Recent content by Melian

When I was 16 and with my long-time boyfriend. It was not much to speak of, but it got better over time. :) Honestly, it was more of a relief to be done with it, because after the first time most of the anxiety and nervousness disappeared.

If you don't have a problem with it, then you should do as you feel like. I didn't manage to use contacts for more than a month before my eyes itched and got bloodshot, and some nasty headaches to top it off with. I'd say that you should use them as much as you want, as long as it feels ok.

Bag o' mixed candy or chocolate. Mmm...

Supernatural, Dollhouse, How I met Your Mother, Star Trek: Next Generation and Star Trek: Voyager. Mixed and nice! :)

I really really don't want to watch too much of a game before I play it. Right now I'm waiting for Dragon Age 2 to come to my mailbox (goddamn Europe, releasing it 2 days after USA, it's so unfair!) and it's really difficult to avoid accidental mini-spoilers around the web. I'm thinking of...

Why does her being religious "offend" you? Is it her particular religion, or is it just the fact that she's a believer? If she doesn't make a big deal out of it then why should you? I'm in a longstanding relationship where one part is agnostic and the other is religious (that's me). My husband...

You endure. You find good things in your life and even if you don't like it, you try to be sociable. Friends tend to pop up when you're not looking for them. At least, that's what I've been trying to do. Relationships, no matter if they're friendship- or romance related, are hard to get and to...

Wow, that's a really interesting question. I'd actually thought about that very question not too long ago. 1. A veterinarian. It was my dream profession as a kid, but I didn't have the grades or the inclination for it when I grew up. 2. A historian. Love history and I really wanted to study...

There are really many different alternative treatments, only one google search away! ^^ Yeah, if you say no, it's no. Doesn't matter whether it's "protocol" or whatever, you still have the final say. It's your treatment, and while she may provide it, she doesn't dictate it. It really makes me...

Yeah, CBT takes time, but it's less invasive than psychotherapy at least. Relaxing techinques like meditation, Qi Gong/Tai Chi/Yoga, and to some extent massage are some other things you could try if wish. If you're over 18 then just say no (to her wanting your parents there), she can't go...

Are your psychologist offering you any other kind of help, that is to say not pharmaceutical? There are really many different types of treatments that can help, with less side-effects and that are less invasive than drugs. :)

Ditto. I'm wondering why a simple topic like this can make so many people explode in a rage? It's a true wonder. So I echo what has been stated here before: Chill, people. Oh, and girl here too. :)

Swedish female. Very white- more porcelain than skin tone- blonde and with blue eyes. Yay, I'm a stereotype! *rolls eyes*

Yeah, it's a bit of an evil circle. I know it's really hard to try to drudge up enough energy to even get started on anything, but I'm guessing that's what you have to do anyway. And hey,we all make ridiculously stupid decisions once in a while, doesn't mean that every decision will turn out...

Like previously stated, it depends on the game. Single player games I just sort of go with what I feel like, MMO:s I tend to go by Melian or some variation of it.