Your First Kiss

[IcyEvils]

Sure.
You weren't her first and statistically you won't be her last, or she yours. Just try to enjoy yourselves in the here and now and don't worry about the future or the past.

To be completely honest, if she never had crappy kiss before, what makes her think you're the best she has had? Everyone before you has failed, you have succeeded, now bask in your own glow!

Like this idea, nice and ego-boosting

Yup I've got a great way to stop thinking about it: Get over it!
*snip*

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And one day, you'll relise it too.

I could tell you, but the one and only Kevin Smith has already said it so much better.

Exactly why I want to stop! Awesome speech..

I know what you feel like. I wasn't my girlfriend's first kiss, but she was mine. I also wasn't her first something else, which is the part that bothers me.

I admire you.

It's going to sound offensive but "grow up" really is your answer to that.
*snip*
By the time you get to my age good luck finding a girl that hasn't fooled around in some way. Nor would I really want to.

Right, I'm 17. I want to just forget about it/grow up/move on/whatever way you want to put it. It's little things that snap me back, and remind me. Think I haven't told her? I don't want to hurt her any more, over something so ridiculously stupid! I know rightly that I'm making a big deal out of nothing, believe me.

 

[templeg]

15, with my second boyfriend (the first one was a very innocent, holdy-handy thing when I was 14 and the furthest we ever got was a kiss on the cheek). We went to primary school together, then lost touch completely until one of my best friends told me he was gay and I looked him up on Facebook out of curiosity. Ah, sweet romance. I was just vaguely... surprised, really, which was weird because he'd been sexy-texting me for days before that and I went into the date thinking we were going to have sex (trust me, I had fairly conclusive evidence). I didn't dislike it, but I didn't like it either. There was a *lot* of kissing on that date, and I think I did kind of like it by the end of it, but for the first hour and a half or so or kissing and fooling around I just kind of did what I was told or what I thought I was meant to do. He was much more experienced, I was something like his sixth girlfriend. And then I lost my virginity to him about three weeks later.

 

[Tdc2182]

I remember it well.

I was either almost 16 or almost 15... Yep, it was 15 I'm pretty sure.

I kinda skipped the romantic kiss phase and went straight to making out with a girl who was very cute (turns out she was going through a rebellious phase and had stopped taking her pills. She was a little strange at the time). I was nervous as shit but I found that telling yourself "just do it" really works.

I've been told I did well. And not to toot my own horn or anything, but I think that kissing is one of the few things that I'm pretty decent at. But I always had this strange thought in the back of my head that I kiss way to femininely. It might be one of those random things that you worry about in life, but it's always kinda bugged me.

 

[TheMarkedOne]

Was 19, kind of late yeah.
Was watching a movie in my room at some residence in the town of my university, with a girl I had just met 1-2 months ago at the beginning of the new academic year.
We immediately became best friends.
Only problem was, I completely fell for her, which I had also told her some time before she visited. But she had a boyfriend since 2,5 years. (See what's coming?)
She told me she wouldn't act different around me and that she liked me too.
So yeah watching the movie and when it ended, she turned to me and asked; "so, what we do next?"
As I was replying; "I don't know, what you ..." she suddenly started kissing me full on the mouth.
Caught me totally by surprise, but yeah, went along with it. We were tonguing within seconds and went on kissing for hours. (Afterwards she said she couldn't believe I had never kissed before, hmm)

The rest is another story, let's just say it didn't end well after 6 months for me and we're no longer friends because I couldn't take it anymore.

This was probably a bit tmi, but meh.

 

[stutheninja]

my first kiss was when i was 13, me and a bunch of my friends were playing spin the bottle at a halloween party and the rules were (since we didnt have a ton of people) was that if you got the same person 3 times you were required to make out with them for a pre-determined amount of time. at the time i was really into one of my girl friends who was a bit older than me, but i had never let on as such. i landed on her twice, no big deal kisses, like small like peck's, but then i land on her a third time. i got so nervous and shaky i almost threw up, but then i (SURPRISINGLY) confidently went up to her and we made out for a solid 30 seconds. still one of the best kisses of my life, just because the setup was excellent and the anticipation only made it better, pretty sure she liked it to, would never ask though...

"oh hey, remember that time we totally made out?" "umm yeah, why?" "uhhh, i was just wondering... you know... if you enjoyed it at all...?" "actually it was one of the worst experiences of my life, thanks for bringing it back up" "FML!" dreams crushed, cries self to sleep

 

[Tdc2182]

About 10 months ago, with the girl I'm still with. I told her I really liked her, she said she liked me too. I asked could I kiss her, then our lips met. It was ok, nothing huge. We've got plenty of styles now though :3

It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.

Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!

People bit her lip? Make fun of them for that. That's always been considered a more feminine thing. That's not something you do till a few months down the line.

Also why would she feel guilty? You have to get through the idiots first to find the right one.

 

[AngryNerd]

I never remember getting kissed, but I could have been kissed by someone in preschool. XD

 

[Prof. Sandvich]

I was seventeen and it was our third date. We had just gone for a walk next to the waterfront, and sat down on a bench. I was really nervous and it just happened, I was so happy and we have been together now for over a year and a half. I love these treads call me a sap but hearing stories of love just brighten up my day.

 

[Joey245]

I still haven't had mine yet. I'm taking it slow. Real slow.

But you know, there's someone out there waiting for me. I just need to find her.

 

[Sir_Auron_the_Badass]

When I wasn't even a day old by my mother. =P

Oh, you mean romantically inclined... hasn't happened. Being clinically depressed, socially awkward, and really busy much of my life has pretty much stopped that and dating from happening.

 

[WOPR]

been waiting that well over 18½ years
and apparently being in this situation leaves me to be titled "weird" which makes people avoid me... kinda hard to change something when people brand you weird for it and won't

bunch of shallow wastes of life... *grumbles to himself for the remainder of this*
(also my keyboard and mouse keep freezing up on me)

 

[Ren3004]

I was young. Like 9-10, tops. Me and a friend started playing Mums & Dads and we ended up kissing. I was so young at the time that I didn't even enjoy, I felt sort of bad. I made out with her again some years later and it was awesome.

 

[Snowy Rainbow]

I never remember getting kissed, but I could have been kissed by someone in preschool. XD

*mmmmmmmmmwha!*

There you go. All kissed up ^^

 

[Sanqlol]

I think I was around when I was... 15 or something. She was drunk and I was even more drunk(and no, she did not look like a troll which(who?) had been smacked in the face repeatedly with a frying pan, as a matter of fact she was good looking, and still is)..... It didn't really evolve to more after that. At least not until a few years later.. And it all was happiness.

'till I screwed up and therefore are condemned to all these casual sex-buddies and on-off relationships... Guess I shouldn't complain though...

 

[Bernzz]

I know what you feel like. I wasn't my girlfriend's first kiss, but she was mine. I also wasn't her first something else, which is the part that bothers me.

I admire you.

Uhh...why?

 

[Whateveralot]

Kissing is overrated, I say.

But if I have a romantic first kiss with a girl that I like, I squee like a little girl and I'm 21

But anyway, my first kiss. I was 14 or 15 I think. I could remember the date and time. It was the second-last day of a holiday in 2004, probably june. One day I was walking around and these three scottish girls on a bench ask me what my name is and if I liked one of their friends. I said something semi-positive (not too positive, just partially humerous to counter the upcoming sense of awkwardness). They then asked if I would kiss her. I kissed her on the hand. I then talked for a bit (or try to, they had the most horrible accents ever) and moved along.

A while later, I meet them again and they ask me again if I would kiss her. I kissed her on the cheek and lips later on. We then met up behind some building at 4 o'clock and I had the sloppiest kiss EVER. But no trauma's, it just sucked

 

[FinalHeart95]

16, a little over a month ago actually. We went to go see a movie and I eventually decided to go in, basically. It was actually quite pleasant considering first kisses are supposed to be awful and all.

Still with the girl, not like a month is really much of an accomplishment though.

 

[gl1koz3]

I'm 19 (Almost 20), and I still haven't had a first kiss yet. Such is the price of being a level 30 Warlock in Modern d20. (EPIC LEVELS.)

You aren't missing out on much. Media has lied to us, and first kisses are not magic rainbows and fluffy unicorns.

23 and not yet.

But it depends on what are you expecting from kisses... I don't expect to kiss much. Just lick. And fuck.