in a long time.
Welcome to the herd bro. i too am a brony.

I'm bipolar. the ponies actually help with the depression tho. so that's kewl.
same here, it has alleviated my depression as well.

though when i first became a brony, i was all like "NO ONE MUST KNOW" and such lol.
i find this image helpful when people try to mock me.
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and this is what comes to mind when I think of bronies
Ah, yes. The infamous image used to attack fans of the show. Do you really believe that all of us are as creepy and socialy awkward? Trust me, I watch the show. That's as far as it goes, at least with me ( and I'm sure lots of other people too). I don't own any merchandise or anything. I just enjoy the show. You got a problem with that?
With you, personally? No, I don't know you nor have I seen any responses from you before. What I have a problem is with the constant threads that involve the show or the fans. Also when fans hijack other threads. That is what I have a problem with.
now you're just getting ahead of youself.

NO ONE was high jacking this thread, we were only having our own conversation, and you decided to post something offensive.

all you're doing is drawing people to come out and make the situation worse.
I'm sorry I should make myself clear, I wasn't referring to this particular thread, I was referring to my past experiences.
Yes i understood that, what I'm talking about in this particular instance is that we were, in fact, not high jacking anything, nor was that initial image aimed towards you to begin with.

I would be on your side in fact if a bunch of bronies were irrationally imposing and interjecting everywhere with the show and spamming images, but in this case that did not happen at all.

We were exchanging in a conversation, just between us two bronies (the conversation of which was relevant to this threads topic btw), that image being a part of it, and then you decided to interject and interrupt, it was none of your concern.

look at the religious conversations happening in the thread as well, they are having their own exchange of words, leave us to our own.
I don't know what I'm not making clear, I NEVER accused you of hijacking this thread.
Then i am baffled as to the reason why you would post that image, instigating a possible flamewar
I was responding to another post which had a picture of a pony. look at the post I responded to.
yes, i know, and he was talking to ME, we were talking about how liking the show could lead to certain ridicule, and so he shared with me the image he uses to respond to people that mock him.

and again, that image wasn't directed towards you, nor was it directed towards anyone else here.

are you saying you HAVE to respond to every instance of a pony picture with something offensive? no matter the circumstance?
lol of course I don't have to respond. I just get tired of seeing pictures of ponies, that's all. So I responded to seeing yet another picture of a pony. It's annoying enough that almost every fourth avatar is a pony, but that I will tolerate because I don't feel its my place to tell people what avatar they choose.

Side note, lets drop the subject because I think we have derailed this thread enough
 

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I'm trapped in a semi-conscious, Freudian battle between my 'Id' and 'Super-Ego'.

Basically my Id is raging because of a dry spell that so far lasted for about nine months. The thing is that the whole sexual thing isn't as easy for me as it should be because of my super-ego that's keeping me from i.e. a ONS.

Most of my friends have no problem finding/getting anonymous sex for which I envy them while at the same time distancing myself from them. They only rudimentary know about my conflict and as of now I haven't found a way to regain a 'healthy' attitude towards the whole sex thing. So if anyone of you guys has an idea, then... yeah, that could really help me.
 

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I'm atheist, asexual with libido, into BDSM, vore, and have had both sexual and romantic relations with both sexes. (I'm asexual because people's bodies don't turn me on, my paraphilias do.) I have come out to my parents about the atheism and asexuality, but several reasons why I don't come out about the other things, and why I still count the first two as being in the closet.

1) They know, but they pretend it isn't there. I don't really push the subject
2) They think I'm misguided and that I'm just mistaking subtle cues for not being there
3) It's not really anyone's business but my lovers, and he knows.
4) Since I've found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with already, I figure I can pretend to be straight instead of asexual with libido with no preference for gender. My parents don't need to know about my past relationships.

I do feel kind of lonely knowing people don't accept me for who I am, especially on the asexuality front, since I don't know any asexuals personally, and can't get perspective from them. It just kind of hurts that every time I bring up that I just don't get things that are supposed to be sexy aside from aesthetic they say I'm wrong about my own feelings.
 

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Depressed to the point of suicide and I have never been in a relationship. Whoop-dee-fucking-doo.
I dont know who you are, but I would appreciate it ifyou didnt kill yourself. Get help, and if your no longer in that mindset I hope you dont relapse.

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Though I'm not a Jehovah Witness I go to their churches a believe what they believe. I believe in what I learn and have never been happier with my region, but people really don't like Jehovah witnesses. Their the nicest people I know and follow the bible the closest then any other form of Christianity, but they cause a lot of flak if you mention their name. I want to stick up more for what I believe but I don't want to alienate people.
I dnt want to get into religious debate. But... Uh... Have you read the Bible ? like God seding bears to maul children for calling a guy bald.
Wow, I have totally got to read the bible now, it sounds awesome!

OT: I dunno, I mean I havnt told them about that person I killed but other than that no biggies.
I know its a joke, but why the ell not

"And he went up from thence unto Bethel: and as he was going up by the way, there came forth little children out of the city, and mocked him, and said unto him, Go up, thou bald head; go up, thou bald head. And he turned back, and looked on them, and cursed them in the name of the Lord. And there came forth two she bears out of the wood, and tare forty and two children of them"
Wow God really took a level in badass in the old testement ay? XD
 

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I'm a virgin in my mid 20s. I've fallen in love with a 19 year old woman through skype who happens to really be into BDSM and cam sex. I want to move to be with her, but I'm scared and can't find a job. I've used chat roulette a lot for webcam sex... (not the regular version, the porn version). I like "big" women. I really want to engage in cunnilingus. She wants to be tied up, but one of my go to fantasies is being sexually humiliated by an authority figure. For awhile, she thought she had gotten pregnant by another man... and I didn't care at all.
...wow...just..wow. You really let things out of your closet, huh? lol
 

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If you dont mind me askig. I have never understood BDM, what is sexy about hurting or being hurt by those you love ? It just seems weird to me. lso I dont know much aout denomnations but are methodists the peope who belive they tlk in tounges or something ? I kno there are some groups who do that, but cant remember who.
I've more or less had this fixation since I was a child--being unusually interested in the parts of cartoons where somebody's tied up and all that--and I think I've figured out it's more or less about control. When you're helpless like that, somebody else is completely in control and you are completely out of control. Meaning you are free from making decisions and conscious choices, and they are free to make any decisions they like regardless of the consequences. So it's a way of thinking, really. I can definitely see why you wouldn't get it though, lol.

As far as your question about Methodists, I don't believe I've known any others in my denomination who believe they've spoken in tongues. I know some evangelicals and Baptists are like that, but I like to consider the Methodists I run with to be the Canadians of the protestant Christians. We don't like to get involved with controversies, we don't like to be terribly open with hateful belligerence, and we don't really take any rash actions to make anybody else upset with us. We just say hello and smile and go about our business. Of course I understand there are some Methodists who have done such things, but again this is just the crowd I run with. Churches function on a very local basis, so the values my local churches hold may be radically different from others in different places.
Yeah I dont think I will ever understand it, personally I just dont see how I could enjoy hurting or being hurt by someone I loved, also the bondge thing I always found creepy, becuase it seems like rape. Im not saying people who re nto it re rapist, but or me it just dosent sit right.

Well I hae no idea who I was thinking of, maybe it was pentecostals. I dont mind christians, its just when I had some knockingmy door with creationism leaflets, luckily I just wokeup and looked like I jsut woke up, so they left. A few weeks later it was mormons knocking but they saw my mothers cross on the wall and didnt bother too much. Idont have issues with christians who dont try and convert people or bring up their religion at any oppertunity.

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this isnt my name said:
Marcus Kehoe said:
Though I'm not a Jehovah Witness I go to their churches a believe what they believe. I believe in what I learn and have never been happier with my region, but people really don't like Jehovah witnesses. Their the nicest people I know and follow the bible the closest then any other form of Christianity, but they cause a lot of flak if you mention their name. I want to stick up more for what I believe but I don't want to alienate people.
I dnt want to get into religious debate. But... Uh... Have you read the Bible ? like God seding bears to maul children for calling a guy bald. I find that funny, but if I took it seriously, it would be entirely different. Or Moses and the angel of deth killing firstborns who did fuck all to anyone
Their are a lot of things in the bible I don't quite get either, but I am making my way throughout he bible and trying to make sense of some of those weird things. A big thing about studying with Jehovah witnesses is that they know that you need to ask questions, and sometimes just believing isn't enough. Not to be a dick either, but Their have been a lot of stories and scriptures altered in the bible since it was originally written. The king James Bible is the biggest one I know of, Its been altered in very big ways from a lot of the original scriptures and contradicts itself a lot.
Oh I know the bible is a collection of books, and has been edited MNY times. But still, cant see any context where some of the stuff would be good.

As or the thing about Jehovas and conersion, I understnd they want to convince everyon becuase they belive it will help them, but some people just dont belive, im one of them unless I saw jGod/Jesus without any drugs envolved I willnever belive. people who m seem like they want the best fo us, just push us away and make us annoyed. Its like my mother, she couldnt convert me after the 1st attempt, or th second. And shestill occasionally tres. Not realising it just gets more annoying.
I'm not a Jehovah witness, and don't understand it 100% yet but I can see how its annoying. But I'm pretty sure if you ask them not to com back they won't, at least not on purpose. But you have to understand witnesses like your mother only try to do it out of love. My sister who studied before I did, quite studying with Jehovah witnesses because of a bad marriage, now even though she did believe it let material things get in the way of any kind of religion. I will never stop trying to convince her to try studying again because I love her, but I will not force it on her, nor should anybody.
Oh I know she belivesin heaven and hell and wants to increase my chaes of the former, but I dontbelive in those things. It would take jesus himself or damn good evidence to convince me. Until then im happy with my god free and sinful lifestyle. (My mother is catholic, and the Catholic church thinks porn and masturbation are bad, so yeah much happier with my sinful ways.)

Its annoying becuase I cant seem to get the message acoss that I dont belive in God and dont care about church. I cant put t simpler, but its not gettig through. She hasnt tied in a while, but she still does on occasions.
Yeah masturbation is nice..., but wait what? Oh yeah.
Well I'm sorry she catholic, their very mean. I have a said to be catholic grandma even though she dose not go to church and she tries to say I'm going to hell for being in a cult. It nice when people who have lived a life of sin and don't go to church are now experts because its what they believe. Even though she knows I went to the priest himself and talked to him before I left the church to make sure I'd have no regrets, and had him look at me blankly for 1/2 an hour while I quoted scripture and he just looked at me blankly and told me that I just needed to believe. She doesn't know what shes talking about when she preaches at me, but I appreciated what she is doing. She is trying to do what she thinks is best, even though I think its wrong. It is annoying but know its out of love.
She isnt mean, just annoyng with her religion. Went to a catholic school, openly atheist (we even had 2 sikhs).

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I'm a Christian and I like BSDM. Figure that one out. (And no, I'm not the one who wrote the letter to Love FAQ).
BDSM is a very common fetish amongst the religious. It tends to be because religions just tell you to repress things that you're told are wrong or you'll be punished. The idea of punishment simmers in the mind and as your personality forms that becomes part of it. People keep their 'wrong' thoughts private and they also tend to keep their sexual practices quiet, they influence each other over time.

Because they repress their urges more, when they do let them out they tend to be more 'intense' and/or fetishistic than those of a sexual liberal. It's for this reason that states like Texas have a much higher proportion of paid membership to specialist sites than states like New Jersey.

OT: I'm a dom.
Note to self, marry atheist.
lol

I'm an atheist. It's also the only reason I'd have for wanting a religious girlfriend, so we can swap friends if you like.

Also, it's equally likely that the person would be submissive as they'd be dominant. There's no hard and fast rule for which way they go, that is a much more personal development.
I have friends ho are mostly atheist... Despite going to a catholic school.

I dont know I for some reason kinda like the idea of dating a christian, but at the same time dont due to my atheism and moral isues with christianity (Most religions).
Its weird.

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I am a closeted bisexual at a Christan collage. (Don't knock my faith it's part of who I am) And I have a huge crush on a guy in my dorm.
Im not going to knock your faith, but how canyou still be christian ? Im not knocking your fath, by saying this, but the bible isnt exctly kind to peopl who arent hetrosexal. Im just curious how you cn worship a god, whos book dosent agree with who yuo are. Again not knocking your religion, but it seems illogical to me.
Kinda but there is a lot of debate on whether or not it still applies in this day and age. Also I am still a Christian because I believe that Jesus is the only hope for humanity. His wisdom and sacrifice are worthy of worship. And if I am sining Jesus came to forgive not to condemn. That is something my fellow Christians tend to forget.
 

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I'm atheist, asexual with libido, into BDSM, vore, and have had both sexual and romantic relations with both sexes. (I'm asexual because people's bodies don't turn me on, my paraphilias do.) I have come out to my parents about the atheism and asexuality, but several reasons why I don't come out about the other things, and why I still count the first two as being in the closet.

1) They know, but they pretend it isn't there. I don't really push the subject
2) They think I'm misguided and that I'm just mistaking subtle cues for not being there
3) It's not really anyone's business but my lovers, and he knows.
4) Since I've found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with already, I figure I can pretend to be straight instead of asexual with libido with no preference for gender. My parents don't need to know about my past relationships.

I do feel kind of lonely knowing people don't accept me for who I am, especially on the asexuality front, since I don't know any asexuals personally, and can't get perspective from them. It just kind of hurts that every time I bring up that I just don't get things that are supposed to be sexy aside from aesthetic they say I'm wrong about my own feelings.
Soory for the stupid question, but if you're asexual, then how can you like BDSM? Do you enjoy it in a way that isn't sexual, or is it just me who doens't know the right definition of "asexual"?
 

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Only thing I haven't told my parents about is liking MLP (I know, petty). But that's pretty much it. It probably still would be awkward
Pretty much this. My mom walked in on my watching it one day, but I was sick in bed at the time, and I just told her that it came on and I didn't feel like changing it.

I don't have any problem telling anyone ELSE that I watch the show, just them.
 

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That I am more suicidal than I give anyone reason to believe.
Likewise that I am much less intelligent than what I try to act like.

Oh, and a ton of sexual turn-ons, preferences and fetishes (mostly in porn though) that I don't tell anyone about, but that's rather minor. I suspect most people who frequent the internet have varying degrees of 'disturbing' porn preferences.
 

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Volf99 said:
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Ulquiorra4sama said:
Today i became a brony.
I haven't told anyone yet, and i don't recon i will in a long time.
Welcome to the herd bro. i too am a brony.

I'm bipolar. the ponies actually help with the depression tho. so that's kewl.
same here, it has alleviated my depression as well.

though when i first became a brony, i was all like "NO ONE MUST KNOW" and such lol.
i find this image helpful when people try to mock me.
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and this is what comes to mind when I think of bronies
Ah, yes. The infamous image used to attack fans of the show. Do you really believe that all of us are as creepy and socialy awkward? Trust me, I watch the show. That's as far as it goes, at least with me ( and I'm sure lots of other people too). I don't own any merchandise or anything. I just enjoy the show. You got a problem with that?
With you, personally? No, I don't know you nor have I seen any responses from you before. What I have a problem is with the constant threads that involve the show or the fans. Also when fans hijack other threads. That is what I have a problem with.
now you're just getting ahead of youself.

NO ONE was high jacking this thread, we were only having our own conversation, and you decided to post something offensive.

all you're doing is drawing people to come out and make the situation worse.
I'm sorry I should make myself clear, I wasn't referring to this particular thread, I was referring to my past experiences.
Yes i understood that, what I'm talking about in this particular instance is that we were, in fact, not high jacking anything, nor was that initial image aimed towards you to begin with.

I would be on your side in fact if a bunch of bronies were irrationally imposing and interjecting everywhere with the show and spamming images, but in this case that did not happen at all.

We were exchanging in a conversation, just between us two bronies (the conversation of which was relevant to this threads topic btw), that image being a part of it, and then you decided to interject and interrupt, it was none of your concern.

look at the religious conversations happening in the thread as well, they are having their own exchange of words, leave us to our own.
I don't know what I'm not making clear, I NEVER accused you of hijacking this thread.
Then i am baffled as to the reason why you would post that image, instigating a possible flamewar
I was responding to another post which had a picture of a pony. look at the post I responded to.
yes, i know, and he was talking to ME, we were talking about how liking the show could lead to certain ridicule, and so he shared with me the image he uses to respond to people that mock him.

and again, that image wasn't directed towards you, nor was it directed towards anyone else here.

are you saying you HAVE to respond to every instance of a pony picture with something offensive? no matter the circumstance?
lol of course I don't have to respond. I just get tired of seeing pictures of ponies, that's all. So I responded to seeing yet another picture of a pony. It's annoying enough that almost every fourth avatar is a pony, but that I will tolerate because I don't feel its my place to tell people what avatar they choose.

Side note, lets drop the subject because I think we have derailed this thread enough
sure why not.
 

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I'm atheist, asexual with libido, into BDSM, vore, and have had both sexual and romantic relations with both sexes. (I'm asexual because people's bodies don't turn me on, my paraphilias do.) I have come out to my parents about the atheism and asexuality, but several reasons why I don't come out about the other things, and why I still count the first two as being in the closet.

1) They know, but they pretend it isn't there. I don't really push the subject
2) They think I'm misguided and that I'm just mistaking subtle cues for not being there
3) It's not really anyone's business but my lovers, and he knows.
4) Since I've found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with already, I figure I can pretend to be straight instead of asexual with libido with no preference for gender. My parents don't need to know about my past relationships.

I do feel kind of lonely knowing people don't accept me for who I am, especially on the asexuality front, since I don't know any asexuals personally, and can't get perspective from them. It just kind of hurts that every time I bring up that I just don't get things that are supposed to be sexy aside from aesthetic they say I'm wrong about my own feelings.
Soory for the stupid question, but if you're asexual, then how can you like BDSM? Do you enjoy it in a way that isn't sexual, or is it just me who doens't know the right definition of "asexual"?
I'm asexual with libido. You're thinking of asexual without libido. I can be sexually aroused, just not by people's bodies. Some people can't be sexually aroused at all. I just require paraphilias, like BDSM and Vore. So, I see, for instance, a centerfold. Is it just a person in attractive clothing? All I see is the artistic aesthetic of the picture. Is it a person being dominated or eaten? Then I'm turned on. Does that clear it up?

EDIT: Not a stupid question at all. Hardly anyone knows anything about asexuals outside of sites devoted to them.
 
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Hmmm...thinking I'm thinking....I've got nothing.

There used to be a few things that I didn't tell anybody about, but those days have long since passed. My family and friends know how much I love video games and how much I play them. They know that I'm not a Christian. And they know that I love anime and it, like video games, is not just a phase that I'm going to grow out of.

Actually you know what, I just thought of one. They don't know that I intend to drop out of college. The hell if I know what I'm going to do with my life, but I'll make it work somehow. By work I most likely mean somehow getting a minimum wage job and living as a wage slave for the rest of my life.
 

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this isnt my name said:
If you dont mind me askig. I have never understood BDM, what is sexy about hurting or being hurt by those you love ? It just seems weird to me. lso I dont know much aout denomnations but are methodists the peope who belive they tlk in tounges or something ? I kno there are some groups who do that, but cant remember who.
I've more or less had this fixation since I was a child--being unusually interested in the parts of cartoons where somebody's tied up and all that--and I think I've figured out it's more or less about control. When you're helpless like that, somebody else is completely in control and you are completely out of control. Meaning you are free from making decisions and conscious choices, and they are free to make any decisions they like regardless of the consequences. So it's a way of thinking, really. I can definitely see why you wouldn't get it though, lol.

As far as your question about Methodists, I don't believe I've known any others in my denomination who believe they've spoken in tongues. I know some evangelicals and Baptists are like that, but I like to consider the Methodists I run with to be the Canadians of the protestant Christians. We don't like to get involved with controversies, we don't like to be terribly open with hateful belligerence, and we don't really take any rash actions to make anybody else upset with us. We just say hello and smile and go about our business. Of course I understand there are some Methodists who have done such things, but again this is just the crowd I run with. Churches function on a very local basis, so the values my local churches hold may be radically different from others in different places.
Yeah I dont think I will ever understand it, personally I just dont see how I could enjoy hurting or being hurt by someone I loved, also the bondge thing I always found creepy, becuase it seems like rape. Im not saying people who re nto it re rapist, but or me it just dosent sit right.

Well I hae no idea who I was thinking of, maybe it was pentecostals. I dont mind christians, its just when I had some knockingmy door with creationism leaflets, luckily I just wokeup and looked like I jsut woke up, so they left. A few weeks later it was mormons knocking but they saw my mothers cross on the wall and didnt bother too much. Idont have issues with christians who dont try and convert people or bring up their religion at any oppertunity.

Marcus Kehoe said:
this isnt my name said:
Marcus Kehoe said:
Though I'm not a Jehovah Witness I go to their churches a believe what they believe. I believe in what I learn and have never been happier with my region, but people really don't like Jehovah witnesses. Their the nicest people I know and follow the bible the closest then any other form of Christianity, but they cause a lot of flak if you mention their name. I want to stick up more for what I believe but I don't want to alienate people.
I dnt want to get into religious debate. But... Uh... Have you read the Bible ? like God seding bears to maul children for calling a guy bald. I find that funny, but if I took it seriously, it would be entirely different. Or Moses and the angel of deth killing firstborns who did fuck all to anyone
Their are a lot of things in the bible I don't quite get either, but I am making my way throughout he bible and trying to make sense of some of those weird things. A big thing about studying with Jehovah witnesses is that they know that you need to ask questions, and sometimes just believing isn't enough. Not to be a dick either, but Their have been a lot of stories and scriptures altered in the bible since it was originally written. The king James Bible is the biggest one I know of, Its been altered in very big ways from a lot of the original scriptures and contradicts itself a lot.
Oh I know the bible is a collection of books, and has been edited MNY times. But still, cant see any context where some of the stuff would be good.

As or the thing about Jehovas and conersion, I understnd they want to convince everyon becuase they belive it will help them, but some people just dont belive, im one of them unless I saw jGod/Jesus without any drugs envolved I willnever belive. people who m seem like they want the best fo us, just push us away and make us annoyed. Its like my mother, she couldnt convert me after the 1st attempt, or th second. And shestill occasionally tres. Not realising it just gets more annoying.
I'm not a Jehovah witness, and don't understand it 100% yet but I can see how its annoying. But I'm pretty sure if you ask them not to com back they won't, at least not on purpose. But you have to understand witnesses like your mother only try to do it out of love. My sister who studied before I did, quite studying with Jehovah witnesses because of a bad marriage, now even though she did believe it let material things get in the way of any kind of religion. I will never stop trying to convince her to try studying again because I love her, but I will not force it on her, nor should anybody.
Oh I know she belivesin heaven and hell and wants to increase my chaes of the former, but I dontbelive in those things. It would take jesus himself or damn good evidence to convince me. Until then im happy with my god free and sinful lifestyle. (My mother is catholic, and the Catholic church thinks porn and masturbation are bad, so yeah much happier with my sinful ways.)

Its annoying becuase I cant seem to get the message acoss that I dont belive in God and dont care about church. I cant put t simpler, but its not gettig through. She hasnt tied in a while, but she still does on occasions.
Yeah masturbation is nice..., but wait what? Oh yeah.
Well I'm sorry she catholic, their very mean. I have a said to be catholic grandma even though she dose not go to church and she tries to say I'm going to hell for being in a cult. It nice when people who have lived a life of sin and don't go to church are now experts because its what they believe. Even though she knows I went to the priest himself and talked to him before I left the church to make sure I'd have no regrets, and had him look at me blankly for 1/2 an hour while I quoted scripture and he just looked at me blankly and told me that I just needed to believe. She doesn't know what shes talking about when she preaches at me, but I appreciated what she is doing. She is trying to do what she thinks is best, even though I think its wrong. It is annoying but know its out of love.
She isnt mean, just annoyng with her religion. Went to a catholic school, openly atheist (we even had 2 sikhs).

kurupt87 said:
this isnt my name said:
kurupt87 said:
Lilani said:
I'm a Christian and I like BSDM. Figure that one out. (And no, I'm not the one who wrote the letter to Love FAQ).
BDSM is a very common fetish amongst the religious. It tends to be because religions just tell you to repress things that you're told are wrong or you'll be punished. The idea of punishment simmers in the mind and as your personality forms that becomes part of it. People keep their 'wrong' thoughts private and they also tend to keep their sexual practices quiet, they influence each other over time.

Because they repress their urges more, when they do let them out they tend to be more 'intense' and/or fetishistic than those of a sexual liberal. It's for this reason that states like Texas have a much higher proportion of paid membership to specialist sites than states like New Jersey.

OT: I'm a dom.
Note to self, marry atheist.
lol

I'm an atheist. It's also the only reason I'd have for wanting a religious girlfriend, so we can swap friends if you like.

Also, it's equally likely that the person would be submissive as they'd be dominant. There's no hard and fast rule for which way they go, that is a much more personal development.
I have friends ho are mostly atheist... Despite going to a catholic school.

I dont know I for some reason kinda like the idea of dating a christian, but at the same time dont due to my atheism and moral isues with christianity (Most religions).
Its weird.

Lord Merik said:
I am a closeted bisexual at a Christan collage. (Don't knock my faith it's part of who I am) And I have a huge crush on a guy in my dorm.
Im not going to knock your faith, but how canyou still be christian ? Im not knocking your fath, by saying this, but the bible isnt exctly kind to peopl who arent hetrosexal. Im just curious how you cn worship a god, whos book dosent agree with who yuo are. Again not knocking your religion, but it seems illogical to me.
I can't say that would only date someone who is a christian but its what I what I'm looking to do. I've remained a virgin and wish to stay so until marriage, so i want to of course marry another virgin. Another big thing is that I will not get into a serious relationship until II can support a family, its smart and follows the bible, like most things.