Part of what might make all this make more sense if we actually say what we mean by which is the better zelda game.
I still go for ocarina of time, though just about any zelda game is better than most of the trash out there. Ocarina of time had graphics and changed a lot of things about gameplay, and you can't deny how it changed the zelda series and modern gaming significantly. in terms of impact, I don't think there are many games out there that can match Ocarina of Time, let alone zelda games.
I also really enjoyed the story of OoT, and considering it had about a quarter of the dialog that a lot of modern games have in the same scale, I think it still trumps almost every other story out there.
I thought the controls were fine, I always really enjoyed the z-targeting system, always made me feel in control and it paced the game out better by focusing you on a single target at a time.
Ocarina of time was a defining game of its generation, which had the first forays in true 3D. I'm not as familiar with ALTTP as OoT, i played that a while ago and i just finished OoT again about a week ago, but regardless of personal opinion I think everyone should give OoT the credit its due as a great game, perhaps one of the best.