Your First Kiss

[Altorin]

my first kiss, I was 17, my online girlfriend from saskatoon was visiting for a week, we had spent the better part of the day just cuddling, then at night, she was laying down on my couch with her head on the arm, and I was kneeling beside the couch, looking down at her upside down face. I leaned forward, and kissed her, and it was good.

So yes.

My first kiss was an upside down spider-man kiss that wasn't a complete wreck

 

[Newtonyd]

Strange story, but basically I was playing a pickup game of basketball with a friend. Somehow or other the ball got away from me and hit this pretty girl in the face, kinda hard. After I apologized she told me to kiss it better.

You can bet I did. Think I was age 16 or so.

 

[Snowy Rainbow]

I'm 15 and I haven't had mine. T__T Then again, it's hard to find a gay guy with low enough standards in rural Texas. Ah, well.

*mmmwha!* There you go ^^
*snip*

Thank you...? xD

Hey! Don't give me that attitude! I think I'm a great kisser. Consider yourself very lucky.

Now, if you'll excuse me. *cries a little*

Oh, I'm very sorry Mr. Rainbow, I didn't mean to offend you! xD

Damn straight!

[sup]Ungrateful kids nowadays.[/sup]

I was 12... his beard tickled

7/10


Never kissed, or even had a girlfriend for that matter. There was one girl who I was deeply attracted to (the only girl I've ever met with a personality similar to mine), and we were best friends. I was planning to tell her how I felt, but then she came out as a lesbian.

My inner reaction: FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCK.

Okay, that's hilarious. Sorry.

 

[Moonlight Butterfly]

I was like 10 in a school disco and messing around in our locker room that was ajoined to the school hall when a guy called Ross kissed me. I glared at him then punched him.

I didn't really bother with boys until the end of secondary school, I just wasn't interested. Most of my friends were guys and if I found out they were hanging with me cos they fancied me I felt...betrayed.

I guess I'm wierd huh.

Makes sense. It'd hurt in a way to think someone you called a friend had another motive for their kindness. Not a bad motive, but not a completely honest one, I guess.

Well thanks Mr Rainbow It's nice to know somone gets it at least.

GOd what a jerk. Glad he got punched in the face

I KNOW RIGHT? But really I was a total tomboy back then and he could have given me the LURGI jeeeeez.

 

[GameMaNiAC]

Well, I was 14 and my girlfriend and I were taking a walk in the woods. We just stopped to cuddle for a little. We kept our faces very close and I could tell she was waiting for me to do it. We just spent 5 minutes looking at each other in awkwardness, I was trying to build up my courage. Finally, I manned up and just went for it. She immediately kissed back and I could feel her smiling as we did it. Such sweet memories.

 

[theevilsanta]

My first first was when I six or so at a friend of the family's house or something with their daughter of a similar age. We got in big trouble when we were caught, mostly because she turned out to be my second cousin.

I'm about 90% sure of the time and place of my real first kiss though. My eyes were closed when it happened, and I was too chickenshit at the time to open my eyes and confirm and/or go back in for more. So I'm not sure if it was a kiss or she just pushed a finger against my lips or something. When I was 14 I had this weird idea that I didn't like any girls and didn't want a girlfriend until I was older, so I just tortured myself hanging out and cuddling with female friends but never trying to take it farther because "no one needs to be in a relationship at that age". I guess I saved myself a lot of drama though.

About 10 months ago, with the girl I'm still with. I told her I really liked her, she said she liked me too. I asked could I kiss her, then our lips met. It was ok, nothing huge. We've got plenty of styles now though :3

It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.

Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!

I don't know why everyone's giving you so much shit. Possessiveness and jealousy are natural emotions. Six years and a marriage with my SO and I still clench my fists when I think about the guys she was with before we got together. I think the worst part is that I liked her while she was with these other guys. Even though we weren't together yet it felt like a betrayal because I was pretty devoted to making her and her alone mine.

It's a totally irrational feeling though, and you have to always tell yourself that when you start to have those feelings. For me, time has worked wonders. And even better, getting yourself out of an environment where you have to see those other guys everyday. I'm assuming you're in HS, so after graduation you can distance yourself and it all seems even more foolish and hurts a lot less.

It'll always hurt a little though. I'm convinced of that. Even if I only get an eye twitch now on the rare occasions I think about it.

 

[krseyffert]

I was 14, 10 days off my 15th birthday. It was on her 15th birthday.

 

[David Out]

Happened when I was 16. Halloween Party, playing spin the bottle. Oddly enough, it was with my first crush (I was 5 when I had it), of course the crush was long gone by then, but who else can say that their first kiss was with their first crush, 11 years after he/she met him/her.

 

[Midnight Crossroads]

I was 13 or 14, don't remember really. It was with one of my best guy friends that I'd had a crush on for ages, out on a camping trip in the woods by a fire. Aww.

D'awwww. How mushy :3

I was twelve; we were on the back of the bus. It was my stop when she grabbed me and kissed me goodbye. I walked home quite proud of myself.

Did the strut music play, Simpsons style?

I may have heard music. It was pretty awesome.

 

[similar.squirrel]

It was great. I was 15, and I had a massive crush on the girl. Managed to have my first kiss whilst hanging upside down from her bed while she leaned against it. Or maybe it was the other way around. It was great, anyway.

 

[jamman]

18 and still waiting...

It will come in time,
and she will be super hot,
I'm sure of it............

 

[JokerCrowe]

Depends on how you define kiss. If it's "lips touching" then I was 8. I was pretty much bullied into kissing my best friend (who is a girl btw). If it's like "lips overlaping eachother", I was 20, it was a game of Truth or Dare, and this strange girl(as in "stranger") kissed my lips and my chest and my stomach. It was nice...

It's been 12 years between kisses so far, so my next kiss will probably be when I'm 32. -_-;

 

[Denamic]

I was 9 or somewhere in that general vicinity.
I always hung around with a neighboring kid, a girl, that was around 10.
We would always compete, and she would always win, and as a reward, she always demanded a kiss.
No idea when the first one was, but I must've gotten hundreds of them.
I may have lost on purpose a few times.

She moved to another city when I was around 11 though.

 

[mmffgg]

I was... Hell, 14 or 15 (I know it was early freshman year). She came over to watch a movie or something, but we ended up having more fun playing with my puppy. We wrestled around and such, as kids are apt to do, and then ended up watching Burn Notice or something, with her laying across my lap on the couch. I pretty much worked up the courage, said "To hell with consequences" and leaned down and kissed her. It was.. Sweet, to say the least.

We were literally together for less than a week, and we ended up fooling around several months later after breaking up with my next girlfriend. The next time, though, there was nothing romantic or enjoyable about it, it was just mechanical.

 

[mmffgg]

I was... Hell, 14 or 15 (I know it was early freshman year). She came over to watch a movie or something, but we ended up having more fun playing with my puppy. We wrestled around and such, as kids are apt to do, and then ended up watching Burn Notice or something, with her laying across my lap on the couch. I pretty much worked up the courage, said "To hell with consequences" and leaned down and kissed her. It was.. Sweet, to say the least.

We were literally together for less than a week, and we ended up fooling around several months later after breaking up with my next girlfriend. The next time, though, there was nothing romantic or enjoyable about it, it was just mechanical.

 

[Dr. wonderful]

18 and still waiting...

It will come in time,
and she will be super hot,
I'm sure of it............

You and me in the same boat.

 

[aei_haruko]

I was like 10 in a school disco and messing around in our locker room that was ajoined to the school hall when a guy called Ross kissed me. I glared at him then punched him.

I didn't really bother with boys until the end of secondary school, I just wasn't interested. Most of my friends were guys and if I found out they were hanging with me cos they fancied me I felt...betrayed.

I guess I'm wierd huh.

Makes sense. It'd hurt in a way to think someone you called a friend had another motive for their kindness. Not a bad motive, but not a completely honest one, I guess.

Well thanks Mr Rainbow It's nice to know somone gets it at least.

GOd what a jerk. Glad he got punched in the face

I KNOW RIGHT? But really I was a total tomboy back then and he could have given me the LURGI jeeeeez.

I feel old now, Whats a LURGI? Btw, if a guy tries to grab you, I'd pull out a nice nikyo. (aikido arm lock, if you look at my icon thats me diving over a table in my class) Also Tomoys are AWESOME. Like I've got an amazing tomboy asian girlfriend whom I'd die a thousand deaths for, she doesn't act insane, she doesn't get all maniac depressive, and she MAKES sense. I'd have kissed a girl earlier if any girl who I'd known was as awesome and actually wasn't creeped out by my weird-ness

 

[SilentCom]

Kissing scares me. I don't want someone else's face that close to mine. >_<

 

[universaltraveller]

Never kissed, or even had a girlfriend for that matter. There was one girl who I was deeply attracted to (the only girl I've ever met with a personality similar to mine), and we were best friends. I was planning to tell her how I felt, but then she came out as a lesbian.

My inner reaction: FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCK.

That's unlucky man... Lesbians are no fun.

 

[StarsintheBlood]

About 10 months ago, with the girl I'm still with. I told her I really liked her, she said she liked me too. I asked could I kiss her, then our lips met. It was ok, nothing huge. We've got plenty of styles now though :3

It bugs me though, even now, that I wasn't her first kiss. She says she regrets etc and wishes she'd waited for me, and some boys even managed to bite her lip and make her bleed.

Anyone know of a way to stop thinking about it? Kind of like jealousy I wasn't there first. It's ruining me, and she just feels guilty. If anyone has suggestions please say!

You can't change what's happened, no point throwing a fit over something like that. Instead of being the first guy she's ever kissed, at least you can do your best to be the last.