Your First Kiss
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I think I was about 7 or 8 years old. It was with my best friends' sister who was a little younger and we did it while we were hiding under the picnic table in their backyard. Afterwards she was my "girlfriend" for the next few years. Really though we were just kids being kids. Our moms thought it was "soooo adorable though."
I was in the 5th grade I guess about 10 or 11, and it was a girl who went to the same church as me. One day after her piano lessons she wanted to play hide and seek and hid in a closed off stairway. Once I found her she pulled me in and closed the door. Good times.
It seems like genuine insecurity and resulting jealousy to me. When we feel afraid (such as insecurity) we try to control things. We do this for various reasons, mostly because we believe the more control we have, the less likely something bad will happen -- in reality this behavior creates more problems than it could ever solve. In your specific case, it sounds like you have not had a serious relationship (or a relationship at all) before this and your anxiety and preoccupation with the idea of one is getting in the way. The knowledge that she has had in the past people who have meant something to her creates doubt and trepidation in your mind. To you, if you are the only one she has ever thought of romantically, your odds of "keeping her" increase. The thought that you may be compared to past experiences or that you may too become just another name in her past could play a major role as well.IcyEvils said:
I'd start by apologizing profusely for the stress and sadness you have caused her, admit that nothing she has done is wrong. I'd open up about your issues with her too.
I think I was in kindergarten or so. It was in this piece of playground equipment that was a barrel and pipes made to look like a big spider. It was actually two girls I told them I'd marry them both. We then played house.
(Hey I was 5!)
Though those were little pecks so I'm not sure if they count. I do remember I got in lots of trouble.
(Hey I was 5!)
Though those were little pecks so I'm not sure if they count. I do remember I got in lots of trouble.
Mine was a similar age, I met her down by the river when I was going for a walk. My sisters had both gotten boyfriends around the age of 16. Being the paranoid bastard I am, I was worried they'd be all strict about the whole thing, so I kept it secret. We were sitting in the field by the river we always met in and she tapped me on the shoulder and just went for it. Was a bit surprising, and I wasn't that good at it, but I remember fondly.Colour-Scientist said:
a few years, and one loss of virginity later, we're no longer together, and I'm in a bit of a dry spell in terms of meeting girls.
That's fucking creepy... I'm surprised she didn't punch people who did that.IcyEvils said:
I was 13 or 14, and she was the girl of my dreams (at the time anyway). We had a good long kiss on the cuoch - just out of view of my mother in the next room. It seems so long ago now.
The next year or so of my life was very complicated after that. She ended up causing me unbelievable amounts of both unbridled joy and extreme suffering. I learned a lot though. We did not exactly part on good terms, and I really wish we had. I carry very few regrets with me in life, but the one that bothers me the most is how it ended with her.
The next year or so of my life was very complicated after that. She ended up causing me unbelievable amounts of both unbridled joy and extreme suffering. I learned a lot though. We did not exactly part on good terms, and I really wish we had. I carry very few regrets with me in life, but the one that bothers me the most is how it ended with her.
When I was 13. Me and my ex girlfriend went to see Mr Bean's Holiday, and one part I managed to put her arm around her and then kiss her with some tongue. So far, so cliche.
And then my popcorn fell all over her lap and we both laughed a lot.
I was her first kiss too. Shame that she turned lesbian 2 years later and is not the same person who I dated and became best friends with after the break up.
And then my popcorn fell all over her lap and we both laughed a lot.
I was her first kiss too. Shame that she turned lesbian 2 years later and is not the same person who I dated and became best friends with after the break up.
That's one of the more interesting first kiss stories I've heard. Weirdly romantic sounding...ReservoirAngel said:
My first kiss (well, non-spin-the-bottle-peck-on-the-lips kiss) was when I was 9, at a bonfire party in the middle of the night. She was a cute, pale girl with pitch black hair and I was a skinny, grubby hippie child. We resolved to get this kissing thing figured out, clamped on for dear life, and didn't quit the whole night. We woke up together in the grass the next day from the sound of our friends laughing at us.
Damn, I had lenient parents...
WHY. WHYYYYY must you make this thread?! Now I feel like shit for being a 20 year old who's never kised again. TYVM!!! AAAUUURGGHG