In alphabetical order, here are the five I have been enjoying the most lately:
1. Delirium Tremens [http://www.pascalkolkman.com/delirium/index.html]
2. Dogfish Head 120 minute IPA [http://www.dogfish.com/brews-spirits/the-brews/occassional-rarities/120-minute-ipa.htm]
3. Golden Monkey [http://www.victorybeer.com/golden_monkey.aspx]
4. Smithwick's [http://www.smithwicks.ie/]
5. Theobroma [http://www.dogfish.com/brews-spirits/the-brews/occassional-rarities/theobroma.htm]
Despite the fact that you don't like IPAs, I highly recommend you give the Dogfish Head a shot. Maybe not the 120 as it can get kind of expensive, but if you can find a bottle of the 90 minute or, even better, if it's on tap near you, I highly recommend giving it a shot. It's still a little pricey but in my opinion it's highly worth it. My girlfriend, who really hates that bitter flavor, loves it. The hopping process they use creates more of a floral, sweet taste to it that is much more approachable than a standard IPA.
Since I can't stop tooting DFH's horn, I might as well suggest the Immort Ale [http://www.dogfish.com/brews-spirits/the-brews/occassional-rarities/immort-ale.htm] and the Olde School Barleywine [http://www.dogfish.com/brews-spirits/the-brews/occassional-rarities/olde-school-barleywine.htm].