Yes, that's what they're saying, that physically that person is the gender they were born, any sexual actions taken with another person of the same physical gender would be considered gay (there's NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS), you can have your opinion that they wouldn't or shouldn't be, that's fine, but that's how they see it, and that's how the rest of the world sees it too, and I doubt that's going to change any time soon.JimB said:If that's the case, then he's still saying someone born male who identifies as female is male, since having sex with her is gay.Warachia said:I don't know what you mean by "is on the you don't side of the equation."
I said something to the effect of, "Either you support them, or you don't." I believe razer17 doesn't: therefore, he comes down on the "you don't" side of that binary question.
Thanks for clearing that up, but you did assume quite a bit from very little, they said what they thought about the definition of a single act, and you assumed you knew their entire stance on the matter from that.
I want to ask one more question, WHY DOES IT MATTER? If a transsexual person who is physically male has sex with another person who is physically male, why do you care so much that it's called a gay action? I genuinely want to know, does it really have that much impact? Because it seems like we're debating over a really trivial issue.
The rest of this reply is long, so as to not take up a very large section of the page it will be put into a spoiler:
You don't remember it correctly then, people were against the possibility of a gay Sheppard, they weren't against the scene itself, that's why they were making a poor argument, trying to connect gays to pedophiles, like you were doing with civilians to criminals.JimB said:If I remember that conversation correctly, the people saying so want to argue that consensual sex between two adults of the same gender is equivalent to an adult preying upon a child, so I don't much care what those people think "inclusion" means.Warachia said:A little while ago I watched an old Jimquisition episode where he was addressing a gay Sheppard in Mass Effect 3 (the episode's called "a Case for a Gay Sheppard"). People were saying that if you want to include gay people, you needed to include pedophiles since otherwise it would be discriminatory, despite the two being entirely different.
And I don't think that jokes about a group of people who are offended by the jokes are similar to jokes about a group of people who, to all current evidence, are not offended by them.
Making a joke insulting a group, then making a joke where you insult another group is similar, if you shot an intruder in your home for no reason (as in you did it for the sake of doing it, you weren't even concerned about self defence), and then shot a random civilian, that would be similar, the reason your earlier example didn't work is because the person could be doing the shootings for two entirely separate reasons.
What I'm saying is intent is what's important, if there was a joke aimed at one group, and meant to infuriate that group, then the person who made the joke made another one, but this supported a different group of people, these people wouldn't be in the same camp so to speak, it doesn't usually depend on how the group reacts.
That's why I said I had nothing more to add, I was simply their position, if you want to talk further about it, you would want to talk to them because I don't have anything else on that matter.JimB said:He's also saying that the selfishness is inherently hypocritical. I don't object to describing the guy as selfish, but the hypocrisy part gets me, and my text that you are responding to is why.Warachia said:They don't have anything to say about gender dysphoria (as far as I remember), because they aren't psychology textbooks.
Then I'm not much interested in his cherry-picked evidence.
I never said it does. I asked him to explain in detail what sex is, citing people who have more authority to make those judgments than he does. I personally do not believe chromosomal pairings are enough, because they ignore the complexity of the brain and its interactions with the body. If he wants to convince me otherwise, then he's going to have to do more work than some flip "Every biology book ever, none of which I will reference by name or quote because that's how right I am" crap.
That's not cherry picked evidence, biologically if you have one X chromosome, and one Y chromosome, you are male, end of story, how you see yourself is certainly up to you, but you can't ignore your physical characteristics, if you do, then you are the one doing the cherry picking, not to mention, you are getting mad that a textbook includes nothing from an entirely different field of study, that's like getting angry that Math teaches you nothing about English and believing it should because of algebra.
Unfortunately your personal beliefs don't change reality, but since you wanted those citations, here you go:
There, you can have it both ways depending on how you look at it, everybody's right! Unfortunately I bet you want a definite answer, so let's look some more:gender
1. The sex of an individual, male or female, based on reproductive anatomy.
2. Sexual identity, especially in relation to society or culture.
Source: http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/gender
In this way, it can have the same 2 meanings as the previous one, I guess gender is subjective, so let's look at sex then:Definition of GENDER
1: sex 1
2: the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/medical/gender
All right, so sex isn't subjective, but since this might still be a little vague, how do they define "Male and Females"?Definition of SEX
1: either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as male or female
2: the sum of the structural, functional, and behavioral characteristics of living things that are involved in reproduction by two interacting parents and that distinguish males and females
3a: sexually motivated phenomena or behavior
b: sexual intercourse
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/medical/sex
All right, so now we know, sex isn't subjective, as shown through Sex 1 and 2, Male 1b, and female 1a, though gender is.Definition of MALE
1a: a male person : a man or a boy
b: an individual that produces small usually motile gametes (as spermatozoa or spermatozoids) which fertilize the eggs of a female
2: a staminate plant
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/male
Definition of FEMALE
1a (1) : of, relating to, or being the sex that bears young or produces eggs (2) : pistillate
b (1) : composed of members of the female sex (2) : characteristic of girls or women
2: having some quality (as gentleness) associated with the female sex
3: designed with a hollow or groove into which a corresponding male part fits
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/female
Here's a page that could have saved me time with those other pages, though I'm sure you would have asked for it anyway:
And there we have it, now let's ask, what is considered gay/homosexual?"What Is The Difference Between Sex And Gender?"
"The words sex and gender are commonly used interchangeably, but many linguists would argue that their usage is quite distinct. Sex refers to the biological and physiological characteristics, while gender refers to behaviors, roles, expectations, and activities in society."
"Sex refers to male or female, while gender refers to masculine or feminine."
"The differences in the sexes do not vary throughout the world, but differences in gender do."
Source: http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/232363.php
Huh, it's based on sex, not gender, so a transsexual man having sex with another man would be gay/homosexual.Definition of HOMOSEXUAL
1: of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward another of the same sex
2: of, relating to, or involving sexual intercourse between persons of the same sex
Source: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/homosexual